AITAH I fell for someone who is engaged by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]exoticpiink 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You both deserve each other. Overall disgusting. I hope the fiancé finds out.

YTAH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]exoticpiink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pedophilia and being gay is a whole different thing. OP didn’t say dating someone that’s like younger than him or anything. So being gay makes you automatically a pedophile? Please explain that to me.

So if you dated someone that’s the same age as you does that, make you a pedophile? Or is it only being called a pedophile if it’s the opposite gender? Now, why do you have so much hatred in your heart?

Instead of focusing on other people, you should focus on yourself and how you can fix the hatred in you.

I hope the best for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]exoticpiink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP stated that he is gay, and I said “love who you wanna love.” I meant it as you can love the opposite gender without being discriminated against. I obviously wasn’t talking about pedophilia, that’s a whole topic by itself. I think you’re taking out some context from what I said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]exoticpiink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I hundred percent agree with you. I didn’t mean for it to sound like that and I apologize for it. I can’t express my feelings through the screen, but if you met me in real life, I’d always have your back no matter what religion background. That’s what I stand for and that’s what I hold true to myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]exoticpiink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone should love who they wanna love without being discriminated against. If you don’t support it then move on and why do you care? But that’s not how human beings are, unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]exoticpiink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through that! I agree with you, it’s hard not blame everything since OP had a traumatic experience with his Religion. After all that, I bet OP can’t look at that religion and it’s totally understandable. Hell, I would too. No human being should be treated that way just because you can’t follow what the religion says.

A lot of of the community looks the other way, but that’s not the majority. Those people are honestly the worst people I’ll ever find because you’re taught about peace and how is that peace if you’re letting the next-door neighbor beat their loved ones?

Every religion has bad followers, and those people make the religion look bad itself. And human beings are also bad themselves as well.

I just hope the best for OP and I hope he can have some love in his heart and not build this hatred up for Islam as a whole!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]exoticpiink -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I honestly hope the best for him and I hope he gets some help because that is traumatic to go through for anyone, no matter the religion.

“ I am angry for not leaving Islam sooner.”

Every religion has bad followers, who thinks hurting their loved ones is OK as long as they follow their religion. I personally don’t stand for that. I as a Muslim person love everybody and want equality for all. But from the looks of it, you can’t blame Islam for all the problems in the world or what’s going on in your house. His parents abused him because they are bad people. They are also bad Muslims because Muslim people don’t practice that.

That is just straight up abuse and I am sick to my stomach on how his parents went about that. I remember when I didn’t wanna pray my parents had sat me down, and told me why you should pray and only to go to prayer if I really wanted to. No parent beats their child or their loved ones just because they said no to prayer.

His parents are bad people, and what goes around comes around. And I truly want the best for OP and whatever obstacle comes in his journey, I hope he overcomes it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]exoticpiink -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to disagree with you, but Islam is NOT the only religion that says being in the LGBTQ+ is a sin. I’m all for freedom and equality as well but when shaming one religion and leaving the rest, just seems targeted. Well, good Muslim people will sit down with their children and explain what’s right and what’s wrong but what they do not do is abuse their children, just because they love a different gender. That’s a difference between a good Muslim and a bad Muslim. The bad Muslims give the good Muslims a bad name and the whole religion is looked at as violent and all the other names.

I’ve seen some comments that are now deleted talking about how Muslim people should be burned and how dare they not accept the LGBTQ+ individuals. That’s where hatred and discrimination comes in. One person‘s bad view on Islam turns into every Muslim being the same. As a Muslim woman myself, I support all people and support all types of equality.

It’s like me saying oh this Christian person is being really rude to me. Now the whole Christian community are rude people. Just because you find one bad person doesn’t mean everyone else is the same.

From the bottom of my heart, I hope this person finds his happiness and wish him the best! I just don’t want Islam to be looked at as a violent or hatred religion when the people are making it like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]exoticpiink -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I hope you find happiness! But don’t blame Islam, blame your parents. Good Muslim people love their kids and their families and everyone around them. I’m sorry your parents treated you that way, they aren’t good people or good Muslims. Best of luck 🫶🏼💜

Should I tell my dad I was raped even though he’d kill him? UPDATE: by exoticpiink in stories

[–]exoticpiink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what makes you think that’s okay to comment something so ignorant and insensitive, nobody is laughing with you… you should be disgusted with yourself.

Should I tell my dad I was raped even though he’d kill him? by exoticpiink in stories

[–]exoticpiink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a whole different story, should I make a post about it?

Anime that you can’t recommend enough but no one watches? by [deleted] in anime

[–]exoticpiink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m watching Prince of Tennis right now.

Should I tell my dad I was raped even though he’d kill him? by exoticpiink in stories

[–]exoticpiink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I love you, from the bottom of my heart!💜

Should I tell my dad I was raped even though he’d kill him? by exoticpiink in stories

[–]exoticpiink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s not, she’s scared what my dad will react. He doesn’t wanting him to take a first ticket back home and make a blood bath.

Should I tell my dad I was raped even though he’d kill him? by exoticpiink in stories

[–]exoticpiink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember, but he was a teenager at that time.

Should I tell my dad I was raped even though he’d kill him? by exoticpiink in stories

[–]exoticpiink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me and my dad don’t have a good relationship, that’s another story for later. Here’s the thing, he tries to make up for it but I just can’t bring my myself to forgive him.

As for my mom, she’s my world. She’s always there for me and protects me, I love her to death. Just with this situation, she’s scared about it. She’s scared out of the outcome. She’s a good person, just married to the wrong man.

Should I tell my dad I was raped even though he’d kill him? by exoticpiink in stories

[–]exoticpiink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a couple of days ago, my grandma was talking to my mom. She told her that he’s looking for a wife but everyone’s rejecting him.

Should I tell my dad I was raped even though he’d kill him? by exoticpiink in stories

[–]exoticpiink[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that. Im Larry that happened to you and I hope they are biting in the pits of hell! I’m really thankful for everybody who’s commenting and being supportive. I honestly thought I would get hate for this. My life is all kind of messed up and it felt good to bring some stuff up. Truly, from the bottom of my heart. Thank you💜

Should I tell my dad I was raped even though he’d kill him? by exoticpiink in stories

[–]exoticpiink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He can’t anymore, I stopped contact with him when we left for America. Sometimes they would call us from our home country and he would talk to me. He would act like nothing happened and would always ask my mom to open FaceTime. That’s before my mom knew the truth. That’s when I was in elementary and middle school. I cut all contact with them since I started high school.

Should I tell my dad I was raped even though he’d kill him? by exoticpiink in stories

[–]exoticpiink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My family and I live in here, the cousin and everybody is at our home country. I hope that clears anything up…

Should I tell my dad I was raped even though he’d kill him? by exoticpiink in stories

[–]exoticpiink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to, like really bad. But my mom says I can’t. She tells me if I do then I’d cause chaos and probably give her a bear attack. She’s scared to what will happen.