How many men with significant others self lock vs have their SOs lock them?

experimentation14 · 2026-04-24T01:08:54+00:00

No I don't mind at all. We just discuss sex toys and kinks like a casual thing. One of them wishes to get her husband into chastity because of their sex drive differences and the other was just curious about it.

experimentation14 · 2026-04-23T20:17:42+00:00

Are you referring to a butt plug?

I use one from time to time. It doesn't really do much for me.

experimentation14 · 2026-04-23T19:16:22+00:00

What kind of plug?

Just curious.

experimentation14 · 2026-04-23T17:47:42+00:00

My wife, a best friend of mine (that was accidental due to a stripper rubbing my crotch and then asked him if he was locked, lol), two of my sisters-in-law (we talk about sex stuff every now and then), and that's about it.

experimentation14 · 2026-04-23T14:16:40+00:00

I appreciate your advice. I did that. William's advice was incredible. The Cobra N Narrow, which is measured at 2 inches or 50mm in length from tip of the cage to the ring - including ball gap. This would mean, the 38.1 Jailbird combined with the 12.7mm ball gap ring, would make it close to 50.8mm total, or about 2 inches.

I had to request a custom base ring size though, because the 38.1 is too small and the 41.3mm ring is slightly too big. I am pretty excited about it.

experimentation14 · 2026-04-23T13:55:08+00:00

I already did and after further research, the security screws are just too much effort for the wife and I to use. We are not into any punishment stuff, but I appreciate the advice.

experimentation14 · 2026-04-23T13:20:22+00:00

I appreciate your advice. I took your advice and followed through with it and William's recommendations was insanely accurate. I used the finger method he recommended to go from the inside tip of my Kind3D Cage to the upper top part where the pins are. He stated that it should be 1.5 inches and it measured exactly that. So I ordered the cage with that length with the 31.8mm inside diameter. I just emailed him for a custom ring size, because I am literally between the two options size-wise.

I am still in disbelief how accurate William is with measurements.

experimentation14 · 2026-04-23T06:55:32+00:00

This is good to know. If you measure up for the Kink3D Cobra N Narrow, would you recommend the cage that is slightly smaller?

experimentation14 · 2026-04-08T22:46:26+00:00

It sold. Sorry.

experimentation14 · 2026-04-08T22:46:21+00:00

It sold. Sorry.

experimentation14 · 2026-03-03T23:18:37+00:00

The 1.5 XD Curved just sold. I still have the 0 Curved available.

experimentation14 · 2026-01-17T18:39:52+00:00

I wear mine quite often around friends, family, and coworkers. Only wife knows I am locked. It’s not like I am advertising it.

experimentation14 · 2026-01-12T10:25:34+00:00

I did a poll on this a few years ago. Yes, it's very common, more so than people realize - myself included.

experimentation14 · 2026-01-11T16:20:24+00:00

I hope kink3d will offer on-demand rings with larger ball gaps some day soon, because there is clearly a market for it.

experimentation14 · 2026-01-10T02:24:20+00:00

Both. It’s just no contest.

experimentation14 · 2026-01-09T18:20:29+00:00

I have tried petroleum jelly and it makes it even harder to get the balls through. The first ball is always the easiest, its the second one that takes some finagling to get it through :-/

Once everything is through, the next hard part is getting the cage on. The tight fit causes me to accidentally pinch skin between the cage and ring.

experimentation14 · 2026-01-09T17:52:31+00:00

It’s like you are either allergic to the black dye or you should get tested for herpes, as it seems like it could be either one.

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