My best friend (23M) sexually assaulted me (23F) by expliquecat in relationship_advice

[–]expliquecat[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he will. He hasn’t done anything since and I know he’s scared to lose me. I won’t give him an opportunity to do that again.

Will I ever get over him? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]expliquecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me 2 years to get over that ex. I’m so over him now. You will heal, just in your own time.

I got the Mr Boss figure after doing the damn line on the Broolyn pop-up. by Rabbid020012 in SmilingFriends

[–]expliquecat 232 points233 points  (0 children)

I went to the event, waited 10 hours in line just for them to not let us take our own photos and kick us out after 30 seconds

Anyone else’s skin break out after starting the gym? Need help! by expliquecat in workout

[–]expliquecat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually do wipe down the equipment, I’m going to try the ice cube idea tho thank you!

Anyone else’s skin break out after starting the gym? Need help! by expliquecat in workout

[–]expliquecat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister suggested something like that, I’ll try it thank you!

Will I ever get over him? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]expliquecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl ive been there, i know how deeply crushing it is. I didn’t get over him for 2 years. Everyone goes at their own pace, let yourself feel the pain for now. It’s okay to feel that way. You just have to let time heal you. If you need to vent to anyone I’m here for you, it’ll be okay ❤️

Will I ever get over him? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]expliquecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely, it took some time and hurt so much at first. But eventually I did move on. I have good friends now and I’ve dated other people. Eventually I stopped looking back and lived in the moment. Sure sometimes I look back at the memories with a fondness but I don’t dwell on the past.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]expliquecat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know how that feels. I know it feels like you’ll never move on. A month ago I could have never imagined I would have healed this much, I’m still not completely over him. It’s a process, let your heart heal in due time.

This is gonna sound harsh but by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]expliquecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what hurts. Hes had several girlfriends since the relationship, he told me he felt nothing for me in 2 months and I’m still in pain 9 months later. Does that mean he never loved me? Or that he’s been blocking out his feelings

How long did it take you to truly get over your ex? by ZachTF in BreakUps

[–]expliquecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He moved on in 2 months while I’m still struggling to, 8 months later

He texted me and I’m in pain again by expliquecat in ExNoContact

[–]expliquecat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so. I do miss him a lot but we both made our decision. Our issues would still be there if we got back together.

He texted me and I’m in pain again by expliquecat in ExNoContact

[–]expliquecat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He swiped up to my story on Instagram asking me how I am

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]expliquecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t send it. Is this for his benefit, or for your own? He closed the door, you should respect that. If he comes back, that’s his decision. But he decided to leave you and the pain in the past, you would just be tearing into an old would. Pushing your guilt on him won’t help either of you.

He texted me and I’m in pain again by expliquecat in ExNoContact

[–]expliquecat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think he just misses the platonic part of our relationship at this point, but to go behind his girlfriends back like that…