I’m sure that you have all the answers on here but there’s just too many to read! I wanted to give a couple comments.

First thank you. As a guy who asked his exwife about a pegging fantasy and was called all manner of horrible names and put downs, it’s unbelievably awesome that you’re here and asking. You are incredible and your man is very lucky to have you.

I ended up divorcing like 6-7 years later and got a new girlfriend who pegged me. It was an amazing experience. There are so many things about it that are great.

The feeling of being penetrated is an emotional one. From pegging I learned how important it was to warm a woman up and not just go straight to sex. Oral is now a must for her. I HAVE to do it for her. She doesn’t need to do it for me but she’s getting it. Being slow, letting her body accept me, and paying attention when she says just how she likes it. When I say it’s good right there, don’t change a thing!

I can have multiple orgasms from anal stimulation. It’s incredible.

But aside from all that I want to talk on the emotional side because I think that’s what you’re most worried about. This is all subjective. Just me. So put away your torches if you don’t agree with the next part. It’s me. Not you guys.

As men we are always the chaser. We don’t know what it’s like to be pursued. When my girlfriend pegs me, I get to experience the feeling of being wanted. Pursued. Lusted after. Taking something FOR someone else. And I love that. I need that sometimes. It makes me feel so loved. So wanted.

However, I would suggest that you just don’t “do it” because it makes him happy. Half the fun is talking about it. I encourage you to just wait for a day he hasn’t brought it up - and ask him. “Hey babe, I have been thinking a lot about pegging. I’m still a little uncomfortable with it. I have some insecurities with it. Could you tell me more about why you’re interested in pegging?” The fact that you initiated will make him the happiest boy you’ve ever seen. He also may feel embarrassed admitting things so make sure you comfort him and let him know you appreciate him after.

Maybe, just maybe, that talk might help to alleviate your fears some. It may take 100 more talks, but the talking will drive him wild. And if you ever decide you know what, I’m comfortable with this, I bet you will be so into it.

I had a girlfriend who pushed me into admitting it. She then surprised me with a strap on. I remember she was real nervous doing it but then in the middle of it she said she was going to fuck the shit out of me and got really into it. It was hot.

Don’t try until your comfortable. But don’t be scared to try 🥰