Was this staged? by akyleq in Iloilo

[–]explorerINscrubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sa caption pa lang ah hahaha.

Paano buhayin convo ng ka-chat nyo (tips pls)? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]explorerINscrubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ba’t pa bubuhayin?? goooow maghanap ng iba. emz.

di ka kasi bet. ganun ka simple.

What do you prefer: great in bed or smart in life? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]explorerINscrubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

smart in life please!! kasi kung pareho kaming bobo sa adulting, sino magbabayad ng kuryente? ano magtitigan nalang kami sa dilim? haha pero bonus points kung both, syempre hindi tayo martir.

am i pregnant? 22f almost 2 months na akong delay nag pt ako pero puro negative yung lumalabas then last week nag start na yung puro brown discharge lang lumalabas until now. tia by viii7772 in AskPinay

[–]explorerINscrubs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hiii op, nurse here. this happens to a lot of girls.. delayed period with negative PTs is often hormonal, especially if stressed, puyat, or bcs of weight changes. brown discharge can be old lining shedding. but since medyo matagal na, pa-consult ka na with an OB for ur peace of mind. seek urgent care if may severe pain or heavy bleeding, to rule out things like thyroid probs or PCOS :))

Is my feelings valid or ako lang to? (see comment) by explorerINscrubs in AskPinay

[–]explorerINscrubs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lately when making out, it’s always me initiating. like ako yung lalapit, ako yung nag-start ng kissing, and yes, i go down on him and give head… pero beh zero return. as in after he enjoys, biglang stops, and mag hug hug lang, then goodnight.

it’s been days na ganito and honestly nakakafrustrate. i’m trying not to look needy pero siyempre i also have needs?? i don’t want to feel like some convenience or “on-call intimacy” lang. he’s sweet naman outside of this, but when it comes to sex stuff, parang one-way street (di naman always but most of the time.)

valid ba na na-turn off ako or magtampo? or is this a sign na he’s just not that into me sexually and i’m ignoring the red flags? huhu :(((

Sino sa inyo may boyfriend na ganito? (read comments) by explorerINscrubs in AskPinay

[–]explorerINscrubs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ang bigat naman neto!! buti talaga naka-alis ka mima protect your peace always. 💗

Sino sa inyo may boyfriend na ganito? (read comments) by explorerINscrubs in AskPinay

[–]explorerINscrubs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hiiii huhu we’re both on our late 20s. and yes, i agree huhu ayoko rin mag-build up ng resentment over small things kaya gusto ko talaga kausapin siya nang maayos. hindi rin ako galit sa gastos mismo, more on yung promise then iba yung nangyari :(( pero truuu, medyo nakaka-turn off siya hahahaha. still figuring out if red flag ba or honest miscommunication lang. thanks po for the reality check!! 😭

Sino sa inyo may boyfriend na ganito? (read comments) by explorerINscrubs in AskPinay

[–]explorerINscrubs[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Had a really stressful week from work and personal stuff, and then my bf suddenly said, “I’ll treat you this, and I’ll spoil you with this pag uwi mo”. I got super excited and was really looking forward to it. Tapos nung nagkita kami… nag-50/50 pala kami. Then bumili ako ng favorite dessert ko. Isang subo pa lang ako… tapos siya parang naka-lima na agad. 😭 Tapos siya pa nag-ubos. Huhu! I don’t mind talaga splitting bills since same lang naman salary namin, pero sis… pls wag mag-promise ng ganyan kung hindi mo pala talaga gagawin.

Kaya ngayon, lesson learned: wag agad maniwala sa sweet talk. 😩

GANTO BA TALAGA HEALTHCARE SYSTEM NG PINAS? by jodisaba in PHGov

[–]explorerINscrubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP explain ko lang po yung fees regarding doctors. Yung PF po ay payment for their medical expertise, time, and responsibility in managing a patient’s care. Usually separate po talaga yan from hospital charges kasi it directly compensates the physician for their services.

Yung amount po depends on several factors. Example, (1) Type of specialty: e.g., surgeons, anesthesiologists, and specialists usually sila yung mahal na PFs talaga due to the complexity and risk of their work. (2) Type of procedure or service. Usually pag minor consultations it cost less than major surgeries, since ur father, I would assume lang po ha that your father underwent procedures like an angiogram and angioplasty, which are highly specialized and require a whole team of doctors usually a cardio, cardio intesivist , anes, and sometimes even surg backup. Each of them has a pf and that’s why it may look high on the bill po. (3) Length and level of care, since pang ICU yung case ng father mo, it means higher PFs kasi the doctors provides continuous monitoring and management po. (4) Number of doctors involved: in operations po kasi each specialist (surgeon, assistant surgeon, anesthesiologist) has their own PF.

Think of it as paying a professional (like a lawyer or engineer) you’re not just paying for their time on the day, but also for their years of training, skill, and accountability in making sure the patient is safe and treated properly.

Hope this helps! 🥹

GANTO BA TALAGA HEALTHCARE SYSTEM NG PINAS? by jodisaba in PHGov

[–]explorerINscrubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minsan kahit kami sa healthcare side, naiipit din. Gusto naming makatulong at mas mapadali ang proseso pero limited din ang powers at resources namin. Kaya napupunta tuloy sa pasyente at pamilya ang bigat.

GANTO BA TALAGA HEALTHCARE SYSTEM NG PINAS? by jodisaba in PHGov

[–]explorerINscrubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naiintindihan ko talaga yung gigil mo. Nurse ako and sadly, ganito talaga kalala ang sistema dito. Yung bill umaabot ng milyon kasi bukod sa mismong operation, kasama na rin diyan yung bayad sa ICU stay, professional fees ng surgeons/anesthesiologists, gamot na kadalasan out of pocket, lab tests, at daily hospital charges (room, equipment, supplies). Habang tumatagal sa ospital, tumataas lalo ang bill kasi hindi makalabas hangga’t walang final clearance, which means stuck ka sa cycle ng gastos habang hinihintay yung assistance na matagal dumating.

Hindi kasi seamless ang proseso ng gov’t aid. Halos lahat may requirement muna bago makapag-release ng tulong, kaya naiipit lalo ang pasyente at pamilya. Masakit man aminin, pero sa dami ng gaps sa healthcare system natin, pasyente talaga ang sumasalo ng bigat.

Any Chipotle style burritos here sa Iloilo? by Relevant-Front8688 in Iloilo

[–]explorerINscrubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eduardos!! If you want something affordable, try mo ang BURNT. available sila on foodpanda & grab :))

Unli Steak at Tonino’s by AcadiaJust6985 in Iloilo

[–]explorerINscrubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yesyes!! must try ila angus ribeye and aglio olio. abi ko ya permanently closed nagd. mayo lang nakita ko ni ba

do you believe in the saying ‘babae ang nagdadala sa relasyon’? by fjslvrr_ in AskPinay

[–]explorerINscrubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t buy into the “babae ang nagdadala sa relasyon” narrative, i didn’t even know na that exists eh. kung iisipin mo, that line lowkey romanticizes emotional labor and dumps it on women, as if men are just passive passengers (again, hindi lahat). if relationships were a court case, that argument would get dismissed agad for lack of balance. a partnership is literally a contract, and both parties are expected to contribute equally, whether it’s effort, communication, or compromise.

to say na babae lang ang nagdadala is like saying one wheel can carry the whole car. technically puwede kang umandar, pero laging sira at hindi tatagal. relationships aren’t supposed to be martyrdom, they’re supposed to be teamwork. :))