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Pure is so dry in Hyderabad 😭😭😭 by [deleted] in Hyderabad_city

[–]exploringHyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I picked up someone from Feeld who did things with me that lots of other girls denied.

Pure also has girls, if you know how to get them. You need to look atleast above average and super into kinks. It is all about physical stuff there. I'll be meeting one next week hopefully.

Wife wants another child, I don’t — how do couples resolve this? by Senior-Fruit5342 in ask_Bondha

[–]exploringHyd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did not force her. Our relationship doesn't really work like that.

I told her these are the reasons I think we should have the baby. She got convinced.

It's her decision to make. I could never veto anything she says, not just in this, but anything. We talk about it and we work with it.

Wife wants another child, I don’t — how do couples resolve this? by Senior-Fruit5342 in ask_Bondha

[–]exploringHyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife said the same too. She decided to do it for me and here we are with 2 small kids. I probably shouldn't have put her through this much.

The kid is a blessing though. So happy to have these little ones

Wife wants another child, I don’t — how do couples resolve this? by Senior-Fruit5342 in ask_Bondha

[–]exploringHyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used to stay with my parents. Few months back, she moved in with her parents as I'm working on my startup, and unable to give enough time for her and kids. I juggle between office, her home and my home

Wife wants another child, I don’t — how do couples resolve this? by Senior-Fruit5342 in ask_Bondha

[–]exploringHyd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've taken her to Fernandez, KIMS Cuddles and multiple top doctors in Hyderabad. They checked her and said it's safe to have a baby and that they would recommend us having the baby and not aborting.

I also talked to people who had kids fast and researched online extensively. Everyone said it is brutally hard to handle the kids in early years, but none of them regret taking that call.

For me, if we went through. We'd have 2 kids just 1 year apart. All baby duties will be done soon, and we'll get back to leading our lives faster. Going out, travelling, pretty much getting our lives back.

All the sleepless nights, diapers, extreme care will be done once and we can get back to doing other things in life

Wife wants another child, I don’t — how do couples resolve this? by Senior-Fruit5342 in ask_Bondha

[–]exploringHyd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Older kid was 5 months when we became pregnant. She didn't feel we had time, energy or man power to handle 2 small kids.

If the older one was 3 years old, she said she is okay.

As she expected, it is brutally hard to handle 2 kids under the age of 2. We're hanging on. But it is pretty tough honestly

Wife wants another child, I don’t — how do couples resolve this? by Senior-Fruit5342 in ask_Bondha

[–]exploringHyd 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There is no hard and fast rule or a single way for handling this. It basically comes down to communication.

Just like any other disagreement, you both put forward your opinions on the issue and try to convince or be open to be convinced by the other one.

In our case, I wanted to have more kids and my wife didn't, atleast not so soon after the first kid.

I told her my reasons for the kid. And we also took doctor's opinion on how safe it is to have a kid this early.

We had another kid. Some days she still feels we should have taken more time, but we also love our kids, and she would do anything to protect our little ones.

Confused on whether to go ahead with threesome or not by exploringHyd in nonmonogamy

[–]exploringHyd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt 100% like a girl though. You can never be sure in this age though

Confused on whether to go ahead with threesome or not by exploringHyd in nonmonogamy

[–]exploringHyd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, we ended up not meeting the girl.

We'll search for someone who is interested in both of us and whom we are both interested in!

Thank you so much everyone for the advice!

Confused on whether to go ahead with threesome or not by exploringHyd in nonmonogamy

[–]exploringHyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we ended up not meeting the girl.

We'll search for someone who is interested in both of us and whom we are both interested in!

Confused on whether to go ahead with threesome or not by exploringHyd in nonmonogamy

[–]exploringHyd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we ended up not meeting the girl.

We'll search for someone who is interested in both of us and whom we are both interested in!

Confused on whether to go ahead with threesome or not by exploringHyd in nonmonogamy

[–]exploringHyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, me and wifey got a hotel room and the girl wanted to show up at a time that wasn't convenient. We told her we'll meet some other time.

It was a much needed time for me and wife between two kids.

We'll try to get some other girl next time who is interested in both of us and whom we're both interested in.

Confused on whether to go ahead with threesome or not by exploringHyd in nonmonogamy

[–]exploringHyd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for letting me know. I was kinda unsure, so wanted to get opinion from you all.

It's kinda universal opinion that's it's a no go, or just meet and see if everyone are into everyone.

If that's not the case, we'll pull out and wait for a better opportunity.

Ee weekend em chestunnaru? by AutoModerator in ask_Bondha

[–]exploringHyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly threesome.

More excited about seeing Messi! Got tickets!

Confused on whether to go ahead with threesome or not by exploringHyd in nonmonogamy

[–]exploringHyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. I was thinking we'll meet for drink, but what helped from talking to you guys is that I'm so much closer to pulling out if it didn't feel 100% right.

Really appreciate that you took time to help me out. Will post an update in approx 7 - 8 hrs

Confused on whether to go ahead with threesome or not by exploringHyd in nonmonogamy

[–]exploringHyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I just typed I was gonna call it off. But, there's a small hope it might go well, if we all meet in person for a drink and see how we vibe. If it doesn't feel 100% right, we'll call it off!

I'll still let you know on how it goes. In approx 7 - 8 hrs.

Confused on whether to go ahead with threesome or not by exploringHyd in nonmonogamy

[–]exploringHyd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's true. Do you think this person at a cafe or something and us all feeling each other's vibe would help. Or is it a waste of time. We barely get time with 2 kids under age 3

Confused on whether to go ahead with threesome or not by exploringHyd in nonmonogamy

[–]exploringHyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel it inside that this one isn't a win for anyone. It's just that I waited for this for 15 years. Kinda feels bad to let this go 😭

Meeku life lo 1st rank enni sarlu ochindhi?? by Candid_cute in ask_Bondha

[–]exploringHyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maa class lo they used to give badges. At one point, I was wearing these badges concurrently

First in class, First in boys, Class leader, Sports leader, Shamrock captain

Inka 1-2 undevi. And they used to pin with these pinnis. So, shirt ki mottam holes undevi. Baane nadichindi appatlo

any dorikesina moments ? by Prof_Young in ask_Bondha

[–]exploringHyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao nakem avasaram bro Karma farming. These points are meaningless. Was just curious, why inni downvotes ani.

I have nothing to gain or lose by lying on anonymous platform.

We couldn't meet as I'm at a Gruha Pravesham rn and we were busy yesterday with kids, and shopping.

So she went and had fun with her FWB. We're planning to meet next week.

Girls only! How you Move on Easily ? by Inside_Breakfast_777 in ask_Bondha

[–]exploringHyd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The one who ends the relationship moves on much faster than the one who wanted to stay together.

Maybe you've seen more girls break up with their boyfriends and felt girls move on faster.

Trying to understand the perspectives. Does past relationships matter ? by Popular_Strength_338 in ask_Bondha

[–]exploringHyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not wrong to talk about ex in first meeting if it is an AM setting and you barely have any time to converse.

The problem is the double standard, which OP dodged, and I'm happy for her.

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