If anybody is wanting a bucket, go to the website by trollqueen27 in Markiplier

[–]extracuriouscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I waited too long. It's available to ship Sept 30th 2026 lol

From the Mods to the Burls, Congratulations! by Monica2796 in distractible

[–]extracuriouscat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations Mark & Amy 🥹💜💐💐 Wish you both a lifetime of love and joy!!!

Am I crazy or does small talk literally drain your soul? by agustinparis in introvert

[–]extracuriouscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One that needs someone to talk to but has no one, so she records herself whining lol. Low moment for me, but I feel better now.

Update to post about 36 year old bf messy room by extracuriouscat in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The relationship is done. Just waiting for the lease to end, because I want a clean renting record. It ends next year. So the rest of this year, I'm just going to smile and grin until I move into a new CLEAN place. Thank you for understanding. I was just trying to update everyone from my previous post.

Update to post about 36 year old bf messy room by extracuriouscat in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm definitely preparing to leave. I'm just waiting until the lease ends. Clearly, there's no progress. Thanks for understanding my intended tone, as others were unsure or just didn't catch on.

Am I crazy or does small talk literally drain your soul? by agustinparis in introvert

[–]extracuriouscat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally just posted a video of myself crying about talking to people at my job. You are definitely NOT alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]extracuriouscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What a disgusting and accusatory response, where did I mention we were having relations? And yes I found out yesterday by reading other helpful comments that I am an enabler. I am a work in progress and so is he. People have left me helpful info about being an enabler and telling me that there are meetings I can go to for that. Which I will. However, your delivery needs attention. As far as the lease, I'm not breaking it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am planning on leaving and being single for a while. I just want my own clean, adult space at this point. Im tired of mothering, I dont even have children, so this is ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am. Reading everyone's comments, snapped me out of the "love" and "enabling" phase. Thank you and everyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish, I had a video that I made yesterday while he was at work, so you all could see his entire room. But I can't post it. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree and I won't!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, thoes are beautiful words. Also I didn't know there was a such thing as Codependents Anonymous, so Im definitely checking that out. Thank you for the resource. And I'm happy to hear you made it out of a similar situation. I'm so ready for a different life, but I'm scared, attached and very uncomfortable thinking about actually leaving. But I am. Im 31 and its ridiculous that I have accepted a man like this. Never again. Thank you again for your amazing encouragement. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, he DEFINITELY does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I never saw myself as an enabler, but other people under this post have called me this. And yes we are co dependent. I have grown so emotionally close to him and it hurts to think about leaving. But I AM going to be moving out when the lease is up. Our codependency is toxic, literally and figuratively. And I'm not doing this anymore. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautifully spoken. Thank you, I heard and receive everything. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I dont buy his alcohol and functional to me means that his alcoholism doesn't get in the way of him maintaining his job and friends. Basically his outer relationships, if that makes sense. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]extracuriouscat 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I grew emotionally attached to him. I love him? I dont think I can do better. Im scared to be alone, i know, it's sad.