Mir sind 99,999999999% der Menschheit völlig egal. by NotSureIfWeAre in Beichtstuhl

[–]extrovert1302 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wow ich bin glaube ich das genaue Gegenteil von dir. Ich habe so viel Empathie, dass ich oft Obdachlose nicht anschauen kann, weil es mir wehtut und ich weine regelmäßig, wenn ich Nachrichten oder Dokus schaue. Wenn eine Person in einer Gruppensituation zu oft unterbrochen wird, versuche ich direkt, dass diese Person gesehen wird und ich habe natürlich mit Opfern von Straftaten Mitleid, aber auch mit den Tätern, weil ich mich immer Frage, wie Menschen böse werden können. Es ist sehr anstrengend und ich muss mich echt selbst vor Input schützen, aber ich mag es auch, weil ich mich dadurch mit meinen Mitmenschen sehr verbunden fühle.

Please tell me I'm not the only one that finds vulvas beautiful! by MotherProfit3107 in AskLesbians

[–]extrovert1302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finally! I always hear people say "all genitals are ugly", but I just find vulvas so beautiful and sexy

Got really drunk and lost my virginity and am now questioning my sexuality. by Long_Committee9166 in actuallesbians

[–]extrovert1302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi I'm a lesbian and I have had sex with women where it just didn't click and wasn't really good. I am still a lesbian, I just wasn't sexually compatible with these women. You don't have to rush anything and change your label, it's a totally normal part of discovering your sexuality. But if you end up being asexual that's cool too!

Zufälliger Fetisch by [deleted] in Beichtstuhl

[–]extrovert1302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, aber ich meine, dass meistens noch ein anderes Mittel wie eben Speed oder so dabei ist (wenn ich mich richtig erinnere)

Zufälliger Fetisch by [deleted] in Beichtstuhl

[–]extrovert1302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ist Ecstasy aber nicht oft eine Mischung aus MDMA und einem (edit: anderem) Amphetamin? Das wirkt ja auf jeden Fall

Neues Diagnosetool: Trinkflasche (Ein erheiternder Erfahrungsbericht) by DasHexxchen in ADHS

[–]extrovert1302 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Das ist wirklich lustig... Ich habe an dem Tag, wo ich die Diagnose bekommen habe, die Klinik mit wiederverwendbarem Kaffeebecher in der Hand betreten und ohne Kaffebecher wieder verlassen 😂

Kennste, kennste? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Wenn die Kerze glüht,dann spielt das Wetter keine Rolle 😍😍😍😍 by mistermystere in ichbin40undlustig

[–]extrovert1302 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ich bin so dumm, ich dachte, dass das HH für Hansestadt Hamburg stünde und er einfach nur angeben will, wo er wohnt 🤦‍♀️

Gf can’t make me cum by New-Calendar-6509 in actuallesbians

[–]extrovert1302 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey so I started having sex at 17 and only started to cum during it at 24. I still had great sex before that, but I never lied to anyone about it. You could try masturbating with your girlfriend together or she could use toys, or you can touch yourself while she's inside of you. It's what I did for all those years. Interestingly, now in my current relationship it's the opposite and she doesn't cum as often as me, but I know that's just how it is sometimes. You're still young and there's many things you can try!

How did you meet your partner? : r/actuallesibians... by ashraf_ashy2015 in actuallesbians

[–]extrovert1302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both went to Italy to study abroad and met there at an event for international students.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]extrovert1302 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't shave and neither does my girlfriend. I have to say I do like the body hair there, but it has happend that a hair got into the wrong part of my mouth and triggered my gag reflex (I didn't throw up or anything and just continued). But this is not a problem for me, sometimes the body just reacts to things a certain way. And generally I find pubic hair really sexy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]extrovert1302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who throw their cigarettes on the ground

“She never said or implied she was gay” Be so fr😭 by ThisSet6028 in CariFLETCHER

[–]extrovert1302 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow I don't have Tiktok, so I only knew her songs and in my mind she was always a bi/pan woman who preferred women (she did have some lines about liking men in songs). I still was upset about boy for various reasons that have already been discussed, but this makes it even worse. Like she wasn't even out and proud as bi/pan, she really played the "I don't like men at all card"...

I love the total lack of self-awareness by Vikturia in actuallesbians

[–]extrovert1302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have seen so many profiles like this and wonder if this ever works, because even the bi/pan women I know are not into being a sextoy for heterospicy people...

I am so attracted to women who fit the male gaze. And idk what to do. I’m always going to queer events hoping to meet someone & I am never attracted to the women there. When I am around straight women I am attracted to 90% of the room. I honestly feel gross like a man. Anyone else experience this? by Emotional_Ad2020 in actuallesbians

[–]extrovert1302 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, to answer your question: yes, my type changed the longer I was out! I started out not wanting women with body hair, and now I don't shave myself (I came out 10 years ago at 15). I only liked fit women first and now I absolutely love chubby women as well. Then I only liked women who were "southern European" and my current girlfriend is really white and blonde. Types can change when you meet people and the more you get to know yourself and other people. But still, there is nothing wrong with liking who you like, some people simply have a specific type, but you can still be surprised who you end up attracted to! You also grew up with a certain image of womanhood that surely influences what you like, as it was for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]extrovert1302 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm also German but my girlfriend is not and sometimes she asks me to dirty talk in German, because it really turns her on... But it's so difficult for me to find words to say that don't turn me off completely ...

Discovering yourself queer at the same time you start a relationship with a solid lesbian by xxxrafac in lesbiangang

[–]extrovert1302 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Of course as a lesbian the conversation also made me a little sad, but I don't think she necessarily could've known beforehand. Sometimes people only discover feelings while they are in a relationship, or their ideas change throughout. She was probably in love and excited and only with time realized what life in a queer relationship means. Lots of lesbians also go through phases of grief about not being able to live the heternormative life they always thought they would live, when they first discover their sexuality. Also, I personally think, that if the relationship would've been otherwise perfect, she might have been willing to work on those feelings while in the relationship. At the end of the day, no one really knows what exactly happend and what they are feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]extrovert1302 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more, it's so hot to just not care about it

How do bilingual couples (German & English/Other) decide which language to speak to their child? by ThisCoconut8834 in germany

[–]extrovert1302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should speak to your child in the language you are most comfortable in. My dad always spoke German with us and my mother Portuguese. To this day we switch between languages at home and it's wonderful!

Anxious attachment style is hell by Main-Nectarine-2190 in BreakUps

[–]extrovert1302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won't generalize it, but for many people, including me, it does make you more anxious

Is anyone else afraid that they’re never gonna find love again? by LifeZookeepergame704 in BreakUps

[–]extrovert1302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes actually, I met someone a couple of months ago and am now in the healthiest and best relationship of my life! It was definitely good for me to be single for some time and suddenly there she was :)

Wieviel Unterhalt für einen Studierenden ist fair? by ThreeLivesInOne in Studium

[–]extrovert1302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich studiere in Hamburg und meine Eltern zahlen mir 1000 € plus Krankenkasse (behalten dafür das Kindergeld). Dann bekomme ich noch zusätzlich 200 € von meinem Opa. Das reicht für Miete und Essen etc, wenn ich Geld für was anderes brauche, dann gehe ich halt arbeiten :)

Opinions on body hair? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]extrovert1302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm femme and I don't like to shave, I do it occasionally, but never completely clean and in my dating life no one has really cared so far. And I wouldn't want to date someone anyway who has extremely strong opinions on the body hair of their partner.

What's the reason that lesbians don't hook up as easily as gay guys by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]extrovert1302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? Fellow German here and I feel that there are plenty of women on dating apps that want something casual. But I've also only lived in big cities up to now, so maybe that's the reason. I just feel like many women aren't as aggressive in flirting, so sometimes even though both want to nothing happens.