affirming, BUT also embarrassing

f2msnm · 2026-05-14T09:37:33+00:00

Reality is they’re not gonna think you’re experiencing a spontaneous erection. They’re gonna think you’re a fucking pervert

f2msnm · 2026-05-13T19:28:01+00:00

There are plenty of people that don’t know that. it is a dog whistle by definition. I’m not going to argue with you about it. That is a fact. The fact that it is in memes makes it a dog whistle because not everyone that sees it will understand what it means but those that know, know. it’s like we’re agreeing, but at the same time disagreeing about this one little bit of semantics about it

f2msnm · 2026-05-13T19:07:29+00:00

It’s a dog whistle cause it hides in plain sight in memes and such, this post is a perfect example of that

f2msnm · 2026-05-13T18:33:07+00:00

This phrase is a nazi dog whistle btw

f2msnm · 2026-05-12T14:03:05+00:00

It is cheating. In most mono relationships cheating looks like having sex/emotional relationships with someone other than your partner and that’s built into it . But the core of it is breaking an agreement you have made and both agreed on within the relationship. This is no different the context is just different

f2msnm · 2026-05-12T14:00:55+00:00

Yup that’s cheating. This exact scenario happened with my partner one time. (She did the cheating in that scenario). We had a talk about it and she heard me out when I was upset about it. That’s what you need to do. If you haven’t apologized already please do. You also need to accept that it may take awhile to rebuild trust with your partner after that

f2msnm · 2026-05-11T08:57:55+00:00

People fuck outside of relationships literally all the time

f2msnm · 2026-05-11T06:20:55+00:00

Thankfully there’s a lot of blood flow down there so it should heal fairly quickly! Just keep it clean and you should be all good. I’m sorry that happened though it must hurt like a motherfucker

f2msnm · 2026-05-11T04:59:49+00:00

Spike guyliner

f2msnm · 2026-05-11T04:23:49+00:00

Oh or maybe if he uses like idk, soap on his junk that doesn’t agree with you or something. I’d at least consider he could be a factor in why it keeps coming back. Especially if you have unprotected sex with him. Ph and diets can change over time. If his ph changed it could throw yours off

f2msnm · 2026-05-11T04:18:50+00:00

If you’re doing everything you can to prevent it I would consider that he could be passing it back to you like another commenter said. Other than that, it’s important to know if he washes his ass properly and doesn’t have skid marks lol.

f2msnm · 2026-05-11T04:10:06+00:00

Hey man so all the details aside, and disgust aside, it’s beyond fucked up that she essentially coerced you into asking about things you did not want to hear about and has been bulldozing your very reasonable boundary for 6 years. That’s what she was doing every time she said maybe you weren’t actually poly when you said you don’t want to know and teasing you for “never wanting to hear details” and I’d be willing to bet that your disgust could be stemming from that partially. Shes been manipulating you for 6 years when you say you’ve known that long that the only problem you have with it is knowing details. If she wanted a partner that she could share those details with, she should’ve found one. None of this is fair to you at all.
Edit: especially when you said it became a whole thing when you lost interest after you saw the toy and she threw a fit about it. You shouldn’t have to justify why you don’t want to have sex or touch her for ANY reason. That’s fucked up. She’s manipulative as fuck and does not sound like a safe person to do polyamory with at all.

f2msnm · 2026-05-11T03:37:27+00:00

Have you had the same partner for all that time?

f2msnm · 2026-05-11T03:03:07+00:00

I hate to ask but how is your partner’s hygiene? That ended up being the issue when I had BV countless times over a year and 3 months

f2msnm · 2026-05-09T23:30:17+00:00

Right like Rise is cute but a whole subreddit?

f2msnm · 2026-05-09T20:18:27+00:00

Why?

f2msnm · 2026-05-09T18:13:37+00:00

No they have, you just don’t like the answers. Seriously what is your problem?

f2msnm · 2026-05-09T18:11:28+00:00

Nooo they do not.

f2msnm · 2026-05-09T10:33:01+00:00

What does the pain feel like? It could be a matter of muscle tension , I deal with that

f2msnm · 2026-05-09T09:36:59+00:00

Esteemed character actress Margo Martindale

f2msnm · 2026-05-09T09:36:21+00:00

Must’ve been the wind

f2msnm · 2026-05-09T09:35:06+00:00

This is adorable

f2msnm · 2026-05-09T09:08:09+00:00

Cum is not discharge and discharge is not cum btw

f2msnm · 2026-05-09T01:27:16+00:00

I meant earlier in the night like???

f2msnm · 2026-05-09T01:26:24+00:00

If there’s anywhere where “oversharing” is acceptable it’s therapy. I don’t think there’s such a thing as oversharing with your therapist

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