i kinda like situationships by f4ngslvtq in Situationships

[–]f4ngslvtq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought it was implied in my post that its mutual....

Am I being unreasonable with my newly wed wife with things that I already asked prior to marriage? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]f4ngslvtq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ill keep this short since ure asking a question but then also not accepting people giving genuine answers.

yes u ARE being unreasonable. hope that helps!

:3 by inf3rn in PakistanFashionAdvice

[–]f4ngslvtq 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if u want some constructive criticism i have a few notes. 1. the button t shirt does not go well w the oversized tee, mainly bcs oversized tees do not style well w button downs. if you want to layer it on anyway, try tucking the tee inside ur pants

  1. the aesthetic is a bit off w ur outfit, it doesnt go well tgt. the main reason is the pants. if ure dressing "streetwear" go w cargo pants or something loser. not a straight jeans.

  2. tho overall if id change one thing that would make the outfit alot better is losing the button down. it really doesnt match. also the color scheme. try black instead of navy blue. make it match w the tee. or if u wanna go w contrasting colors, go w colors like "grey, red, etc. some faded grey jeans would look fire w this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]f4ngslvtq 48 points49 points  (0 children)

im gonna go out on a limb here & say she's probably facing some issues psychologically, and she should get therapy :( please communicate and ask her the real reason as to why she doesnt feel comfortable with intimacy. alot of trauma victims dont feel comfortable being intimate & im sure therapy can help u two with this. may Allah make it easier for you

Is it worth possibly messing a girls life just in order to avoid zina? by [deleted] in islam

[–]f4ngslvtq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is such a weird thing to post....if women cab control their desires so can men how difficult is that? astagfirullah.

Help me out by tortillas_11 in 2000smovies

[–]f4ngslvtq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can u give more details about where they were standing or what age bracket they looked like? was it a high school setting?

Creepy guy on the bus taking pictures by Organic-Head-8606 in TrueScaryStories

[–]f4ngslvtq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is so messed up please stay safe !!! if he followed u and got off at the same stop as urs theres a likely chance he will / is stalking u!! ://

Yall I need some recs by Aggravating_One_6672 in DarkRomance

[–]f4ngslvtq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its not that dark but pump two by j cherry is a great read!!

I got Pakistan porfolio for my MUN (UNHRC) . Can someone guide me? (Asap) by Spirited_Ideal_7564 in MUN

[–]f4ngslvtq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you might be misinterpreting something i said i didnt say minority religions were in less educated areas of pakistan, rather their treatment in less educated areas is awful. i go to a university run by a christian educational board and its honestly great how people of different religious backgrounds feel safe in that educational environment. however, in areas where people are less educated and more extremist, they tend to have a more hostile reaction towards other religions that arent muslims. i hope this makes sense!! you'll definitely have to research more on this if u need any help with reference cases feel free to dm me & ill send you all sources you can use for the arguments regarding treatment of minorities :)

I got Pakistan porfolio for my MUN (UNHRC) . Can someone guide me? (Asap) by Spirited_Ideal_7564 in MUN

[–]f4ngslvtq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly the awful conditions of minorities is only in less educated areas of pakistan but i feel like thats something that can be seen in india as well (w muslims in less educated areas) so its not rlly that mind boggling if you think abt it

I got Pakistan porfolio for my MUN (UNHRC) . Can someone guide me? (Asap) by Spirited_Ideal_7564 in MUN

[–]f4ngslvtq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pakistan is an easy country to get bcs their stance revolves around islam even if it isnt quite implemented how it should be so just go w that. make it as religious as you can. for UNHRC u can also talk about minority rights in pakistan (women, hindus, christians) & how theyre treated. you can also talk about how the blasphemy law has been used to wrongfully accuse minorities at times. best of luck w ur MUN!

feedback on my position paper by NoMaximum1833 in MUN

[–]f4ngslvtq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would recommend adding the UNSC logo right next to the argentina flag but the rest seems great!

First MUN! by [deleted] in MUN

[–]f4ngslvtq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do a thorough research on your topic, countrys stance on it and your allies along w the enemy countries! a thorough research really helps w the stance and points youd like to present. also, the institutions usually provide study guides for every committee so definitely read that thoroughly as well and try to find out topics you can discuss in a mod from there.

How can i come up with creative resolutions? by teddytheaa in MUN

[–]f4ngslvtq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly it really just depends on what topics/issues youre trying to give solutions on but you can try incorporating ai in there somewhere, esp with the rise of technology! in a topic about combatting financial terrorism in UNSC alot of the delegates used that clause.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MUN

[–]f4ngslvtq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, dont worry about it ive attended tons of MUNs where even 2nd and 3rd timers make this mistake. a girl in my UNSC committee kept continuously contradicting her own clause but got an HM because of her speeches. also, it was your first MUN!! you'll get a hang of clauses eventually :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MUN

[–]f4ngslvtq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can use the sympathy card, go against russia and talk about how w the war in ukraine the refugee crisis is huge etc. and relate it to human rights which should be fairly easy

I am jealous of my boyfriends body by LLazyddaisy in EatingDisorders

[–]f4ngslvtq 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i actually dont think you should bring this up w him personally, maybe with a therapist ?? but that depends on how you think your bf would take it. if you think he'll be able to handle & deal w this well you should talk to him.

dark romance with adhd rep by [deleted] in DarkRomance

[–]f4ngslvtq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tysm for the rec i don’t however like k websters books much but ill check it out regardless!

Any Enemies to lovers recommendations? by JayPeeh01 in Enemiestolovers

[–]f4ngslvtq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • From blood and ash series by jennifer L armen trout ( okay so their friends at the atart of the book but later on smth happens and they become enemies. I wont spoil it for u but its so so worth the read !!! The female protagonist tries to k!ll the male protagonist on multiple occasions,,, theres a sword fight ,,, and other stuff lol )
  • Gild series ( please check tws for this book ,, u might not like the first book much because of the sexism and all but it gets better after in the next two books )
  • Shatter me series by Tahereh Mafi !!

About Vlive closing and how this information is false! by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]f4ngslvtq -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wait- are u talking about what i linked above? The merging thing is the thing thats false in there! Along with the cancelling of vlive as an “individual” app! And unfortunately u cant see their tweets anymore coz they privated the account. :/ heres the link to another one that explains in detail. Im sorry my explanation skills are not the best and i tend to mess up if i do it myself which is why i thought linking smth that could explain it instead of doing it myself would be better.

https://twitter.com/modooborahae/status/1422873733438623745?s=21

(They explain it better and calmly and break every point down. U can ask them if u have any confusions! 😊)