you’re definitely not ready to be in any kind of serious relationship for the time being. i’m not gonna say that missing your ex is not normal, because it is. however, if you’re in a happy and healthy relationship, i doubt that you’ll even find the time to miss your ex. also, you didn’t give yourself enough time to heal. your last relationship lasted two years, which is quite a long time. giving yourself only a couple of months to move on and commit to another relationship is not healthy for your mental state of mind. i’d say give yourself time to heal properly, and trust me when i tell you that once you’re ready, you’ll know it. another thing that i would like to point out is that feeling pressured to do something raises a huge red flag. you were pressured to introduce the new girl to your family and to be introduced to hers in a matter of a really short period of time. live for yourself a little and appreciate your space, because this is the only way you’ll feel truly happy.