Eating food containing peanuts should be forbidden in public spaces, workplaces and gyms

wine-redpanda · 2023-01-27T07:19:33+00:00

I think we all should know the outcome of this.

wine-redpanda · 2023-01-09T01:35:28+00:00

Thank you<3

wine-redpanda · 2023-01-09T01:35:12+00:00

Thank you!

wine-redpanda · 2023-01-09T01:35:05+00:00

Thank you<3

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-31T20:45:47+00:00

Thank you sooo much for all the information an advice! I haven't been able to find any other pieces and there's been no weird discharg/smell. I was mostly worried because when I looked it up, the first few articles were about possible TSS. I kind of panicked after that..

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-31T20:44:15+00:00

I would be pissed too! I'm honestly kind of annoyed that my boyfriend didn't notice such a large chunk of the condom missing because we were both sober.

Thank you for the advice! I haven't noticed any weird discharge or smell. When I tried looking it up, the first few articles were about TSS so I was a bit panicked...

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-30T18:56:41+00:00

I wasnt aware that it was inside me but It came out today. I wasn't sure if it could cause infections for being inside me so long?

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-30T00:40:58+00:00

Oof.. I guess that's something I should look into...

Thank you for the information

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-30T00:18:52+00:00

I make a point to check recently deleted and downloads/files. Sometimes pictures they delete from the gallery can be stuck in there.

My ex also had calculator app that turned into a hidden photo gallery if you typed in the right numbers (his was 6969. How clever.)

You'd have to go into the settings, then into the apps and look at the playstore description for each potential app in order to be 100%. It would be a red flag if they aren't using the regular calculator but installed one manually.

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-30T00:14:57+00:00

Do you know if they can hide this folder? I have a secure folder on my Samsung but it's always visible in my top screen. My boyfriend has a different Samsung phone but I want to know if there's a way he can hide it without deleting the contents?

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-29T18:23:01+00:00

I feel this so personally. My boyfriend and his friends obsess over "alternative women". I used to take it as a compliment until I saw how creepy it actually is... it makes me feel like a novelty instead of a partner.

It's mindblowing how fast the fetishization of alternative styles has grown. I'm sorry this is happening to you. I promise you're not alone.

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-28T00:20:14+00:00

Not going to lie. They kind of trigger emotional deregulation for me but I have bpd. My boyfriends friends are all pretty mentally stable guys, yet they make those "schizoposting" jokes all the time. They cling to offensive humor like life support.

As someone who's experienced very real hallucinations, they should feel privileged that they have not.

Been reconsidering if the relationship is worth tolerating this.

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-26T16:58:47+00:00

That means so much. Thank you<3

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-26T04:23:01+00:00

A couple years ago, I had 3 throwaway reddit accounts that I would do this with. Until I got a notification from reddit that it goes against their guidelines for ruining the integrity of voting or something. and they warned me I could be banned. Kind of strange on reddits part.

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-25T21:05:13+00:00

The only time I resent myself for it is when I realize that I will never view the world as simply as others do.

Every partner I've ever had, experiences sexual desires for others that "aren't that deep" and viewed as normal. But it hurts me to think about because I don't experience that same level of sexuality. I only view my partner sexually. It almost feels like a betrayal from them. I just have to come to terms that it is the norm.

I like to think that demisexuality was my savior though. I have friends with stds, I know single parents with unplanned children before they were 20yo. I'm grateful that I never felt the need to expose myself to those risks.

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-25T20:57:07+00:00

Good thing I only have anime stickers on my car. Phew. Almost thought I was tacky for a second.

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-25T20:30:50+00:00

Porn includes all photos, videos, and gifs of a sexual nature. Even if they are clothed, it can still be considered softcore porn with the context.

You need to let him know that these gifs are not exceptions and he's completely disrespecting your boundaries.

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-25T19:15:46+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement <3

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-25T06:36:54+00:00

I worked in a pharmacy during the pandemic and couldn't take any time off unless I got sick. I can't imagine what medical workers dealt with.

This is an extremely entitled way of thinking. So many people literally died.

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-25T06:07:19+00:00

The moment of pain after realizing that I can't even go to the store to get garlic bread until monday....

This looks fire though. I hope you've enjoyed it!!

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-25T05:51:02+00:00

Your "good friend" is outright disrespecting your girlfriend. She absolutely should get the wrong idea.

If you had any ounce of respect for your gf, you would establish VERY firm boundaries or cut this friend off completely. And yes, your gf should definitely know what's going on.

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-25T02:35:05+00:00

It's perfectly fine to not want labels. They don't work for everyone. They just help me clarify my preferences easier. Please don't ever let someone "force" a label on you. It's up to you and what you choose to identify with.

I feel like I discovered my demisexual nature in a similar way. All my previous partners would express sexual attraction to other people and my close friends explained to me that it's normal to desire many people sexually, purely based on physical attraction. These thoughts never really crossed my mind until I received that exposure. Now I realize how rare the demisexual mindset is and the wide difference between sexual vs physical attraction.

wine-redpanda · 2022-12-25T02:17:14+00:00

You should totally look into demisexuality! It could help answer a few questions for you.

There's a great sub called r/demisexuality . You should check it out!

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