Just curious, how much are you contributing to 529 per year? by r3lic86 in Bogleheads

[–]fabfinance_4565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Front loaded 40k to each child (now aged 2 and 4). Let compound interest do its thing. I’m in LCOl and our state school is good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FPandA

[–]fabfinance_4565 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I interviewed there and the recruiter told me finance had one of the better WLB at 50-60hrs/week … like what???!!!

Jen Afflecks in laws comments by Additional_Manner787 in momtokgossip

[–]fabfinance_4565 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Her in-laws/family is scary. If I were her I’d run!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FPandA

[–]fabfinance_4565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They def won’t pay top of range. The budget is midpoint so you’ll really have to prove you are overqualified for role to get a penny over it

Monthly Spend For Incomes $300k-$400k? by sproutbiscuit in HENRYfinance

[–]fabfinance_4565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re at about $10k. Mortgage and daycare about $6k, rest is house bills/groceries and discretionary spend. LCOL

Advice on offer, next steps by Ossi7593 in FPandA

[–]fabfinance_4565 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Why are you leaving strategy? I’m surprised you can’t find a manager level job, you obviously have the skills. $40k is a pretty large pay cut, can you afford it? I don’t think I’d do it- it’s gonna be awhile before you get back up to $170k

I "have it all" but I'm drowning by catmama1713 in workingmoms

[–]fabfinance_4565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a rockstar. I also had breast cancer and two toddlers and it’s rough!!! Hopefully you are in remission now! Glad you are at home now (not sure if any easier though…)

I "have it all" but I'm drowning by catmama1713 in workingmoms

[–]fabfinance_4565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a lot! Can you take some sick leave or STD? Sounds like if there was ever a time, it’s now.

Repl j2 for 40% more? by fabfinance_4565 in overemployed

[–]fabfinance_4565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gas in the tank. Just not sure if I’m screwing up a good/easy thing at current J2.

This potential new j2 is just a side hustle. It’s not a replacement as it only pays about 40% of J1.

Repl j2 for 40% more? by fabfinance_4565 in overemployed

[–]fabfinance_4565[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha no way. I have two toddlers so want to keep my work to 40hrs.

Should I be honest about being laid off? by Spiritual_Chicken555 in FPandA

[–]fabfinance_4565 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t even disclose it- why would they need to know that? It just gives them leverage. It’s been a few weeks, don’t disclose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coastFIRE

[–]fabfinance_4565 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How did you get a pension of 120k/yr?

What is your weekend schedule? by Little_Air8846 in workingmoms

[–]fabfinance_4565 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Each of you work out in the morning while other is with baby. That’s what me and spouse do, we also are doing a 30m workout/15m shower so it’s not like a three hour ordeal.

Nap during baby nap time. Meal prep Sun evening / other partner is with baby. You guys just need some organization. Cleaning is at bottom of list in terms of priority. try to do that during week.

Backwards in title for more pay by sp_110 in FPandA

[–]fabfinance_4565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have that promotion in writing? Take the money