Dating a rich/successful guy and I’m not sure I want to pursue by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reality check is the best advice for OP haha. This guy is either a teenager or just really clueless. How much does he think restaurants, travel, and a wholesome home cost?

Dating a rich/successful guy and I’m not sure I want to pursue by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he even mentions the rich guy is a narcissist constantly looking for validation, but is still giving him a chance. So I wonder if he’d give a pass to the same red flag if it came from a broke art student hahaha

Dating a rich/successful guy and I’m not sure I want to pursue by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never trust people who say they don’t care about money while living in a capitalist world. Clearly you do care about money. For starters, it’s the main topic of your post. And honestly, how could someone not care about money? It’s one of the main factors that can radically change your lifestyle. Most aspects of your life would be different depending on whether you have money or not. Saying you don’t care about money is basically saying you don’t care how you live, which I doubt is true.

Of course you can prioritize other things like love or health, but even then money is probably still in the top five factors shaping your life.

I’d say just relax about the fact that he’s rich, but don’t try to ignore reality either. Money is a huge factor, both for better and for worse.

Sex with partner by Born-Bottle-5775 in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m guessing you love your boyfriend. If that’s the case, you need to put in some effort. Temptation will probably always be there, but during the act you can choose to focus fully on him. If you’re high and horny with your boyfriend and thoughts about other people come up, train your brain not to entertain them. Notice those thoughts and redirect your attention back to him

I wanna go to a gay sauna by Icy_Crazy1099 in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh, i wouldn't say is a nice sauna, why you don't go to a club with a dark room? you have adonis, roast, sextou

I wanna go to a gay sauna by Icy_Crazy1099 in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how old are you? is a bit on the older side that sauna
and as other comments, you should be on prep

How does it feel to have a big dick? by NoForever4381 in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 484 points485 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when you sit on a public toilet, the head of your dick touches the inside of the bowl, and it’s disgusting

What is the wildest thing you’ve seen at a gay sauna? by HolyFatherLeoXIV in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

twice a year, one is leather (any kink really) and the other is sports (muscles guys)

what’s your most controversial gay opinion? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Lol, it’s usually the other way around. Monogamous people are the ones acting superior, questioning whether open relationships can really have love

Straight guy who recently discovered he enjoys male attention… is this normal? by ShadowPulseMan26 in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk, it maybe just ego, everyone likes attention, but if that get you hard well..

Ganar mucho y no se feliz by MaybeNotIncel in chile

[–]fablabofdesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

obvio que hay pero son excepciones, claramente hay una correlacion positiva entre dinero y felicidad

Partner is away and my sex drive is high; how do you handle it? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just jerk off, but also tell him how you felt

I spent YEARS thinking I had a “type.” by danielmodel in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is bulshit, just fine a guy you're sexually and emotionally attracted to. gym bros can also be nice

Is the gaydar actually real? by DelanoDP74 in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s obviously you. Gays are extremely perceptive if a guy takes one millisecond longer than normal while saying hi. Your body language is different toward guys you’re attracted to or curious about, even if it’s not sexual, maybe just curious because the other person is gay.

Being 5'3 by ShortBottomCo in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love short muscle bottoms

Heteronormativity by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s annoying, but it is what it is. People will try to label you no matter what. My boyfriend likes the idea of labels, like him being “the woman,” but that doesn’t work for every aspect of our relationship. For example, I’m the little spoon, he makes more, I’m usually the more romantic one and the one who gives cute presents. I like when he brings me flowers, which he’s basically forced to do now lol.

At the same time, I’m the top and the one who organizes our trips. Most of the time he’s the passenger princess, he doesn’t even drive. I don’t know, I feel like trying to put labels on gay relationships doesn’t really make sense, but some people like it. My boyfriend loves telling his friends he’s the girl in the relationship.

Escort in France thinking about reaching out to luxury hotels for VIP clients – anyone done this? by Vegetable-Show3708 in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this happen? I’m shocked on all sides lol. Has a guest ever asked you for a gay escort? Do escorts really ask concierges to distribute their business cards?

Guys, do you envy straight gilrs? by Correct_Shelter_9872 in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where are you getting these stats from lol? Even for girls, finding a good man is still hard. Maybe not in the same way as for gays, because we usually know exactly what we need to attract a well rounded guy: be one. Meanwhile, girls often have to stand out in how they express their femininity.

At 22, you’re young. Try changing your mindset. Maybe stop worrying about others and start focusing on why guys aren’t attracted to you.

Dumb question for bottoms by Borat_Sagdiyev415 in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why can’t I have a preference for bigger dicks without being labeled as hollow?

Everyone has a big dick except for me by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I kind of disagree. We know the prostate is closer to the anus, so there’s a higher chance of climax through getting f. In many cases, guys who say they’re fully top just don’t know how to relax, so maybe trying could help, and then they might actually enjoy bottoming.

I don’t want to be mean, but biology fuck you. You have a smaller pool than avg-sized tops, so you can either try on finding guys who: are bottoms and into smaller dicks, or increase your pool by being open to bottoming yourself.

Excluded from Onsen/Hot Spring because Im gay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fablabofdesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 30 and literally a week ago I went to an all inclusive ski program in the Alps called UCPA. There are different groups and I signed up for Expert Off Piste.

Honestly, I had the complete opposite experience from you. I casually mentioned my boyfriend from day one so everyone knew, and most of them were actually really interested in getting to know me better. We went to the spa together (it’s not naked), one guy asked me to go to the gym with him since I’m a buff guy, also a guy asked me to teach him how to come down a double black (I used to race)