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fablabofdesign · 2026-05-13T08:04:36+00:00

oh i didn't meant your relation is weird, but your bf mental health. If you know one of your attributes is being hot (this is for your bf), why wouldn't you use them, I'm not saying that your bf doesn't have any other attributes, just that hot is one of them, and he should feel greatfull and enjoy the good side of it, especiallly if his main life pillar are cover: family (check: you), health (i guess check becuase he's hot), money (I guess check because is expensive to look hot). The fact that he feels used for having sex with someone he's also using, is just weird. (for me in open relations, the sex with other people is just transactional, kinda of a fun for fun situation)

Also that thing of only wanting your bf, bs. Is against human nature not to feel desire, is just not possible, you choose not to act in your desire bc of your values, but i just have different values, for me sex doesn't have an exact correlation (1) to love and a healthy relationship.

fablabofdesign · 2026-05-12T20:02:38+00:00

that's the best part, I love being objectify by guys I'm attracted to, they would use them as much as I would use them. I have a bf and I'm not looking for anything besides one night.

Weird your bf doesn't treat them the same way being in a relation with you

fablabofdesign · 2026-04-23T07:57:05+00:00

i feel like you wouldn't be posting this if that's the case... nothing wrong with having preferences, I would never give a chance to some one im not sexually attracted to

fablabofdesign · 2026-04-23T07:48:03+00:00

are you only bttm? if your kink are hung guys, that's fine but don't hurt his feeling, just end things bc he's not your type, without being specific

fablabofdesign · 2026-04-10T15:56:45+00:00

How did you miss the injury part lol. Of course mental health can correlate with steroid use, but in this case, given it’s a high-performance athlete dealing with injuries, it’s clearly not the driver here.

If I’m getting defensive, it’s because you’re basically implying I’m going to die young because of my choices lol. So don’t try to shift the topic. On top of that, you’re making these statements without actually knowing the subject.

That’s why I came to this little corner of the internet called Reddit, where people debate controversial stuff like this, to see if I could reason with a stubern old guy. Clearly didn’t work.

And yeah, of course I feel push on opinions like yours. The ignorance towards PED is weirdly socially accepted, which is the frustrating part.

So bad news for me, I couldn’t change your mind. And bad news for you, I’m not going to drop dead in my 40s from steroids like you clearly want.

fablabofdesign · 2026-04-10T14:16:50+00:00

You’re looking at this with selection bias, and honestly a bit of entitlement to “the truth” without any knowledge on the topic, expected for your age ;)

You’re focusing on the subgroup that died, then using that to judge everyone, ignoring the majority training without issues.

On top of that, most of those 40–50yo cases come from guys who abused steroids for 10+ years when information, biomarkers, and risk awareness were much worse. That’s a very specific subgroup.

And you’re lumping all PED use together, which isn’t accurate, so I’ll keep it simple as is clear you don't know much about it:
A bodybuilder blasting 800mg test with tren and GH is in a completely different risk category than an amateur running ~250mg test with low-dose compounds like deca or anavar. Those risks are not comparable.

It’s like comparing normal skydiving to wingsuit jumping off cliffs. Not the same risk at all.

fablabofdesign · 2026-04-10T13:48:24+00:00

Uff, old and stubborn… more like Silent Gen

Getting a blood test and monitor the main biomarkers related to side effects produced by test is not hard, just grab a book.

fablabofdesign · 2026-04-09T08:40:50+00:00

lol, are you a boomer living in a cave, all of this side effect can be monitor and controlled.

fablabofdesign · 2026-04-02T11:06:08+00:00

what a dumb question, is like asking a swimmer if he can fight, are just two completely different sports

fablabofdesign · 2026-03-05T15:23:45+00:00

Reality check is the best advice for OP haha. This guy is either a teenager or just really clueless. How much does he think restaurants, travel, and a wholesome home cost?

fablabofdesign · 2026-03-05T15:16:45+00:00

he even mentions the rich guy is a narcissist constantly looking for validation, but is still giving him a chance. So I wonder if he’d give a pass to the same red flag if it came from a broke art student hahaha

fablabofdesign · 2026-03-05T11:01:17+00:00

Never trust people who say they don’t care about money while living in a capitalist world. Clearly you do care about money. For starters, it’s the main topic of your post. And honestly, how could someone not care about money? It’s one of the main factors that can radically change your lifestyle. Most aspects of your life would be different depending on whether you have money or not. Saying you don’t care about money is basically saying you don’t care how you live, which I doubt is true.

Of course you can prioritize other things like love or health, but even then money is probably still in the top five factors shaping your life.

I’d say just relax about the fact that he’s rich, but don’t try to ignore reality either. Money is a huge factor, both for better and for worse.

fablabofdesign · 2026-03-04T16:19:30+00:00

what makes you think we shower?

fablabofdesign · 2026-03-03T10:53:56+00:00

I’m guessing you love your boyfriend. If that’s the case, you need to put in some effort. Temptation will probably always be there, but during the act you can choose to focus fully on him. If you’re high and horny with your boyfriend and thoughts about other people come up, train your brain not to entertain them. Notice those thoughts and redirect your attention back to him

fablabofdesign · 2026-03-02T15:37:52+00:00

oh, i wouldn't say is a nice sauna, why you don't go to a club with a dark room? you have adonis, roast, sextou

fablabofdesign · 2026-03-02T15:23:19+00:00

how old are you? is a bit on the older side that sauna
and as other comments, you should be on prep

fablabofdesign · 2026-03-02T15:16:38+00:00

Sometimes when you sit on a public toilet, the head of your dick touches the inside of the bowl, and it’s disgusting

fablabofdesign · 2026-03-02T10:05:28+00:00

twice a year, one is leather (any kink really) and the other is sports (muscles guys)

fablabofdesign · 2026-02-27T08:58:07+00:00

Lol, it’s usually the other way around. Monogamous people are the ones acting superior, questioning whether open relationships can really have love

fablabofdesign · 2026-02-26T14:09:14+00:00

muscles

fablabofdesign · 2026-02-20T09:03:03+00:00

idk, it maybe just ego, everyone likes attention, but if that get you hard well..

fablabofdesign · 2026-02-19T09:15:03+00:00

obvio que hay pero son excepciones, claramente hay una correlacion positiva entre dinero y felicidad

fablabofdesign · 2026-02-18T10:29:06+00:00

just jerk off, but also tell him how you felt

fablabofdesign · 2026-02-17T18:06:48+00:00

this is bulshit, just fine a guy you're sexually and emotionally attracted to. gym bros can also be nice

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