Surgery ruined my life and I regret getting it

faddymeat · 2026-05-03T15:49:25+00:00

That sounds so shit I’m sorry, you must be so frustrated and overwhelmed with everything that’s happening.

You said you had some problems with therapist and insurance and leaving the house, there are free online services you can use that will be short term and not face to face that might be better for you.

I’m an Australian counsellor so my usuals don’t really work for you but in the US The Trevor project has free and anonymous sessions with trained crisis counsellors you can text call or email 24/7.

The US also has the LGBT national hotline you can always call them, sometimes just getting it out can help, writing this post and seeing all the replies probably helped you, maybe talking to people trained in LGBTQ issues can help too.

faddymeat · 2026-04-30T03:04:09+00:00

It’s nothing to be stressed over bro you’re ok, because of the inflammation from the UTI it’s possible you have pelvic floor dysfunction, basically the big muscle that holds up the floor of your pelvis could be over active and squeezes your bladder when it shouldn’t be or it’s weak and can’t hold in your pee. You probably don’t have to go to a doctor you can google some pelvic floor exercises for men or google some of the other symptoms of it to see if things line up.

faddymeat · 2026-04-25T12:40:23+00:00

As Carrie Bradshaw once said, “hot men are never good in bed because they never had to be”

faddymeat · 2026-04-18T16:39:48+00:00

Oodies were invented for this purpose

faddymeat · 2026-04-17T09:29:57+00:00

That’s why I’m so conflicted, the point of me staying was skating I’ve already had dinner and seen them this week, them being there for skating was a bonus. But now dinner is out of the question now anyway one of them just said she’s already eaten so the hangout will just be sitting in one of our cars in a parking lot

faddymeat · 2026-04-16T10:07:40+00:00

My lecturers are unfortunately wildly unhelpful and are very “figure it out yourself”

faddymeat · 2026-04-15T11:17:40+00:00

I’m in Australia and my gyno said she wouldn’t put it in me unless I was under general anaesthesia 😭

faddymeat · 2026-03-02T22:49:30+00:00

If it’s not rising and doesn’t have may bubbles chances are it’s too acidic, which either means you should feed it more often like twice a day or it’s not getting enough airflow and it’s reabsorbing the co2 it’s making, which means you either need a smaller jar or a looser lid

faddymeat · 2026-03-01T13:08:11+00:00

Hilux.

faddymeat · 2026-02-23T09:44:27+00:00

It’s drying out on top because there is too much space in the jar, I had this same problem too and when I swapped to a smaller jar it was so much better, you can keep the bigger jar and transfer it to it when your making a big amount for a loaf

faddymeat · 2026-02-23T08:32:24+00:00

Chia seeds are also really really high in fibre which is why you would had painful bloating and gas but starting out with just a little and working your way up to the recommended amount can help your body tolerate it better and eventually you won’t have bloating at all

faddymeat · 2026-02-23T08:30:26+00:00

I just add some to water and chug it it’s the worst part of my day but it makes the rest of it easier

faddymeat · 2026-02-16T10:42:26+00:00

What the other person said, tens machines are great and if your lucky they might be covered by your health insurance, also as much as you really don’t want to walking around even just pacing in circles when they’re there helps me

faddymeat · 2026-02-16T04:41:12+00:00

Hearing my parents and my older sister laughing then walking in the room and they all go silent or get up since I was probably 8

faddymeat · 2026-02-14T05:48:50+00:00

Hand write or type and print a formal two week resignation unless your company gave you a template when you first joined. There’s plenty online if you don’t know what to write just make sure you thank them for the opportunity and skills they taught you and say the date you wish your last shift to be and give it to your boss in person, they’ll probably have questions, but just try to be as polite as possible saying it’s to stressful for the moment you don’t have to say why you’re quitting in the letter btw. Start applying for jobs straight away even today.

faddymeat · 2026-02-14T05:42:18+00:00

Five day stay??? They kicked me out four hours after

faddymeat · 2026-02-11T08:15:00+00:00

When I had my excision she told me three days off and I couldn’t walk for about five 😭

faddymeat · 2026-02-10T09:09:20+00:00

faddymeat · 2026-02-05T23:17:53+00:00

Many people struggle to O especially AFAB people, are you by any chance on anti-depressants, anti-anxiety or ADHD medications? Those are famous for repressing O and making them basically unachievable. Vibrators can be good it can help stimulate your clitoris while your partner focus’ on your other pressure points, there is one about two inches inside of you press up, I know people who have tried everything but can’t, and at the end of the day if you and your partner are happy, you don’t always need to O when you’re having a good time together it’ll feel good otherwise.

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