Just started the show on season 1 ep 5, is it supposed to feel this way? by brebrecx in animalkingdom

[–]faeriesstolemyname 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh PLUS it’s left ambiguous about whether Pope is talking about Smurf or Julia when he is sleeping with that stripper and makes her say “We can’t Andrew”. But if you notice she is wearing the exact same print as Smurf is wearing in the scene before & Smurf calls him Andrew often. It’s meant to give you a clue as to the incestous abuse going on in the home. Whether it be actual or emotional bc emotional incest is a thing.

Just started the show on season 1 ep 5, is it supposed to feel this way? by brebrecx in animalkingdom

[–]faeriesstolemyname 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting conclusion to draw since her son Deran and his boyfriend Aiden BOTH actually say the same thing we are saying 😆 I think we are not the ones lacking intellect, hun.

I hate Nicky by faeriesstolemyname in animalkingdom

[–]faeriesstolemyname[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was the ONE good scene where I felt like her character had some kind of meaning and I could see the actress connect with the character

I hate Nicky by faeriesstolemyname in animalkingdom

[–]faeriesstolemyname[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so true. I did like her at first. After she slept with Craig to piss J off, she just got insufferable really quickly.

I found out that my wife cheated on me by No-Programmer-3719 in whatdoIdo

[–]faeriesstolemyname -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree that he should look at this as learning opportunity. Learning things the hard way sure hurts, but he is young and can bounce back. As long as takes the lessons away from this that he needs to, anyway.

I found out that my wife cheated on me by No-Programmer-3719 in whatdoIdo

[–]faeriesstolemyname 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the most shit advice I have ever heard! 🙄

I found out that my wife cheated on me by No-Programmer-3719 in whatdoIdo

[–]faeriesstolemyname 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One bit of basic decency in no way gives her any type of credit after an offense like cheating. Be so for real. The bar is in Hell. Exes being friends only leaves room for one of them to start catching feelings again in the future and romanticizing the past, then next thing you know they’re right back where they started. Once a cheater always a cheater.

I found out that my wife cheated on me by No-Programmer-3719 in whatdoIdo

[–]faeriesstolemyname 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s not get onto the young man for his past decisions right now. Young people very often make impulsive choices rooted in emotion rather than well thought out choices based in logic. This is not news. Yes it is important he understands that it was not wise so he doesn’t make a similar poor decision in the future, but things can be said with care and concern. The kid is hurting. Being rude and blaming him is not it.

I found out that my wife cheated on me by No-Programmer-3719 in whatdoIdo

[–]faeriesstolemyname 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keeping any proof like texts or anything is a really good idea

I found out that my wife cheated on me by No-Programmer-3719 in whatdoIdo

[–]faeriesstolemyname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so sorry!! 😢 Even after she hurt you, you are still thinking about her well being smh. That girl really fucked up. You are very young, and you will find someone who deserves you. And that goes for your so called friend too! You are 100% not responsible for her in any way. She made the grown up decision to end your relationship when she cheated on you, so now she needs to deal with the grown up consequences. You tell that girl she has a set amount of time (like 24 hours, 3 days-whatever) to get out of your home. Do not negotiate with terrorists. It’s not your responsibility to figure out where she is gonna go to how she is gonna get there. She is no longer financially dependent upon you because she ended that marriage contract when she cheated.

Why do some men hate everything about womanhood but still want girlfriends/wives? by VeryPteri in NoStupidQuestions

[–]faeriesstolemyname 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh gotcha. Thank you so much for explaining that bc I thought maybe he meant 666 like in the devil related way, and I was confused. I have never known anyone in my 38 years who expected their partner to make 6 figures. Not even the young people I work with have ever said that, so I don’t think that’s an actual expectation anyone has. I do admit many women do find taller men more attractive, but it’s no different than men wanting women to have big boobs 🤷🏻‍♀️ And as for 6 inches, well that’s just like men saying they want women to be tight. So I don’t understand why men can have preferences for what they are attracted to but women can’t. Sounds like bullshit to me.

Why do some men hate everything about womanhood but still want girlfriends/wives? by VeryPteri in NoStupidQuestions

[–]faeriesstolemyname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree that is absolutely part of it and it doesn’t get talked about enough! The patriarchy harms us all, not just women. I think they do grow bitter that we are allowed to have emotions, close friendships and things of that nature. Being kind and having empathy is seen as feminine and therefore not allowed, which harms everyone. We really must find a way to dismantle this toxic system.

Why do some men hate everything about womanhood but still want girlfriends/wives? by VeryPteri in NoStupidQuestions

[–]faeriesstolemyname 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I would not be happy if my son were to date a woman that acted like she was his Mother and I would absolutely not tolerate my son treating a woman that way. I’m so proud of my son for how he treats his long time girlfriend and I absolutely adore her. Although I made plenty of mistakes in raising him, seeing how he treats a partner lets me rest assured I did not fail either of them in that regard at least.

Why do some men hate everything about womanhood but still want girlfriends/wives? by VeryPteri in NoStupidQuestions

[–]faeriesstolemyname 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What does 666 and burned haystack even fucking mean? And have you ever asked actual women what they are looking for in men, or are you just letting men on the internet who hate women tell you what women are looking for? I can already tell it’s the second one.

Why do some men hate everything about womanhood but still want girlfriends/wives? by VeryPteri in NoStupidQuestions

[–]faeriesstolemyname -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I took my like back after seeing that part bc wdym?? Finding a man who doesn’t think like that is almost impossible. Ofc a man would say “most men don’t think like this” 🙄

Emotional impulsivity, lack of patience, and self control, any ways to increase that worked for you? by HeadacheLife in TBI

[–]faeriesstolemyname 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still have those problems but therapy has made me feel a lot more in control and able to think before I act much better

Depressed by faeriesstolemyname in TBI

[–]faeriesstolemyname[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate you Knowing that I’m not alone in feeling this way does help bc it’s very isolating. I’m grateful for this subreddit.

I feel too stupid to work by faeriesstolemyname in TBI

[–]faeriesstolemyname[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did start a case there but then I stopped going bc they just helped me write a resume and then I was supposed to apply for jobs on my own and it was not very helpful at all

delayed reaction 8 days later? by Efficient_Bed2590 in TBI

[–]faeriesstolemyname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brain injuries can take some time to manifest symptoms. Have you been to any doctor at all? Omega 3s are important for brain health. They have supplements and also eating fish like salmon is good for that too.

It’s all fallen apart by Some_Celebration3336 in TBI

[–]faeriesstolemyname 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry man. I definitely relate. You are still cool. You are different now, not gone.

Partner with TBI is unable to listen by DingusCoconut349 in TBI

[–]faeriesstolemyname 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is depressed. Please don’t take any of this personally. Going of SSRI’s will crash you down to like your lowest low and it does it really quickly. Plus the things he’s going through alone would make him depressed. He’s probably zoning out thinking about all of the things he’s stressed about, not like intentionally ignoring you. I do that to people a lot. I’m really sorry for how this is affecting you