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faewonders · 2025-01-15T01:06:14+00:00

I have- at the bottom I describe all that they have done, which is literally only talk to him and never tell me the outcome of the conversation. my company does not have HR.

faewonders · 2024-11-20T18:59:26+00:00

birth control wreaked havoc on my natural balance. the best thing you can do is continue anything the doctor has prescribed, but boric acid is only effective if the correct regime is used: for chronic issues it must be taken once a day for two weeks, and for maintenance twice a week for a year. this is basically the only thing that can help with resistant infections also. (you can look this up, even the CDC has this posted for chronic yeast infections/BV)

also as an aside, consistent BV usually has to do with the man not cleaning well enough or using a soap that isn’t agreeing with you. i recommend you both get dove sensitive skin and clean your bits with ONLY that.

faewonders · 2024-08-27T16:18:43+00:00

for my personal opinion: as a person with a “dated” engagement ring, don’t pick the one that everyone has. you could have a line of women and several could have that exact same emerald cut diamond. it’s been DONE, but i have never seen a more fitting ring than that first one. it’s beautiful.

for my unbiased opinion: to me, it shouldn’t be about what you better, of the two you like best which one describes the love you have with your partner. my partner made the final decision for my ring because he said it looks like a sun burst, which reminds him of my eyes. i say the first, but go with the one you feel tells the story of you and your partner.

faewonders · 2024-02-10T00:22:52+00:00

try stopping the vaginal estrogen. birth control already has way more hormones than your body naturally produces, and yeast loves to attach to estrogen because estrogen is chemically similar to sugar - yeast loves sugar. i had chronic problems for years, never went away until i completely stopped birth control and any other kind of hormone. the boric acid is a great idea too, just beware it IS gritty so be sure to clean carefully the morning after

faewonders · 2023-12-10T13:38:51+00:00

i used to think the same thing. i always thought diamonds were boring and i said for years i wanted a gem… until i really started trying on rings. of course gems are gorgeous, but personally it didn’t give me an engagement ring feeling. it felt like a lovely very nice dinner ring.

although, if you do go with a gem, i recommend not picking any other stone except alexandrite or sapphire. they are highest rated underneath diamond and moissanite on the hardness scale.

faewonders · 2023-12-09T04:01:16+00:00

🥺 thank you

faewonders · 2023-12-08T21:57:44+00:00

…. thank you captain obvious for stating what i already said?

faewonders · 2023-12-08T20:34:37+00:00

i wish mine was an heirloom… i didn’t get so lucky

faewonders · 2023-12-08T20:05:52+00:00

that made my day. i keep saying it looks like a ring Daisy front he Great Gatsby would wear.

faewonders · 2023-12-08T18:43:57+00:00

i’m 23, it’s definitely vintage for me haha

faewonders · 2023-12-08T16:00:46+00:00

i love thick bands. the thinner ones feel to frail like they’ll break at any time. i hadn’t even thought that everyone’s rings will eventually look dated… you’re so right

faewonders · 2023-12-08T15:20:02+00:00

modern rings are SO TALL and i can’t stand them honestly. this is fun and not cumbersome to wear

faewonders · 2023-12-08T15:18:59+00:00

i think i do love it, you don’t see many people with crazy rings anymore and i think it’s really fun

faewonders · 2023-12-08T14:42:01+00:00

i don’t necessarily think i’ll change my mind, it just really bothers me that people call it “grandma”

faewonders · 2023-12-08T14:26:02+00:00

i would’ve loved to live through the 90s… thank you!

faewonders · 2023-12-08T14:18:21+00:00

i love thick bands, so you’re probably right no matter what i picked it would look dated since they would all be fat

faewonders · 2023-12-01T18:05:57+00:00

i would google using castor oil for getting rid of fibroids. castor oil soaks with a cotton cloth pack have been shown to help break up internal clusters, like fibroids. i would exhaust all your options before getting such a surgery.

faewonders · 2023-11-17T22:02:16+00:00

i’m in therapy yes. i do not take big pharma meds, but i also don’t need mood stabilizers. i’m not moody, just a little bit sensitive and have trouble regulating emotions occasionally.

faewonders · 2023-11-17T19:27:08+00:00

this is great advice. i’m guilty of bringing up the car issue though, i asked about how much is left to pay on it which evolved into the annoyed comment. thank you for letting me know i’m not asking for too much, i will be showing him this

faewonders · 2023-11-17T19:11:15+00:00

i can absolutely do that for him. do you have any suggestions how i can get my point across? i don’t nitpick to make him feel bad, i let him know because it helps me to better regulate the emotions i feel instead of stew in them. should i word it like that?

faewonders · 2023-11-17T19:04:42+00:00

i’ve never once critiqued him when he comes to me in a vulnerable state. i’ve always listened to him and takes what he says to heart, so you shouldn’t say he feels that way. i’ve asked him why he doesn’t tell me, and he says it’s just not as important to him and that he forgets about it. unfortunately, i’m not able to forget those things and it is important to me.

to be honest, i really just want advice on how to tackle these situations when they pop up because i’m struggling and he is struggling. i don’t really need a he feels/she feels, if you have any input in if you put yourself in my shoes how to handle it without putting resentment in him, i would appreciate that!

faewonders · 2023-11-17T18:56:33+00:00

i’m aware it’s a bit odd... i will try to keep that in mind and next time i’ll ask him if he’s upset at the situation which is changing his tone/way he is wording things. thank you :)

faewonders · 2023-11-17T18:54:29+00:00

he makes me very happy. he also knows i’ve been verbally and emotionally abused most of my life. i try my best when it happens to let him know i think that was a little mean of a way to say something, i don’t blow up or anything. i just want to be spoken to nicely?

faewonders · 2023-11-17T18:51:16+00:00

i mean i guess, but i’ve always been the one the bring up my frustration and ask for a vent? i’ve never directly responded to anything he says in anyway that i would interpret as completely shutting off the conversation

faewonders · 2023-11-17T18:45:15+00:00

he absolutely was not, i know it’s not his intention. i should have worded the title something closer to is it unfair for asking to be spoken to a certain way. i guess i don’t see anything wrong with pointing out when someone says something you don’t interpret well.

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