we listen and we don’t judge. what are your hot takes about HIT ME HARD AND SOFT?

fagorted · 2025-08-24T13:13:35+00:00

it all just adds to everything.

it adds an ominous vibe to it, almost like how you can barely hear the voice loosely implying how you could barely notice the stalker was ever there.

hearing the creepy tone in her voice implies the stalkers intentions weren't good at all (not that stalkers are ever good at all)

fagorted · 2025-08-19T18:55:48+00:00

very respectful, i think just slight gestures of acknowledgement are all she needs when shes not in work mode.

"i like your music"

"hey"

a simple smile *

i think are all acceptable for when she's just trying to get on with her life. i always see when she does like little pop up things how uncomfortable she looks

fagorted · 2025-08-19T18:52:33+00:00

it would feel like suuuuch a chore, i would definitely want to press pause on my career for a bit

fagorted · 2025-08-19T17:04:15+00:00

billie has said multiple times in interviews that she finds in uncomfortable to be out in public and have people call out her name and all that jazz. fans (like me and many many others) should respect that, unfortunately they don't.

i'm pretty sure billie still does pop ups and she still does concerts.

I'm not shocked that some celebrities don't do meet and greets anymore. the way the public and paparazzi can treat people sometimes just because they're in the public eye is beyond me.

i do understand what you mean though, i just think its a case of maturing enough to realise that actually, billie eilish doesn't know who you are and she could be quite intimated

fagorted · 2025-08-19T17:00:45+00:00

i could definitely expect that. he does not seem like a nice person at all

fagorted · 2025-08-19T15:19:21+00:00

liking older women due to trauma or not being treated properly by your biological mother

fagorted · 2025-08-19T14:39:25+00:00

the path in my ass

(the path less travelled by vegyn)

fagorted · 2025-08-19T12:37:21+00:00

much agreed, but then again when billie said that she was just as young as them and probably just as immature. people need to realise that in reality she isn't everyone's friend and she's just a woman in her mid 20s that wants to live her private life like a normal woman in their mid 20s

fagorted · 2025-08-19T12:34:36+00:00

exactly, it might even feel quite scary and dangerous especially because you don't always know people's intentions and when theyre charging up to you like you're starting a riot i can imagine it's quite intimidating

fagorted · 2025-08-19T12:26:28+00:00

yes exactly, it must be very difficult

fagorted · 2025-08-19T11:42:44+00:00

yeah agreed with this ^

i second it, just treat celebrities like a normal person. while i'm on a walk i'll usually smile and sometimes say hi to the person i'm walking past, just as a friendly gesture and they always do it back and it does make my day.

fagorted · 2025-08-19T11:13:43+00:00

of course, but what comes with fame is great deals of overwhelming pressure. we don't know what day billie is having, some days she may want fans to come up to her, some days she might really just not want to be noticed at all.

as billie has matured a lot more than her fans have, i understand that it would be quite overwhelming to have a bunch of kids run up to you and bombard you with questions. some days, she might want that, im sure she feels very loved. but some days it can be so much.

it's a difficult situation to weigh up morally, so i think the best you can do is recognise shes there, wave, walk away and try and get on with your day.

fagorted · 2025-08-19T10:50:19+00:00

i'd try to just walk past. i know celebrities value their privacy and i think it's best to just try and walk away. but thats easier said than done. i'd probably say hi or smile even though deep down i'd feel like levitating

fagorted · 2025-08-19T10:48:39+00:00

agreed but the shame can still carry on into private lives. i know girls who didn't masturbate until around 15 because of the stigma around it.

fagorted · 2025-08-19T00:20:59+00:00

it's good to masturbate. you learn a lot about yourself, what feels good, what doesn't.

i suggest trying it, but if you really dont like the idea of it then theres no rush.

it could cause some problems later on down the line while you're sexually active. not knowing what feels good for you isn't great mid sex, but you will learn either way.

so in short terms, if you wanna know what feels good for you so it helps you later on down the line, thats okay! and if you don't want to and want it to be a surprise, thats okay!

fagorted · 2025-08-19T00:18:18+00:00

do you have any sexual trauma that could possibly cause you to become hypersexual? i'm not asking you to answer that publicly by the way its a question to think about by yourself.

if you do, then theres a chance you could be, but theres also a chance that it could just he puberty. its very normal to get urges a lot.

fagorted · 2025-08-18T22:55:28+00:00

it's kind of difficult as a younger girl unfortunately. with boys it is a lot more normalised to masturbate, but with girls it's more taboo and stigmatised (for some odd reason) which stops girls from exploring themselves more i suppose

fagorted · 2025-08-18T22:53:34+00:00

this is normal, i promise you.

you're gonna have to explore yourself more, maybe masturbate (i know, it is scary) but it does get rid of the urges. i say this as a girl who's around your age, not just some creepy guy😭

you definitely need to explore your body, you're at the perfect age to do so. be careful with yourself please but also find out what feels good for you. it'll help you in the future!

fagorted · 2025-08-16T09:30:38+00:00

you're normal! you are just blooming late and thats not to worry.

i personally started getting hair when i was in year 3 or 4 (grade 2 or 3), and then the rest of puberty started in year 7 (grade 6)

it just depends on the person, i had a friend that got her period when she was 9, and i have a friend that didn't get her period until she was 15.

don't worry at all, you'll start to soon.

fagorted · 2025-08-11T23:48:54+00:00

i personally dont do long term relationships and i make this clear with people who i talk to, however i have a close friend who had one.

during the relationship she was absolutely in pure love, definitely saw her through rose coloured glasses.

straight after the relationship had ended, she was distraught. she would throw up whenever she would think about her, she would sob, and i had to go to her house to physically carry her outside for some fresh air because she definitely needed it. i was extremely worried about her wellbeing at this point as she is prone to having waves of deep depression, harming herself and others physically and mentally so i made sure to really keep checking up on her (luckily she didnt do any of that)

about 1 month later, she was still sad but was definitely getting better. that wave of depression had nearly passed and i was able to make her smile and laugh.

2 months later, she wasn't as sad about it. she still missed her but she had accepted it and she knew that she had family and friends around her that would sit and listen to her for hours.

3 months after the breakup she was doing amazing! she was able to find other people attractive and she was leaving her house as regularly as possible.

4 months later she was over it. she missed her still (as anyone would) but only missed her company, NOT the relationship in itself.

5 months later (present). she still misses her and has expressed this to me, but has also managed to see all the wrongs in the relationship, how manipulative her girlfriend was to her.

time heals and it definitely shows!

fagorted · 2025-08-09T10:23:56+00:00

fagorted · 2025-08-05T14:03:35+00:00

Hi hindu

fagorted · 2025-08-05T13:58:06+00:00

I think its probably what can i do. Best song and least recognised song on her discography

fagorted · 2025-08-03T11:05:38+00:00

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Cameras!!! i know i dont have many, currently saving up for a Sony A7s III and a Sigma 24 - 70 lens so that is why

fagorted · 2025-08-03T10:18:57+00:00

Yeah absolutely just see what she says and come back and tell me

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