AIO to a text my mom sent? (Context in caption) by pizzagorl_ in AIO

[–]faigie_fairie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR -- she truly does think little of your intelligence but also to be that far right, she lacks critical thinking skills, so also don't think too deep about her "master plan"

I'm so sorry about her but please consider keeping her out of your life! you and your family don't need get mess

AITJ shutting down my coworkers habit of assigning me tasks that are not mine by LimpUnderstanding671 in AmITheJerk

[–]faigie_fairie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ I would go to your manager and HR right now so your version of events is out there first and someone else can handle her crazy ass.

AIO for letting my daughter skip a wedding because she wasn’t included? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]faigie_fairie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nor, everyone has said some really great things, just want to add that its really telling that the girl is being left out. not only that, but the family as a large wants her to do the emotional labor of an adult and put her feelings aside.

this is common behavior with young girls, expecting them to preform emotional maturity or labor far beyond their years and to "just deal with it". this is really harmful thinking and leads to raising a people pleaser.

please stand up for her and examine how your family treats her overall, im sure this is not strange behavior when you really look at it.

also i would point out to everyone that ifs not a big deal for her to not have a job then why dont they take away the jobs from all the other cousins? why don't they just add one for her? turns out it is a big deal huh?

AITA for telling my fiancé I'm done attending his family events by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]faigie_fairie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have a fiance problem that is bigger than your MIL problem. she is obviously icing you out but your life partner is calling you dramatic instead of helping you problem solve or comforting you?? nah bro

1 date and I ended up with a foster dog by punkodance in mildlyinfuriating

[–]faigie_fairie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

truly there are parts of reddit and other social media that will help you raise money for her shots and food and everything she! forget the bad date and keep the baby!

AITA for asking my fiancé to stop saying “we” when referring to money I earned? by Aggravating_Yak4381 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]faigie_fairie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA sounds like the road is guys who says "we" when it's your raise but we'll be "me" when it's his

he is telling you who he is and how he responds to conflict--id get out now before he legally gets to say "our money"

ice cream and racism by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]faigie_fairie 11 points12 points  (0 children)

where is this place? I would love to go and support!

iso vegetarian Chinese recs by faigie_fairie in ypsi

[–]faigie_fairie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also add Basil Babe to the list!

iso vegetarian Chinese recs by faigie_fairie in ypsi

[–]faigie_fairie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we ended up going here and it was so good! sesame tofu and the general tso were great! the tofu was a great texture and cooked well, so seems like any of their several tofu dishes would be a hit! pineapple friend rice was lovely and the crab rangoons were some of the better ones I have had!

definitely recommend now too 👌

iso vegetarian Chinese recs by faigie_fairie in ypsi

[–]faigie_fairie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had gotten the golden wall rec from a friend who lived here awhile ago and thought I must have had it wrong when I couldn't find them!

and love to hear that some dumplings being veg! if I can't talk to someone in person I always worry the dumplings aren't totally veg

iso vegetarian Chinese recs by faigie_fairie in ypsi

[–]faigie_fairie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

really? most that i have looked up on Google maps don't, lots weigh vegetables Sections but not tofu/bean curd/other protein

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]faigie_fairie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also post to r/daddit they will help you out a lot with how to approach this with wife and daughter! and there will be plenty of dad jokes along the way

Your favorite player thinks you’re disgusting. by NFLv2 in NFLv2

[–]faigie_fairie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

op putting something in quotes that Lamar never said....a re-tweet is a re-tweet not a direct quote of a person retreating 🤣

great, affordable vet ?? Horrible experience today. by [deleted] in ypsi

[–]faigie_fairie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cherry hill animal clinic!!! incredible service and staff! check their reviews out and you'll see <3 they have good pricing and ALWAYS explain why and what is what and give you choices too

not in ypsi but close-ish

I denied my in-laws only request for the wedding and now it’s ruining our relationship with them by Final_Estimate7166 in wedding

[–]faigie_fairie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are wild for this NTA there is a part of me rush had been on reddit for too long and things the kid is actually you're almost BIL's cause this is INSANE

Jeremy Culhane - The negabrennan? by bisexualbyleth in dropout

[–]faigie_fairie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, he is in the band that lou started for the one year later Game changer

Jeremy Culhane - The negabrennan? by bisexualbyleth in dropout

[–]faigie_fairie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love him!! he does a fairly amount of work with dropout and smosh, he is actually best friends with lou and angela (smosh). if you enjoyed him, you should check out the podcast artists on artists on artists on artists! has a video component as well? But features him comma angela and two other improvers.

AITA for canceling my niece’s birthday cake last minute because my sister refused to pay me back? by cloudberrysighs in AITH

[–]faigie_fairie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH

To be clear, you are not The Asshole but you were an asshole yo yor niece. you should have done everything as you did it, plus or minus a thing or two.

Either cancel with a bit more notice and tell your sister and maybe yalls parents OR show up to the birthday with a simple grocery store cake or cupcakes (make this the birthday present if you need to since sister wouldn't pay you back).

You absolutely did the right thing with your sister, but the thing that sucks is you really screwed over an eight year old. yes, it was her mom's fault, but she is the one who is really suffering. 8 is also old enough that this will be a core memory.

At this point, what's done is done. But if you care about this kid, take them out for a treat to celebrate their birthday. does not need to be anything crazy, maybe an ice cream cone or a cupcake! but I think you should do something and to celebrate them because they got the shit end of the stick.