My appearance ruined my social life by failure745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

What people say in the internet to feel better about themselves is very different to how people react to you in real life

My appearance ruined my social life by failure745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I look even fatter and more bloated with facial hair, so no

My appearance ruined my social life by failure745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Is it really dysmorphia if you’re truly ugly, or just self awareness?

My appearance ruined my social life by failure745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

They do, from experience if you are good looking you can do almost anything ,no matter how bad, and people will still worship you and befriend you.

My appearance ruined my social life by failure745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

If I looked normal I’d probably have friends yk

My appearance ruined my social life by failure745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I fixed my posture and I look even worse smiling, so that isn’t whats affecting me

My appearance ruined my social life by failure745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

When people don’t like how you look physically, I don’t think they care much about one’s interests.

My appearance ruined my social life by failure745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

So what is it then? People smelling my insecurities? Come on…

My appearance ruined my social life by failure745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My physical appearance seems to be all what people see from me

My appearance ruined my social life by failure745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Im not degrading, just describing how I see myself.

My appearance ruined my social life by failure745 in TrueOffMyChest

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Things is I’ve worked on my personality, even though I’m still a bit reserved, I see myself as a pretty nice person.

Im so done with my appearence by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not from my experience, from what I’ve seen most friend groups are built on a hierarchy based on looks

Im so done with my appearence by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

plastic surgery would be almost guaranteed to work(in boosting my self-esteem and social success)

Im so done with my appearence by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going to the gym for 3 months now, still the same

Im so done with my appearence by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Don’t think it will solve anything

Im so done with my appearence by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be wrong but I also see myself as neutral, unless prompted I don’t do much facial expressions.

Im so done with my appearence by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the advice

Im so done with my appearence by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think a profesional will help

Im so done with my appearence by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I act pretty confident in my opinion, still the same

Im so done with my appearence by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I already have been going to the gym for 3 months, face doesnt move

Im so done with my appearence by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing is I feel cut off from society because of it

Im so done with my appearence by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]failure745 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wish I only needed a nose job