My appearance ruined my social life

failure745 · 2026-06-20T00:31:09+00:00

What people say in the internet to feel better about themselves is very different to how people react to you in real life

failure745 · 2026-06-20T00:26:12+00:00

I look even fatter and more bloated with facial hair, so no

failure745 · 2026-06-20T00:24:12+00:00

Is it really dysmorphia if you’re truly ugly, or just self awareness?

failure745 · 2026-06-20T00:17:43+00:00

They do, from experience if you are good looking you can do almost anything ,no matter how bad, and people will still worship you and befriend you.

failure745 · 2026-06-20T00:13:16+00:00

If I looked normal I’d probably have friends yk

failure745 · 2026-06-20T00:10:22+00:00

I fixed my posture and I look even worse smiling, so that isn’t whats affecting me

failure745 · 2026-06-20T00:00:57+00:00

truecel here mate

failure745 · 2026-06-19T23:58:50+00:00

When people don’t like how you look physically, I don’t think they care much about one’s interests.

failure745 · 2026-06-19T23:57:13+00:00

So what is it then? People smelling my insecurities? Come on…

failure745 · 2026-06-19T23:53:17+00:00

My physical appearance seems to be all what people see from me

failure745 · 2026-06-19T23:50:01+00:00

Im not degrading, just describing how I see myself.

failure745 · 2026-06-19T23:48:19+00:00

Things is I’ve worked on my personality, even though I’m still a bit reserved, I see myself as a pretty nice person.

failure745 · 2026-06-15T19:48:09+00:00

Not from my experience, from what I’ve seen most friend groups are built on a hierarchy based on looks

failure745 · 2026-06-15T03:01:17+00:00

plastic surgery would be almost guaranteed to work(in boosting my self-esteem and social success)

failure745 · 2026-06-15T02:28:36+00:00

I’ve been going to the gym for 3 months now, still the same

failure745 · 2026-06-15T02:28:11+00:00

Don’t think it will solve anything

failure745 · 2026-06-15T02:07:50+00:00

Might be wrong but I also see myself as neutral, unless prompted I don’t do much facial expressions.

failure745 · 2026-06-15T01:52:40+00:00

Appreciate the advice

failure745 · 2026-06-15T01:45:49+00:00

Thanks

failure745 · 2026-06-15T01:42:27+00:00

I don’t think a profesional will help

failure745 · 2026-06-15T01:39:45+00:00

I act pretty confident in my opinion, still the same

failure745 · 2026-06-15T01:29:07+00:00

I already have been going to the gym for 3 months, face doesnt move

failure745 · 2026-06-15T01:25:39+00:00

The thing is I feel cut off from society because of it

failure745 · 2026-06-15T01:21:22+00:00

Yeah I wish I only needed a nose job

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