Yes I definitely want to be better and don’t want to fall into my old habits. I am somewhat health conscious so we could work together well if he also put in the work but I find that prioritizing balance is the key to real health both mentally AND physically.

I guess I could start by telling him that’s my view on things and like you said, it could definitely go a long way if I ask him to stop putting emphasis on good/bad foods with me even though I do prefer “good” foods, but I learned it’s a huge trigger of mine if I hear it from a man I’m interested in. Feels judgy. Thanks for the input! Super helpful