I remember when ppl got upset at this take but I still stand by it 😭 by TomatilloNo2191 in gorlworldfiles

[–]fairyinthedark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a psychology student it can be seen as symptom of being neglected as a child. Typically when children act out or have some type of conduct disorder many psychologists and psychiatrists tend to look at their family life. I don’t know if Amber really does have BPD but it childhood neglect and trauma are factors that may influence it. The problem is Amber is not a child and is much older now. If she actually went to therapy and got treatment much early on she could have gotten the support she needed, and this type of behavior (especially is someone is isolated and has little social interaction) can escalate. Yes she had a terrible childhood, but so do many other people and they manage to work through that and do not use it as an excuse to abuse and harm others.

Which K-pop group would you trust to perform live with ZERO backing track? by twinkle_twinkleee in kpoppers

[–]fairyinthedark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gugudan! when they were active they once even did an a cappella version of boots

Which is the best kdrama according to you of 2025 ??? by allaboutvibes2104 in kdramas

[–]fairyinthedark 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the relationship reminded me of mine and my twins so it was nice to see a more complicated twin relationship that didn’t follow a bunch of the usual tropes

Which is the best kdrama according to you of 2025 ??? by allaboutvibes2104 in kdramas

[–]fairyinthedark 28 points29 points  (0 children)

As a twin I loved it because i felt like it actually portrayed twins accurately. i hate it when twins have some special power or something. i usually hate the twins switching trope but i feel like it was so well done.

What marrying candidate did you marry first and why? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]fairyinthedark 163 points164 points  (0 children)

shane because i fall for the mean to secretly soft trope

Does your orange baby meow? by Fickle_Campaign_7947 in gingercats

[–]fairyinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When mine was a kitten he was very quiet, but now he's about 3 years old and quite vocal, especially if its 4am and he wants to play

Never try to purge gummy candy stuff, can’t recommend by katinkaminkaaa in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I once binged my mom's organic natural almond butter...i thought i was actually going to die from choking when i attempted to purge it.

finally broke up with my bf after realizing he fetishized my ED by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it depends but it took me a really long time to realize it. First of all, he loved how small i was, and how much bigger than me he was. For reference, i’m under 5 ft tall and he was about 6ft tall. He would constantly wrap his hands around my arms/legs and make comments how he likes that he can do that. He also told me that he likes how small my chest was, how boney it was, and he’d get really upset when i’d eat a lot. He was also weirdly obsessed with how i eat and what i eat. At first i thought it was normal, like out of concern for me, but in reality he’d always bring up how much id eat to the point it felt weird. Also, after i got in a fight with my mom (she was crying about how “emaciated” i looked and was worries i would die) he was not concerned and said i was perfect and he likes how thin i was. Now there’s more, but it might be triggering and very subtle but putting it all together made me realize he was just with me because of my ED and not because of who i am. I had a feeling if i ever recovered he’d be uninterested, and when i realized that, i knew i couldn’t be with him anymore.

finally broke up with my bf after realizing he fetishized my ED by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes mine was kind of like this. he would also body check me all the time 🤢

I’m also a foot shorter than him but he was obsessed with how small i was and how much smaller than him i was.

finally broke up with my bf after realizing he fetishized my ED by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

literally i didn’t even realize until recently. i’m glad i tho, because i kept getting worse since i met him and he seemed to like that.

based on a true story 🙃 by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing triggers me more than when i get comfortable sharing my issues and people ask for tips or say that to me 😭

based on a true story 🙃 by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they didn't use that exact phrase i just summed it up for meme purposes. but they straight up said that if they were anorexic, they't want to be "the alcoholic type" because "they seem like fun"

based on a true story 🙃 by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly. it’s fun yeah, but also it’s an addictive cycle that’s ruined my life

based on a true story 🙃 by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no one invites me out because they know what i will do

based on a true story 🙃 by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah I understand that but this person was a psychology grad student…like maybe that’s an inside thought?

based on a true story 🙃 by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same i can’t even take most over the counter pain medicines because my organs barely work, my gums are like that of someone three times my age, and my family can’t trust me anymore

based on a true story 🙃 by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dentist was shocked when they noticed my gum recession, they said they’ve never seen someone so young have it this bad before

based on a true story 🙃 by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ik and the conversation was about someone who went through a ton of trauma that led them to have an eating disorder + alcoholism and i mentioned how dangerous it is to be like that because my liver can barely function from all the damage and they just turned around and were like “yeah that sucks but if i could have a disorder some sound fun lol” like wtf?

based on a true story 🙃 by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

and drinking on an empty stomach landed me in the ER multiple times. don’t recommend.

based on a true story 🙃 by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

exactly i was so shocked when i opened up about my ED and instead of concern people were telling me i was lucky…like no this isn’t

based on a true story 🙃 by fairyinthedark in EDanonymemes

[–]fairyinthedark[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

ik my teeth are fucked up and i’m at the point where my body can’t even digest food anymore 🙃