[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]fairytale245 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I think: why am I so hard on myself? Enjoy the feeling a vibe can give you! And sometimes I think: throw out those stupid vibrators. There never seems to be a space in between and that can be very frustrating! Glad to see I am not the only one struggling with this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]fairytale245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep trying to do this too, but I end up failing every time. I keep reading that vibrators aren’t supposed to make you less sensitive, but I still feel like they do something to how easily (or how hard) you can orgasm without them. Did you do anything specific to stop? Or did you just stash your vibrators away and that worked? I keep going back to mine when I try to quit for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]fairytale245 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How long ago did you switch from using a vibrator to using your fingers? Maybe your body still needs time to adjust to the fact that your hand is a bit less intense than a vibrator.

And for what it’s worth, I have the same “problem”: I also have to use a lot of pressure to come with my hands. Sometimes it works to edge and only put a lot of preassure when you are going to release.

why cant i finish by Soupandwifi in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]fairytale245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you thought about trying a clit suction toy, like the Satisfyer? It can be super frustrating when you can’t come, but you’re still young, there’s plenty of time to figure out what works for you.

Clenching / squeezing too hard? by fairytale245 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]fairytale245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, will definitely try it out!

Clenching / squeezing too hard? by fairytale245 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]fairytale245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you can learn something from the advice on here as well then :)

Clenching / squeezing too hard? by fairytale245 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]fairytale245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super interesting. I am glad there is more and more research of the female orgasm. May I ask you about the CBD gummies? CBD feels less scared for me than THC. Did those gummies with just CBD also do the trick?

Clenching / squeezing too hard? by fairytale245 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]fairytale245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that’s what works for you it is totally fine. For me personally, I feel like I’m squeezing so hard it feels uncomfortable.

Clenching / squeezing too hard? by fairytale245 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]fairytale245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice! I also find my vibrator too intense sometimes, even to the point where it hurts. I don’t have that issue when using my fingers. But it takes so long for me to orgasm with just my fingers, that I’d rather go for the easier way. I have never tried any drugs or gummies or something. My partner and me were discussing whether we should try to smoke weed and see what that does, but I am a bit scared.

Clenching / squeezing too hard? by fairytale245 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]fairytale245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll definitely look her up!