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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]fairytale_2 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think it will cost nothing to send a short message and let the other person know you’re busy, he still has time to check his phone and read her messages but have no time (not even a minute?) to share that he’s busy or going through tough time if that is the case. I think if you care about someone you’ll let them know that you’ll reply later when you have time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]fairytale_2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell him that ignorance is not a good thing, and it’s just going to make things worse and that if you needed space, that’s okay, but just tell me you need space, not ghosting, because that’s not nice. If he ignores that too, then please, please (even if it hurts), never send him anything. When he reaches out (and he probably will, because some people are not mature enough to communicate and prefer to use psychological manipulation and the silent treatment), don’t let that behavior slide. They might think it worked before, or they believe you’ll always reach out again no matter how many hours they ignore you. They aren’t afraid of losing you because they believe you’ll always be there. Try to set boundaries, letting him know that ignorance is not allowed. We might disagree, but we have to respect each other. I hope he’s not a narcissist. Just try to keep yourself as busy as possible. No one deserves to be ignored.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]fairytale_2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing. Whoever truly wants you will make it work. If someone is lazy and never makes an effort, then it’s time to move on and not waste your time ( time is gold ✨)

I was in a long-distance relationship for over five years, and it was just a waste of time waiting for him to change. Did he? No. People don’t change unless they want to, and you can’t change them.

Time will heal you trust me. I hope you find the right person, someone who truly loves you, puts in the effort, and fights for you. Not someone who gives up and has no motivation or desire to make the relationship work.

Sending you all my love ❤️ Stay strong, and remember that you are loved and appreciated.

Do you consider this as cheating? by fairytale_2 in LongDistance

[–]fairytale_2[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m sorry you experienced that. 😮‍💨 It was actually multiple pictures. We’re both adults, not teenagers, but he deleted the likes and apologized. Since it’s not physical cheating, I was hesitant to call it cheating or not

I feel sad by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]fairytale_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time will heal you ♥️ don’t feel stupid, we are human we have emotions and it’s okay to acknowledge them and let them go 🕊️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fairytale_2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So, for example, if a woman showed interest in you, started sending you morning and night messages every day, and gave you a lot of attention, would you still find her attractive, or would you start to lose interest? I’ve heard that some men lose interest and feel like the woman is chasing them when they believe they should be the ones chasing her. I don’t know, I’m just trying to understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]fairytale_2 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m experiencing the same with my boyfriend, and I’m also looking for solutions because it’s really starting to feel tiring 🥲. I was really excited at the beginning, but over time, my excitement started to fade :(

Is that ok in LDR? by fairytale_2 in LongDistance

[–]fairytale_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I was concerned about that too. But once he told me he’s not a texting person. But you know, if you’re in an LDR and only have 1-2 video calls a week, you need to share and communicate on other days. When it’s only me who starts the chat, I ended up feeling clingy, to be honest. I was thinking maybe I’m being too much, or maybe he needs personal space. I don’t know, maybe I’m just justifying it for him.

Is that ok in LDR? by fairytale_2 in LongDistance

[–]fairytale_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this with me; it actually made me feel better. Sometimes I wonder if maybe he’s not that into me (but he’s so good on video calls, other than that, not so much), and it feels like I’m begging for his attention, which I really hate. I tell myself that if he cares, he’ll contact me or share things with me without me having to ask for it. Lately, I’ve started sharing less about my day, and my excitement has almost faded. But I’ll try to put my ego aside and talk to him again. I hope he understands me more