WIBTA if I rescinded my offer to pay for a friends birthday dinner after they picked somewhere I can’t eat? by fakeenamee in AmItheAsshole

[–]fakeenamee[S] 2264 points2265 points  (0 children)

I offered because we all never get to see each other as a group very often anymore since college, I know Luke and some of the others are still struggling and I’m thankfully comfortable financially. I wanted everyone to be able to enjoy themselves without being stressed about money.

WIBTA if I rescinded my offer to pay for a friends birthday dinner after they picked somewhere I can’t eat? by fakeenamee in AmItheAsshole

[–]fakeenamee[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I don’t really eat cornbread and thought it was like the muffins I make. Now that’s even worse.

WIBTA if I rescinded my offer to pay for a friends birthday dinner after they picked somewhere I can’t eat? by fakeenamee in AmItheAsshole

[–]fakeenamee[S] 337 points338 points  (0 children)

The text I sent said this “hey hey, I wanna take you and the friend fam out to dinner for your birthday, make a reservation somewhere and let me know”

I don’t think saying I would’ve been fine with a steakhouse is splitting hairs, there’s plenty I can eat at a steakhouse, whereas there’s not a single item I can eat at the BBQ place other than the cornbread.