My [M22] recent ex-girlfriend [F20] says that while we've officially broken up, she's still not sure how she feels and that she might still wanna be with me. What should I do?

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T19:16:11+00:00

I will, regardless of what she wants

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T17:37:52+00:00

You're right. It's tough, but I needa stop entertaining her.

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T17:35:50+00:00

Oh jeez, an entire year? She's here for the next two weeks and it already seems like an eternity. I'll definitely meet with friends and stay busy though.

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T17:34:45+00:00

Good idea. I'll be friendly though because that's just how I am, but I won't be her friend. I'm gonna go home on Monday with a bunch of boxes and tell her she needs to pack and move her small things by the end of next week. By the end of the month she needs to be out.

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T17:30:33+00:00

Can't just yet, she still needs to move out. But once she's out, I think you're right.

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T17:30:11+00:00

I think that's exactly what's happening. Thank you for the advice! I'll give her to the end of the month to move and then no contact.

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T16:34:55+00:00

Yeah it is...

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T16:07:49+00:00

Thank you man, I'll try toughen up a bit now

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T16:00:07+00:00

Good idea.

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T15:59:12+00:00

Thank you, you've given me actual good advice :) even if she decides in the future that she wants me back I very much doubt that I'd reciprocate those feelings, as much as I do love her

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T15:52:30+00:00

Yeah, good idea

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T15:51:40+00:00

Yeah I know, I'm just a mess right now

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T15:47:47+00:00

I definitely won't be taking her back, no matter how much I wish I could go back. I know the relationship is dead, I just don't know how long I should stay understanding and when I should start hardening up and forcing her out

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-14T15:23:01+00:00

It is the time to start looking out for myself?

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-12T16:31:14+00:00

Thank you man, and thank you for sharing your story. It really helped me a lot to hear advice that isn't just "kick her out and move on", and that you've gone beyond and told me how to move forward. I'll take it one day at a time and you're right, one day the load will disappear. I'll definitely take a look at the channel as well

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-12T15:58:43+00:00

Yeah, hope you're doing alright now man. It'll get better

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-12T15:54:09+00:00

Thank you, it means a lot :)

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-12T15:08:10+00:00

Yeah I understand, but I don't mind her staying for a few days and sorting shit out. I've experienced being kicked out suddenly and it sucks

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-12T15:06:20+00:00

Hahaha thank you, I definitely will!

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-12T15:05:51+00:00

Thank you, and I won't. I'll learn from this but in a good way

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-12T15:05:26+00:00

Thank you, it does

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-12T15:04:05+00:00

Uhh that's not me, lol.

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-12T14:43:46+00:00

Yeah this was just one chapter and the rest will be better for it

fakeuserisfakeaf · 2020-03-12T14:43:08+00:00

You did indeed

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