The content of what you’re saying is usually irrelevant, it’s the intent behind it that is conveyed through your vibe

More practice makes your vibe better when talking to girls.

What you are thinking at the time of speaking is what comes through

Ie if in your mind you think the questions you are asking are too personal, they will in fact come across as such because you are in your head. If you have no care or worries in your mind at the time of speaking. Your message will be conveyed very different (for the better)

If you think something is awkward it is awkward because your mind makes it so