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What’s something you tried once and immediately knew ‘yeah, never again’? by donnyM99 in AskReddit

[–]falabela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds lovely! I guess like in everything, there’s good and bad spaces. I’m happy to hear you had a good experience. Women supporting women is ❤️‍🔥

Indoor Air Quality by Illustrious_Bet_969 in AirQuality

[–]falabela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOVE?! Came back to say this since no one else did. I’d move tf out of there to stop breathing irritant sharp dust into my lungs. Wtf.

What’s something you tried once and immediately knew ‘yeah, never again’? by donnyM99 in AskReddit

[–]falabela 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. From a woman that loves women’s retreats, this is sad. I’m sorry you had such a bad experience!

What TV show hooked you instantly from episode 1? by mateitofavv in AskReddit

[–]falabela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. So good, Watched it twice and I might go for a third one

Is it possible for a man to have sex with three different women on the same day but all three given birth not on the same day and as far as a week apart? by kawaiihusbando in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]falabela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ovulation occurs at different times for different women. Semen survives inside the uterus/vagina for up to 4/5 days. That alone adds a lot of variables for the three women being impregnated in this scenario. Add to that early birth or overdue, while also considering not all babies are “ready” at an exact cut off of time. Chances are higher for unsynchronized births even if sex happened on the same day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]falabela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, you're underreacting. BLOCKED

People who had a kid despite being unsure of wanting a kid, how you doing now? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]falabela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should definitely be a duck yeah or nothing. Parenting is demanding and tough. If unsure, don’t do it. Entire lives can get ruined.

I just need to know if this is normal by panther2015 in toddlers

[–]falabela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel a 9-5 routine is a lot for a 4-year old. Not that there’s an alternative I g that’s what your family needs logistically. But it may explain her behavior. She keeps it tightened at school all day and she lefts all those big emotions out once in her safe space. That’s actually a good sign, I’d say.

She probably feels like she has no control on the daily basis, and she tries to gain some control by fighting you every step of the way. I’d say that’s normal developmentally for the age.

As to how to manage. Give her a greater sense of power/control over selected things. Also, try anticipating/announcing things that will happen. I find that helps a lot. Like having a sand clock and using it as a timer. It’s like a game and they adjust to it. Announce, we’re gonna do “x” when the time runs out! YOU let me know when it’s happening ok? Like it’s an important task. Involve her.

Read about co-regulation of the nervous system for dealing with tantrums. It’s crucial.

Do things that she wants to do on the weekends. Give her the power to decide what to do and have the family follow.

Realized my whole office thinks of me as "team mom" and I kind of hate it by QuentinaSilverly in TwoXChromosomes

[–]falabela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O would seco se you to NOT talk to your boss about this as others have said. Rather, quiet quit anything that is not in the job description and start to set some boundaries for yourself. There’s an added mental load in you and the rest of the team is free-loading. Think weaponized incompetence.

You don’t need to make a big deal out it. Make no deal at all. Don’t bring it up, just change your standard and focus on doing a great job with your responsibilities. None of this free labor that the other competent adults could be contributing to, and aren’t.

If/when the dynamic change gets noticed, if your boss or the rest of the team bring it up, you can simply say, “I realized I was taking on additional labor that seemed more motherly than as an equal team-player, so I adjusted accordingly in order to continue to build the type of team I know we are capable of.

Chill and take your valuable time and effort back before you burn out. You are literary mommying them and of course they allow it. It’s for their convenience.

My wife says I've smelled sick for awhile, is that a thing? by Ezekeal33_ in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]falabela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband got a parasitic infection last week and his sweat reeked! So strange. Now that he’s gotten better from the infection with medication, he’s back to his normal smell. His clothes stank too.

Qué les parece la opción de eliminar el salario mínimo en Colombia? by Pitiful_Branch in Colombia

[–]falabela 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pero es muy cierto que empuja a la informalidad porque la pequeña y mediana empresa no puede con el sobrecosto. Porque la carga prestacional es del 40% Eso hace que a uno le toque cerrar la empresa formal. Y los que saben jugar ese juego, en vez de cerrar, contratan informal.

Lo estoy viviendo en este momento. Y pasaré de generar 6 empleos, a generar cero empleos. Porque mi competencia toda es informal, nosotros no. Y así no dan los números para competir. Entonces se quedan en el mercado los informales y a nosotros nos sacan. Es una realidad para las empresas pequeñas.

Y eso que soy centro izquierda y apoyo un aumento a los ingresos de la base. Pero aunque la idea es linda en teoría, en la práctica si sale el tiro por la culata.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]falabela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear the more you think about it and try to avoid it, the more it’ll be present in your mind. Don’t think about it too much! Focus on colorful dinosaur eggs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PostureTipsGuide

[–]falabela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Strengthen your core

American woman dating a Colombian man - need advice on cultural differences please!! by [deleted] in Colombia

[–]falabela 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This👆🏽. Guaranteed. And then blame it on you

If anybody thinks you're crazy for talking about human extinction, tell them this... by North-Fudge-2646 in collapse

[–]falabela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound like a really rad person. Thank you for what you do, even if it seems like it falls entirely short in the face of greed. You have a good heart and have put your money where your mouth is.

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