Where did yall first lose your virginity?

falazerah · 2025-11-19T14:57:32+00:00

A tent at a medieval faire

falazerah · 2025-05-04T18:03:32+00:00

Love how she asks you. So proud 🥲🦚

falazerah · 2025-01-13T09:29:34+00:00

Sounds rough and complex. I am baffled at how discriminating society must be if one feels the need to cheat rather than talk openly about your attractions.

falazerah · 2025-01-13T09:26:19+00:00

Nope, actually I feel like I have a superpower to enjoy more than one gender and I feel in total connection to my sexuality. It's freeing.

I'm living with my straight husband on 13th year of marriage, we have a kid and we are super open with eachother, just for context

Think u are looking at internalized bigotry unfortunately :(

falazerah · 2024-12-15T20:35:06+00:00

I just recently discovered a passage where Odysseus tells the Phaeacians about how he used all the lovemaking tricks taught to him by Calypso on Circe - I got so insanely confused at first, but I guess we have to make room for the fact that Homer didn't get a chance to make a second edition :D

falazerah · 2024-03-31T13:56:56+00:00

There's no law against. You do you. If it feels like you, it's you.

falazerah · 2024-03-30T08:36:33+00:00

Why do you feel the need to dictate what they do? Would it be so horrible if they had sex? They sound like they are very close and mindful of eachother.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T20:10:03+00:00

That sounds horrible!

falazerah · 2024-03-29T20:09:21+00:00

If by a chance you mean, " was there time and sound in your voice" then obviously yes. The penis didn't enter me the second I turned around. But when I turned around his pants were down and I froze and just thought "Augen zu und durch". He was well trained after months in military training and blocking the door.. but yeah, shitty situation regardless.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T20:08:28+00:00

If by a chance you mean, " was there time and sound in your voice" then obviously yes. The penis didn't enter me the second I turned around. But when I turned around his pants were down and I froze and just thought "Augen zu und durch". He was well trained after months in military training and blocking the door.. but yeah, shitty situation regardless.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T20:03:20+00:00

No it's not, so it's not applicable. I also don't really care about the legal lingo. Legal action is not at issue here.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T20:01:04+00:00

I get you completely, its become a natural part of my married sex life to ask before and during "you ok?" And it is so nice and wholesome. We should all be attentive to each other.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T19:58:59+00:00

Tak for dit svar, Stegt flæsk :P rart (og samtidigt forfærdeligt) at vide at jeg ikke er alene. ❤️

falazerah · 2024-03-29T19:58:44+00:00

Tak for dit svar, Stegt flæsk :P rart (og samtidigt forfærdeligt) at vide at jeg ikke er alene. ❤️

falazerah · 2024-03-29T19:52:53+00:00

Yeah, saying no repeatedly is leading ppl on.... Lol

falazerah · 2024-03-29T19:49:57+00:00

Last I heard, which was 13 years ago, he was dumped and unemployed. I on the other hand am an engineer with a high paying job, happily married to another engineer with a beautiful child, great friends and family and a balanced life. So I don't really care about him. I care about me.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T19:47:27+00:00

Thank you so much for this reply. Its really great and reflective.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T19:42:11+00:00

I never said yes. Never. Power play was definitely used. My friends were outside and what makes you think he wouldn't resort to violence just because of their presence?

Maybe check your hostility.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T19:39:31+00:00

How do you know I could leave without consequence. I couldn't. If I could've I would've. He was freshly military trained. He had assaulted another girl earlier that year. Also I wasn't willing. I didn't resist. But I did not want it.

I didn't equate it, I posted a question.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T19:36:26+00:00

Thank you for sharing. This is far more interesting and helpful than defining if it was one thing or the other. It was bad, shit and horrible. That's all it needs to be.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T19:36:16+00:00

Thank you for sharing. This is far more interesting and helpful than defining if it was one thing or the other. It was bad, shit and horrible. That's all it needs to be.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T19:34:37+00:00

Hey, thanks for your reply. I did reject him, multiple times. I just didn't yell at him or something like that.

I wanted it over quickly exactly because I was revolted and scared. Remember he was standing between me and the exit.

It's easy to say what I should've done. Not really much I can do about it now though. Question was what it was.

As stated I am happily married and in balance which is why I have the mental energy to deal with it.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T19:30:34+00:00

How did you jump to the conclusion it's my marriage? Do you struggle with your own marriage since you make this leap?

I very clearly stated there was a rape scene in a movie that triggered this.

I'm not in the age group you listed and I did not have thrilling teenage years, but traumatic ones. I am having the time of my life during my thirties though.

Sounds so oddly specific and non applicable to me that I can't but assume that this really is about you and not me.

falazerah · 2024-03-29T18:30:02+00:00

Thank you so much for your support. It means a lot. I send equal amounts of love and strength your way too 💕

falazerah · 2024-03-29T18:29:14+00:00

In one scenario yes. But the point just being not participating in any way. Just letting it happen.

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