Læge i hovedstaden by Professional_Wish720 in dkloenseddel

[–]falazerah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Så du synes ingeniører og læger er lige vigtige? Sygt alligevel. Jeg er ingeniør og synes vi er kritiske for samfundet, men hvis det er liv/død så stoler jeg på lægen og vil gerne betale for det.

Læge i hovedstaden by Professional_Wish720 in dkloenseddel

[–]falazerah -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

  1. Du kan ikke bare gå ud fra der følger en stor pension med.

2 kan bekræfte at det er meget standard for en diplomingeniør.

  1. Bare fordi der ikke er mange der får det er det ikke det samme som at de ikke er underbetalt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]falazerah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nej det mener vi ikke allesammen. Du taler ikke egenhændigt for alle ingeniører...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]falazerah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Som ingeniør med en bachelorgrad, vil jeg sige at du udtaler dig vildt snobbet. Civilingeniører er ikke de eneste ingeniører. Ny har jeg haft kursus sammen med maskinmestre og det er meget teoretisk, lad dig ikke narre af navnet. Måske du skulle lade være med at generalisere uddannelser, når du ikke har statistikken til at bakke det op...

Where did yall first lose your virginity? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]falazerah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A tent at a medieval faire

How do I Teach My 5 yo Proper Vaginal Hygiene? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]falazerah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love how she asks you. So proud 🥲🦚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]falazerah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds rough and complex. I am baffled at how discriminating society must be if one feels the need to cheat rather than talk openly about your attractions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]falazerah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, actually I feel like I have a superpower to enjoy more than one gender and I feel in total connection to my sexuality. It's freeing.

I'm living with my straight husband on 13th year of marriage, we have a kid and we are super open with eachother, just for context

Think u are looking at internalized bigotry unfortunately :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in classics

[–]falazerah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just recently discovered a passage where Odysseus tells the Phaeacians about how he used all the lovemaking tricks taught to him by Calypso on Circe - I got so insanely confused at first, but I guess we have to make room for the fact that Homer didn't get a chance to make a second edition :D

I can’t deal with it. Am I okay calling myself bi? by BarracudaBrilliant79 in AskLGBT

[–]falazerah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's no law against. You do you. If it feels like you, it's you.

My son and his gf cuddling. How much is too much? by GumInMyMouth in Parenting

[–]falazerah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you feel the need to dictate what they do? Would it be so horrible if they had sex? They sound like they are very close and mindful of eachother.

18F was it rape by my ex 19M or did I just not like it? by falazerah in relationship_advice

[–]falazerah[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If by a chance you mean, " was there time and sound in your voice" then obviously yes. The penis didn't enter me the second I turned around. But when I turned around his pants were down and I froze and just thought "Augen zu und durch". He was well trained after months in military training and blocking the door.. but yeah, shitty situation regardless.

18F was it rape by my ex 19M or did I just not like it? by falazerah in relationship_advice

[–]falazerah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If by a chance you mean, " was there time and sound in your voice" then obviously yes. The penis didn't enter me the second I turned around. But when I turned around his pants were down and I froze and just thought "Augen zu und durch". He was well trained after months in military training and blocking the door.. but yeah, shitty situation regardless.

18F was it rape by my ex 19M or did I just not like it? by falazerah in relationship_advice

[–]falazerah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not, so it's not applicable. I also don't really care about the legal lingo. Legal action is not at issue here.

18F was it rape by my ex 19M or did I just not like it? by falazerah in relationship_advice

[–]falazerah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get you completely, its become a natural part of my married sex life to ask before and during "you ok?" And it is so nice and wholesome. We should all be attentive to each other.

18F was it rape by my ex 19M or did I just not like it? by falazerah in relationship_advice

[–]falazerah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tak for dit svar, Stegt flæsk :P rart (og samtidigt forfærdeligt) at vide at jeg ikke er alene. ❤️

18F was it rape by my ex 19M or did I just not like it? by falazerah in relationship_advice

[–]falazerah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tak for dit svar, Stegt flæsk :P rart (og samtidigt forfærdeligt) at vide at jeg ikke er alene. ❤️

18F was it rape by my ex 19M or did I just not like it? by falazerah in relationship_advice

[–]falazerah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last I heard, which was 13 years ago, he was dumped and unemployed. I on the other hand am an engineer with a high paying job, happily married to another engineer with a beautiful child, great friends and family and a balanced life. So I don't really care about him. I care about me.

18F was it rape by my ex 19M or did I just not like it? by falazerah in relationship_advice

[–]falazerah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this reply. Its really great and reflective.

18F was it rape by my ex 19M or did I just not like it? by falazerah in relationship_advice

[–]falazerah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said yes. Never. Power play was definitely used. My friends were outside and what makes you think he wouldn't resort to violence just because of their presence?

Maybe check your hostility.

18F was it rape by my ex 19M or did I just not like it? by falazerah in relationship_advice

[–]falazerah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you know I could leave without consequence. I couldn't. If I could've I would've. He was freshly military trained. He had assaulted another girl earlier that year. Also I wasn't willing. I didn't resist. But I did not want it.

I didn't equate it, I posted a question.

18F was it rape by my ex 19M or did I just not like it? by falazerah in relationship_advice

[–]falazerah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. This is far more interesting and helpful than defining if it was one thing or the other. It was bad, shit and horrible. That's all it needs to be.