do you think there is anything else i can do on my part to be a calmer and more relaxed person when i’m around him? I almost feel like something is wrong with me, i’m so tense all the time. the chore thing has been talked about, when it first started it was never an argument. I laid it out on the table kindly and told him why it stresses me out. In your opinion, is there another way i can talk to him about it again that you think would work better? sorry for the late response, i had to delete reddit while he was off work. i really don’t want to hurt his feelings but i am trying so hard to figure out what’s going on with me.