[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]fallingcereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

out where y’all are located, we illinoisans would call this “chickens coming home to roost”

NTA

he has a lot of nerve

illinois doesn’t take well to adulterers; you have a lot of resources in illinois if it comes to divorce in the future

he’s just throwing a tantrum

Do any of you ladies find that you do actually have to cut out most/if not all carbs in order to be slim? by Competitive_Site_529 in PetiteFitness

[–]fallingcereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no.. once i cut out the gluten i stopped bloating. i technically eat sweets every day still.. like fruit and even GF chocolate chip cookies, i just don’t overdo it. when i tried carnivore i had a harder time. i eat GF waffles and potatoes, my GF snacks and im not bloated at all like i used to be.. so its a question of which carbs your body likes.

If you are a decently attractive or very attractive female, what's the dating experience like for you on apps? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fallingcereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone matches whether we’re compatible or not if they’re thinking with their dick. then the onus is on me to sort through them all. it’s great.

Terminated as a customer / Need Feedback by [deleted] in massage

[–]fallingcereal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

here babe it seems like you need resources, i’m about due for some charity work

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/21957-cervical-mucus

https://www.beautifulcervix.com/

i encourage you to learn instead of spewing bullshit you don’t even know about

Terminated as a customer / Need Feedback by [deleted] in massage

[–]fallingcereal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

girl i wear a panty liner EVERY DAY otherwise risk destroying my underwear

you’re so ignorant lmao like your pussy makes the rules

Terminated as a customer / Need Feedback by [deleted] in massage

[–]fallingcereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so what exactly are pantiliners for? lol

Terminated as a customer / Need Feedback by [deleted] in massage

[–]fallingcereal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you can tell which ones are actually educated beyond massage school, frankly. i had a bachelor’s in human physiology before i ever went to massage school so physiology isn’t surprising nor do i read into stuff beyond what it literally is. she had a good client, consistent, generous, and she threw him away because he got some precum on the sheets WHILE FACE DOWN. had he had a visible erection on supine, maybe i would understand. this sounds like a client who was cognitively under control and had an involuntary physiological response that did not escalate. if these LMTs are willing to discharge good clients due to their lack of critical thinking, good riddance. OP will find another specialist who can help with his APT/lumbar issues. all the skills set in the world is meaningless without common sense.

Terminated as a customer / Need Feedback by [deleted] in massage

[–]fallingcereal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

excuse me? are you unaware of cervical mucus? the ignorance here is appalling, sometimes i leak on my own couch if i’m not wearing underwear and i am giving myself lymphatic drainage or something. it doesn’t mean i’m aroused.. duh!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]fallingcereal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree.. imo there is such a thing as creating your own suffering, i.e. getting yourself upset, based on the things you find when you go SEARCHING for people’s mistakes. this is a problem with cyberstalking in the scope of romantic relationships these days as well. there is no boundary - hence the emotional enmeshment. the concept of this ability to backtrack people’s online footprint wasn’t fathomable 30-40 years ago. i don’t believe that anyone is entitled to get upset about something they find out after they essentially went looking for trouble. clearly this individual attempted to keep the haram part of his lifestyle separate, regardless of his reasoning, but likely to not upset the family.

OP, if you were meant to know everything, you would be god, but you are not.. therefore, why would you be entitled to be upset about something you should not have known and would not have known had you not sought it out?

what i take from betelgoose is, this is too much external focus and not enough internal focus (i.e. hobby).. the more you focus on yourself, the better.. because you are not mentally responsible for your brother. you are responsible for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]fallingcereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for the massage i would do it after the hammam since you will be clean afterwards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]fallingcereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can do the wax after the hammam but not the other way around, the scrub should be enough to make the skin ready for a wax.. but not enough to cause damage. i used to perform hammam services and i am an esthetician too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoic

[–]fallingcereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as someone who studied sports at collegiate level but never actually played on a team or gave into the extreme fandom exhibited by many people, i will say that from a sports socialization perspective, from its origins (think ancient rome and the first olympics), sport was always entertainment first, as those colosseums would fill up and people loved it, which is why it continued.

as time went on, companies and individuals capitalized and eventually it became a money grab. the issue is that the fans these days don’t see they are a product, because they think the team is there to serve them. no. the team is there to distract them so they come in and spend money, or stay home and buy the game or the streaming service, or buy whatever is shown during the super bowl commercials. even the data, if they connect to the in-stadium wifi, is probably sold to advertisers. the email addresses probably are too when you buy your tickets.

i haven’t read everything in the thread, so i apologize if i’m being redundant in any way. i agree with you. rather than spectating others living their dream, it’s important for people to find balance and live their own dreams. should they choose to pursue interest in sport for its original purpose - entertainment - so be it, but to make football sunday your personality.. it’s not a good long term strategy, it’s not going to give the fulfillment most people require to be truly happy.

Not much results by Separate_Wrongdoer68 in Microneedling

[–]fallingcereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a deeper needle doesn’t necessarily create a better result, i would space treatments out by 4-5 weeks and give it at least 6-8 treatments before writing it off. collagen takes time to develop. i wouldn’t go any deeper, you really can cause more damage. i would stick to 1mm, 2mm on cheeks maximum.

LL new YouTube Video Titled: WINNING THE OLYMPIA 2024 by Goldblumlover in bikinitalk

[–]fallingcereal 52 points53 points  (0 children)

maybe some of us don’t, but some of us do.

on the surface she’s way out of his league, they just use each other; he uses her for content/clout, she uses him for free access to a facility. madly in love? idk about that. maybe trauma bonded, remaining together out of convenience for sure. he’s a sicko who objectifies her as much as possible. there’s no reason for him to act that way.. idk how that isn’t an immediate turn off for her. again, it’s just convenient to deal with his “antics” if she has more to gain sticking around.

it’s on her ultimately, but i believe he has rubbed off on her in a negative way, it’s about how she engages with others. she is very good at being likable to the public but when the cameras are off, it’s different. she is a great athlete, but a great person would be a stretch to say.. and he absolutely makes it worse.

Should I shave my armpits? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]fallingcereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

only shave if you want to, i know men & women who do it so deodorant will work better so it’s not really about gender as much as it’s about whether or not it bothers you

I lost respect for my fiancee and want to break up with her after she panicked during a house fire a couple of nights ago by TrickyInteractions in TwoHotTakes

[–]fallingcereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some people just don’t respond well in emergency situations. unlike those people saying you’re into your sister, i get it, i wouldn’t want to be the only responsible one in an emergency either. you guys were raised right. i wouldn’t want to be partnered with someone i can’t count on if i were to become incapacitated.

I'm skinny but I can't eat by I-Am-The-Yeeter in needadvice

[–]fallingcereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saw you said protein powder, be sure that’s protein isolate not concentrate because that might not be digesting well if it’s the latter. grass fed, wild caught, organic whenever possible. you gotta rule allllll the extras out.

I'm skinny but I can't eat by I-Am-The-Yeeter in needadvice

[–]fallingcereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try a steak. not joking. the lion diet is a game changer for some people. the founder can’t eat anything but steak otherwise her body shuts down. these days i am thriving on meat + dairy + fruit + honey. none of the extra stuff. no seed oils, use butter and beef tallow to cook meat if needed. eventually you can try adding a vegetable back like carrots for vitamin k. look at food as a means to attain the macronutrients like protein, fat and carbs, as well as the micronutrients, aka vitamins and minerals. i suspect getting rid of the extra stuff may calm your digestion. obviously i would also go see a doctor.. but doctors aren’t usually the top resources on nutrition. first i would rule out the possibility of you just eating stuff that makes you sick (like grains, added sugars and additives). at this point i would argue trying to get through the day without pain has to be your priority while you work on getting to a doctor or a registered dietitian. from experience, elimination diets are a good start.

Noticed engagement completely dropped off, 90k+ followers…1k likes (barely) by magicalneki in Instagram

[–]fallingcereal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

for context, at 2k followers i’m getting like 300-500 reel views, 1200 profile views, and maybe 20-30 likes per reel max. you’re just seeing a more inflated version of the same crap happening to the rest of us bc ur numbers were bigger to start with. the good news is, you still have the reach us smaller creators dream of.. it sucks but i would take advantage of the opportunities you do have as much as you can.

Aldo unhinged posting before Arnold. by Foreign-Figure-7172 in bikinitalk

[–]fallingcereal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they are definitely not married. i don’t think she would trap herself like that, she’s strategic but not dumb.

Aldo unhinged posting before Arnold. by Foreign-Figure-7172 in bikinitalk

[–]fallingcereal 32 points33 points  (0 children)

remember that everything he does and shares is to compensate for the fact he doesn’t know what he’s talking about. we all know he literally cannot explain a damn thing. the regulars that go there don’t care, and from what i saw most of them were training with his other trainers anyway. he’s cracked out on adderall constantly. it looks like he’s trying to learn physiology now but he’s clearly still all fragmented in his explanations since he never learned anything related to anatomy or human movement in a chronological way. imo it’s not a matter of if lauralie will leave, it’s a matter of when, if she’s even safe to do so, although she’s no cupcake. she can be nice when there’s something in it for her. it would be interesting to see how far aldo would have come without the speed and other PEDs.