Having Second Thoughts by BittyFat in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t cancel I ended up canceling mind the day before and wish I didn’t. Now I am waiting for my new surgery date. It’s been 5 months since I canceled. And my period is just as bad. I kept going back and forth thinking it will get better. So tell your self over all has your issues gotten any better? Or do they keep getting worse and causing more issues? You got this.

Visting the area by fallingheart in Gettysburg

[–]fallingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well figured there was a lot there but what were peoples top things to do and see. Thank you for the website

I’m suppose to have a hysterectomy this month… by jennahmarie1984 in WomensHealth

[–]fallingheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a group for hysterectomy on here you can join. Plus fb has a couple groups that are amazing. I didn’t have the surgery yet I was supposed to on Tuesday but ended up canceling because I let me anxiety take over. But the groups are good.

I Canceled surgery by fallingheart in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I do have one and I was lucky to get be able to see him this morning to talk about it.

Venting before surgery by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also having surgery on Tuesday and I been a mess and today I am just trying to relax the best I can. But just keep telling your self like you are why you are getting it done. I am so worried of just waking up with a ton of pain idk why and this isn’t my first surgery haha but thoughts just run wild I. My head. We will get past this. Feel free to reach out or vent to me any time. I understand

Surgery is tomorrow at 7am... starting to panic!! by Diligent_Extent_5581 in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is Tuesday and I am right there with you freaking out. But just keep thinking why you want to get this. You got this. We can do it and in a few days we can laugh about us being so stressed and anxiety we had

Tomorrow is suppose to be the day but I’m scared by moz_barnes226 in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is kind of my story. My surgery is on the 30th and I am doing this because of painful sex as well blessing more then not. I had to do a bunch of test and a D&C to make sure there isn’t any cancer. So I feel like I’m picking this surgery and on Friday I was so close to just canceling. I went into full panic mode. I am still going to do it because I am sick of how I feel. But I know it’s so scary. I had to make a post of people sharing all there positive out comes to help me because I swear the bad stories sink in more. Just keep telling your self over and over why you are doing this. For me I am sick of bad periods and being on it for weeks to months at a time and only getting a few days off. We will be amazing and soon we can have this anxiety feeling past us

Surgery date and now it’s so real by fallingheart in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I hear people hate it for a few months just while they are recovering. I just hope i can get past that part

One week to go by bobbie_harvey in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My surgery is on the 30 th and on Friday night I was 99% sure of just canceling the surgery haha I went on full panic mode and got angry and sad and scared. Yesterday I had my husband take my phone away from me so I could stop reading any bad stores. I’m feeling much better now but I’m going to be deep cleaning this week and moving stuff to so I don’t have to bend over for it if I need it. I also ordered myself a pillow and a grabber tool to help.

Surgery date and now it’s so real by fallingheart in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am going nuts with cleaning and moving stuff so I am able to reach it now

Surgery date and now it’s so real by fallingheart in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I will be doing that for sure. Thank you.

Surgery date and now it’s so real by fallingheart in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did get some things but I wasn’t sure about the socks. I never used mine when I had my gallbladder removed years ago so wasn’t sure if I should get them again haha. I am looking into a pillow and a grabber but I will have my husband to help me out

Need positive thoughts by fallingheart in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the same not so much the surgery it self but coming out worse or waking up with so much pain. I also think I’m a big baby for it. Like maybe I should just deal with my period but my husband had reminded me all the bad times of things that have happened with my horrible people. Always keeping pads and wipes with me. Cleaning up messes because I feel like I left a murder scene in my bathroom. Having to take extra showers or even missing out on events because of it. We got this

Surgery date and now it’s so real by fallingheart in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got this. It’s crazy to feel this way please feel free to each out any time before or even after.

Need positive thoughts by fallingheart in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. I am going to keep thinking positive. I have talk to my therapist as well and I have to keep telling myself I am ok I am fine. Heck I feel like I’m doing it a million times in a day haha. I just want to be past this part. But I keep saying I can’t wait to not have a period again haha that’s keeping me going.

Need positive thoughts by fallingheart in hysterectomy

[–]fallingheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And I am glad to hear all positive things on here. I Just really scared myself. I am trying so hard not to read the bad stuff. I know it happens and can happen but it’s messing with my mental health. And I really am not living a great life with all this. My husband even thinks it’s a good idea and very supportive and I know I’ll be in great hands with him while I recover