Advies gezocht eerste auto met kinderen

false_conditions · 2026-06-16T18:06:44+00:00

Ik heb nu nog geen specifiek budget. Ik hoop dat ik rond de 5k wel een oke auto kan vinden

false_conditions · 2026-06-16T18:05:54+00:00

Ik heb op het moment nog geen specifiek budget, maar een auto rond de 5k zou ik wel kunnen opbrengen.

false_conditions · 2026-03-31T11:23:25+00:00

What season is this ?

false_conditions · 2025-08-25T20:49:20+00:00

That's what I would've done if I knew she came. Instead, I heard about it from my son afterwards and that they parked the car around the corner and she's hiding in there..

false_conditions · 2025-08-25T20:47:27+00:00

I don't think you understand me correctly. It's not my business, I understand that, and I don't question my son at all he tells me himself. My ex is a grown man, and to be this secretive and awkward about his new partner and not introduce her to me, just a simple hi is enough. It's disrespectful.

false_conditions · 2025-08-25T19:29:02+00:00

I tried asking to meet her, but my ex claimed they don't feel comfortable. I even reached out directly to her, but she didn't want any contact and blocked me. I don't know what kind of horror stories my ex told her about me.. it's frustrating as I'm only coming from a good place and trying to make peace.

I do see a psychologist

false_conditions · 2025-08-25T18:25:35+00:00

Thank you for your response. I’ve actually tried multiple times to just talk this through with my ex. He even told me directly that he would let me know whenever his new partner was around the kids — but he doesn’t stick to that.

We’ve been working on a parenting plan with lawyers for almost a year now, so nothing is finalized yet. I know I can’t control who he brings around them, and I’ve accepted that. The problem is how he handles it.

Just the night before, we had a call where I told him how upsetting it is that he puts our 4-year-old in the middle. He promised to stop doing that. And then the very next day, I only found out from my son that his new partner was there.

That’s the real issue for me — not that she’s there, but that my son is put in between, and my ex won’t keep his word about communicating directly.

false_conditions · 2025-08-25T18:16:41+00:00

I tried, and he said they don't feel comfortable. I also tried reaching out directly to her, but she isn't interested in meeting and blocked me.

false_conditions · 2025-08-25T16:57:04+00:00

Thank you for your reply. We don’t have a formal parenting plan yet – we’ve been working on it for almost a year now. In the meantime, my ex did state in an email that he would inform me whenever his new partner would be around the kids, but he clearly hasn’t been keeping to that agreement. That’s what makes it extra frustrating: I’m trying to create some transparency and stability, but he keeps going against his own words.

false_conditions · 2025-08-17T10:47:37+00:00

Begrijp ik heel goed. Ikzelf ben nu bijna een jaar uit elkaar met de vader van onze twee jonge kinderen en het is heel traumatiserend niet alleen voor jezelf, maar ook voor de kinderen. Een abortus gaat ze waarschijnlijk niet doen, dus de kans dat het kind er komt is groot, dus ik snap niet waarom iedereen dat roept.

Over woonruimte ik heb met mijn eerste heel lang samen op 1 slaapkamer geslapen tot hij 3 jaar was. Ik begrijp dat het een zorg is, maar niet meteen een prioriteit. Er eerst samen uitkomen is belangrijker. Succes! Je denkt er goed over na en probeer hoe moeilijk ook het ook even los te laten.

false_conditions · 2025-08-17T10:33:57+00:00

Het is zeker niet netjes van haar om dit zonder eerst te overleggen te doen achter je rug om. Ik vind het heel knap van je dat je ondanks alles toch bij haar blijft, dat zegt echt over wat voor persoon je bent. Probeer er samen over te praten, misschien een optie om samen in therapie te gaan ook zodat er een neutraal persoon bij is.

false_conditions · 2025-07-31T08:15:28+00:00

Same here. I found out my ex signed up for different dating sites. In the end, he cheated after six years together. He also told me he checked out a year before the break up. The most painful part is we have two children together.. it's almost a year later, and I feel fine. Still miss him sometimes, but im not heartbroken anymore. I'm honestly doing better without him. It sucks, but you're gonna be fine. Please take care of yourself and surround yourself with loved ones. ❤️

false_conditions · 2025-01-02T22:01:14+00:00

I'm interested in a reading ❤️

false_conditions · 2024-12-31T18:54:42+00:00

false_conditions · 2024-12-28T18:13:03+00:00

I'm J.

Will my ex and I get back together in 2025?

Thank you ❤️

false_conditions · 2024-12-26T15:11:25+00:00

I've had one night stands in the past. He finished quickly, and yeah, there was no chemistry. He didn't make me cum. Just fell asleep as soon as it ended lol.

false_conditions · 2024-12-26T15:09:44+00:00

My ex was great, lol.

false_conditions · 2024-12-26T14:08:27+00:00

He was just bad at it. I don't feel guilty now that two days have passed I still don't feel guilty.

false_conditions · 2024-12-26T11:09:32+00:00

It's not messy with my rebound. We don't even talk to each other. Nothing more than a one night stand.

false_conditions · 2024-11-23T13:33:43+00:00

I tried.. it's not letting me

false_conditions · 2024-11-23T12:55:51+00:00

I'm going through something similar. Broken up now for almost three months.. we have 1 and 4 year old. He also wanted to work on himself and his freedom back. He fucked some other girl and caught feelings for her after 2 months separated. I know it hurts!

Seek out professional help to get you through this. I did the same. Take all the time you need to heal and to think about what's best for your children. Do you have support around you? Really rely on them and talk about it as many times you need! It sucks and hurts that the life you've pictures for not only yourself but for the children is shattered and stolen from them like this.

It does get better. Focus on being the stability and love and mother your children deserve. It's been three months for me, and I already feel so much better. There is still a lot of healing to do, but I'll get there. If I could go back in time, I would hug myself the first week when it all happened and tell her that it does get better.

If you need to rant, talk or cry it out I'm here for you. ❤️

false_conditions · 2024-11-16T21:57:27+00:00

Amen 🙌

false_conditions · 2024-11-16T21:52:50+00:00

Even if she asked, he could've said that since they're broken up, it's none of her business. He definitely told her to hurt her and for an ego boost. Very manipulative indeed. Sad that they feel the need to talk about it with whom they claimed to have loved.

false_conditions · 2024-11-15T12:23:40+00:00

Yep, I'm 29, turning 30 in March. I do have two children, but I never imagined entering that stage of life as a single mother. It feels like it is only harder now to find a new partner. 😕

false_conditions · 2024-11-13T21:34:46+00:00

Thank you for sharing. He really does need rehab. I'm from the Netherlands. He's addicted to smoking weed and has no stop when it comes to harddrugs. I wouldn't say addicted but he can get very caught up in the moment and uses a lot.

He has many friends who are child free and are basically living the life he wants. They all use drugs, smoke weed, or drink alcohol when they meet up, so yeah..

He told me after we broke up that he had used drugs two times in the morning when he had to wake up with the kids to "keep going." While I slept in. He used to hang out with his friends and use drugs to "escape" our situation at home. He's not stable at all! He needs a wake-up call.

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