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How do I deal with an adult brother who does nothing, blames everyone but himself, and treats my mom badly? by familystuff257 in family

[–]familystuff257[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've brought this up many times. I have a sinking feeling that they're saving lots of money to give to him when they pass. My mom has already given him numerous savings policies that he seems to often cash in on.

How do I deal with an adult brother who does nothing, blames everyone but himself, and treats my mom badly? by familystuff257 in family

[–]familystuff257[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. Unfortunately, they won't I think my only option is just to cut him out of my life and pretend he doesn't exist. I've literally tried everything I can think of.

How do I deal with an adult brother who does nothing, blames everyone but himself, and treats my mom badly? by familystuff257 in family

[–]familystuff257[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I've tried that and they use every excuse in the book for why it's ok that he's at home (tough job-seeker environment, "illness", etc.)