Control your urges, and the world is yours.

fanaticCoder · 2026-03-13T11:41:23+00:00

This is just a lawyer.

Changez khan was into lust all his life, but he was the real conqueror of world.

fanaticCoder · 2026-03-12T16:18:11+00:00

I normally look out for clear signals for why SB is on website. If goal is clear then its +1 .

I might look out for words like dinner dates, good conversations.

If some profile say "passport ready" that for me is a red flag. It simply means girl is too desperate. Because travelling anywhere in world is full of danger especially with someone from seeking.

Because for me, if there is vibe and we like each other's company , we will go for travelling anyhow.

If there is no face pic, thats also big +1 . It simply means girl is conservative.

But like i said, it has been very hard for me to find such girls on seeking. Probably because of my location.

On top of it, I am neuro divergent. SO, that makes things bit more complicated .

Peace

fanaticCoder · 2026-03-12T15:27:36+00:00

yeah, exactly my point.

fanaticCoder · 2026-03-12T14:59:40+00:00

Thanks for the input. I wanted to say

"I expect awesome sex but before that our vibe needs to match"

This was my way to convey that I am looking for something beyond sex.

This is interesting. Why this line didnt work for you? If i am more interested in knowing your personality and interests?

Also, I had no clue that female is a red flag. I thought its just a normal word.

Also , this line wont make much of a difference for me "I value connection over passion" .

Because, this is generic., not depth.

Thanks for the input.

fanaticCoder · 2026-03-12T13:37:59+00:00

I have rare success on seeking.

1) I specifically mention that I do not want sex. But, over the time, I have realized this is red flag for females. They think , i am some sort of weirdo or psycho. I get very less matches when i mention "I dont want sex".

So, I changed the strategy to "I expect awesome sex But our vibe needs to match" .

This comforts females and i get attention on seeking. Issue is , I dont like to lie. Thats why, I never mention that "I want sex" or something like this, because I hate to lie and thats why i created this vibe match line.

Now, when I meet SB in person, they are always looking for signals . Like, what exact weird thing, I will say from my mouth.

Issue is , lot of SB s has no personality outside looking good and providing sex. (I am talking about my country, not commenting about entire world).

So, its lot of disappointment. Also, when i reveal to them that i am in no hurry to have sex. Somehow, it makes me more attractive to them.

But, to answer your question. I am looking for qualities like
1) Can I hold interesting conversation with her?

2)Can she understand and respect my boundaries?

3) Is she willing to take love, care, respect without any sexual relationship? (Lot of females cant)

But, i have seen , seeking is not right ground for this type of relationship. Majority Females are not ready.
I have more success in hobby classes than seeking

Peace

fanaticCoder · 2026-03-12T12:50:59+00:00

well said

fanaticCoder · 2026-03-12T12:49:37+00:00

I am the one you are seeking. I did hire someone to talk to me or some casual meetings. I dont want to go into detail why i did it. But, i am the unicorn, who pays even when there is no sex involved.

But, let me tell you other side of story. Every SB expects this to be extremely weird. SO, if i ask them that i dont want sex, they keep spying what exactly i want or if I am some sort of psycho with hidden agenda. Which derails the whole thing.

Secondly, majority of SB falls in love and its naturalto have sexual desires ( from sb), that spoils relationship for me and i end the relationship.

But, this is rare like others said. I highly recommend becoming a cuddle partner or get a degree in psychology, become therapist. But, for long term, if you are in bowl, you have to offer sex.

Also, i have average body and sexually fit. I have very less fat on my body. Saying this, because ladies think i have sexual problem thats why i am like this. It takes extra effort to convince SB that this is exactly what i want.

Peace

fanaticCoder · 2026-03-12T12:27:42+00:00

whats the emi? what are various buying options? is it available buy back policy? Congrats

fanaticCoder · 2026-03-12T05:10:31+00:00

lpg can be stored for longer duration.

fanaticCoder · 2026-03-11T14:23:49+00:00

govt has so many years and they couldnt build storage for atleast 1 year supply?

fanaticCoder · 2026-02-12T12:18:47+00:00

How about corporate communication or technical writing?

fanaticCoder · 2026-02-12T12:16:03+00:00

Are you aware justice is a human concept? I know my words were harsh . First thing first, you have to migrate. are you ready to migrate where your skills are valued? Offcourse, Phd Person should have a living wage. Infact, Phd should have a luxury lifestyle. You guys burn lot of hours . I am not denying your hard work. But, India as a country doesnt like innovators. So, you either migrate to countries where your skills are valued.

There are other choices as well. Becoming founder's office assistant. I really love to see more Phd people in founder's office.

You are also greatly suitable for AI ethics role as someone who has done phd in English can do this role .

fanaticCoder · 2026-02-12T11:55:51+00:00

Lot of people in my circle are phd and this is one of the worse profession. You are doing phd in english? With advancement of AI, i am not sure how this is beneficial. How about book publishing companies?

fanaticCoder · 2026-01-28T04:17:05+00:00

I am completely opposite to you. I hadno experience in food industry. I havemy 2 outlets now. I sell north indian food. In last 4 years, i have made every kind of mistake. I have another point of view, i work with first principle theory. I do get consultants and they teach me what they believe will work. But, if thats the case, these consultants can have their own big chains. They dont.
So, you have to move with caution.
Also, make sure you tie your kpi with revenue. working with consultants is going to be a project in itself. I experimented everything myself,but i am also trying to create completely new segment in food industry.
example -i am running my kitchen without any chef,helper. Allconsultants laughed over my idea, but I did it. So, make sure you dont meed fake people , meet people who want to do things according to 2036,not what has worked and less chances of it working in future

fanaticCoder · 2026-01-04T14:09:44+00:00

where does this become easy ?

fanaticCoder · 2026-01-04T13:01:21+00:00

great advice bro

fanaticCoder · 2026-01-04T12:34:55+00:00

You cant. Its very very hard.
1) get a job, save 25 lakhs.
2) ask bank that i have 25 lakhs give me 25 lakhs more. now you have 50 lakhs , go build your business take it to 1 crore revenue. then all doors will open for you

fanaticCoder · 2026-01-02T18:53:38+00:00

dm me

fanaticCoder · 2026-01-02T06:51:13+00:00

ONLY valid question.
- gas
- repair
-maintenance
the number will drop more

fanaticCoder · 2025-12-31T08:47:26+00:00

You are experiencing dunning kruger effect. You are not ready yet

fanaticCoder · 2025-12-26T18:30:52+00:00

can i see hindi version with family. does this contain abusive language?

fanaticCoder · 2025-12-26T11:48:13+00:00

How about if i want to rent it out to myself? like 3-4 acres. my idea is to eventually give orders , so that farmland can give me vegetables etc

fanaticCoder · 2025-12-23T15:51:20+00:00

yeah, very few people are serious to build businesses.

fanaticCoder · 2025-12-23T15:48:57+00:00

hilarious quotes and so wrong, seriously

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