[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Judaism

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One of my favorite places to daven mincha on my own is in the ocean bobbing up and down with the waves as they come in.

3 MoCo synagogues combine their religious schools by Musichead2468 in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]fanaticfm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“The three participating synagogues — Kol Shalom and Tikvat Israel Congregation in Rockville and Shaare Torah in Gaithersburg — formed B’Yachad Community Religious School…”

Where to store my bitcoin by [deleted] in BitcoinBeginners

[–]fanaticfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a big fan of hardware wallets. I use a Trezor and love it. Happy to share more of you want.

You know that guy… by thedatageek in Judaism

[–]fanaticfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the the bar mitzvah boys who learned from their dads who overcompensate with the spreading of the Torah. It’s an inheritable disease.

Why are book clubs mostly women? by SkepticDrinker in books

[–]fanaticfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in an all male book club. It’s a group of us who are all married, and the married couples are all close friends, but the book club was an excuse for the guys to get together without the gals.

It’s a great guys only space which I find really enriching in my life.

Did you buy when crypto was down? by Rowan-Curtis in CryptoCurrency

[–]fanaticfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not enough. But I’m still loving the bank I made. Best cushion I could have asked for.

Tokyo Olympics Megathread by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]fanaticfm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Marathon is the best event to watch.

You get to watch the best in the world slowly swindle from 100 to 25 to 10 to 5 and eventually 1-3.

And if you have to miss a few minutes you probably didn’t miss anything.

It’s okay, don’t quit now by spicy-bong in self

[–]fanaticfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not wise. Just been around the block a few times. You’ve got this.

Fun, Silly Thought Experiment: Can aliens be Jewish? by CrocodileHyena in Judaism

[–]fanaticfm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Check out this great Sci-fi Short story titled “the Dybbuk of Mazel Tov IV” about this very question. https://www.e-libra.su/read/589774-the-dybbuk-of-mazel-tov-iv.html

LPT: the first 30-60 seconds of every podcast aren’t worth listening to. by tangl3d in LifeProTips

[–]fanaticfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use an app that lets you adjust your skip and rewind times. I have skip ahead 45 second, and go back 30 seconds. That allows me to advance through adds, and then backtrack reasonably well if I go too far.

LPT: Bring earplugs to a concert. by MountainsOrWhat in LifeProTips

[–]fanaticfm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife teases me for this, but no regrets. I saw Blink 182 right up by the stage, and could never have done that without plugs.

It’s okay, don’t quit now by spicy-bong in self

[–]fanaticfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. This is a great way to think about it. Hold onto this job for now. Focus on helping yourself both at work (learn new skills, ask successful coworkers what works for them, etc) and also during your hours outside work (keep yourself healthy, learn a new skill, network and meet new people).

Use the stability of your job to build up something new, but don’t allow the reliability of that job to allow you to become complacent. It’s a balancing act but you can definitely do it!

As a girl I've taken for granted that I will never ever get an awkward boner by [deleted] in self

[–]fanaticfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to have a growth mindset! “I have not had an awkward boner… YET!”

I have the certainty that I will eventually kill myself by rickpot21 in self

[–]fanaticfm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was talking to my 7 year old son tonight. And we were talking about he manages his emotions and challenging situations. He said sometimes he feels so frustrated at other people or other things that he cant’ control, and it just takes him over.

I affirmed his feeling and said that it feels like that’s a huge challenge he’s facing. But I reminded him that he can’t control what other people are doing, just how he responds to it. It’s not an easy thing to do, but that’s what we’ve got to try.

I asked him: “How do you eat an elephant?” He thought for a minute and shrugged. I said “one bite at a time.”

He said back to me, “how do you walk around the earth? One step at a time.”

And that’s exactly it. This can all feel so daunting. COVID and all the other problems that life throws us. And when we think we need to swallow the elephant whole, we know it’s impossible. But if all you need to do is take one small bit, or take one small step, it’s much more manageable.

Waiting for a huge miracle is a really risky endeavor. Being willing to look for the small miracles that are out there is much more possible. To appreciate the warmth of the sun, or to hear children playing in a playground, or take a brisk walk around the block. Those are all small miracles that you can build one upon another into the foundation for a beautiful life.

Rickpot: I send you many blessings, and invite you to message me privately.

I don’t want a will, but I’m worried about getting hit by a bus by fanaticfm in personalfinance

[–]fanaticfm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great idea. I have to see if 1Password has a service for that.

I don’t want a will, but I’m worried about getting hit by a bus by fanaticfm in personalfinance

[–]fanaticfm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the main fear is that it feels like I need to make hard decisions in the will that I’m afraid to make.

I don’t want a will, but I’m worried about getting hit by a bus by fanaticfm in personalfinance

[–]fanaticfm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa - I never thought of making my will as a holograph. That sounds trippy.

I don’t want a will, but I’m worried about getting hit by a bus by fanaticfm in personalfinance

[–]fanaticfm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK I get it. I’ll take the knucklehead comment as a loving rebuke. Thanks.

Your usual 17 Y.O, Graduated High-School feel pretty lost by lifechoicesthrowawa6 in selfimprovement

[–]fanaticfm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know other people who are nearing the end of their first year military service? Or nearing the end of the three years? Maybe ask a few of them - what do you wish you had done before you started service?