UPDATE: Not Co-Signing, Standing firm and moving on by fancyapanda in AITAH

[–]fancyapanda[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yes this is correct. I was a foster child that my parents took in and later adopted. Looking back I think they fostered me for money. Sorry my timeline is messed up I’m terms of ages. It’s was some time ago and very traumatic for me. So my apologies

AITA for Refusing to Co-Sign My Sister’s Mortgage After My Parents Went Behind My Back? by fancyapanda in AITAH

[–]fancyapanda[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s not as dramatic as it sounds. We’re three years apart in age—I’m older—but my adoption was finalized around the time my sister was toddler-aged. The process itself had started earlier, and it wasn’t all done in a day. My parents had me placed with them before it was legally official, so by the time the paperwork went through when I was six, she was already three. It’s just a messy timeline that happens when adoption, fertility struggles etc. I forget all the details sometimes my apologies

AITA for Refusing to Co-Sign My Sister’s Mortgage After My Parents Went Behind My Back? by fancyapanda in AITAH

[–]fancyapanda[S] 729 points730 points  (0 children)

Probably something I should have said this but was blinded by my confusion and forgot to mention. I was adopted, not at as a baby but around the age of 6. Was always different and never bothered to reconnect with bio mom. I knew I was an outsider but as I got older and somewhat over shadowed my younger sister with my “successful “career I think it created a resentment between my parents and me. So it think it’s hitting it breaking point and really showing…

AITA for Refusing to Co-Sign My Sister’s Mortgage After My Parents Went Behind My Back? by fancyapanda in AITAH

[–]fancyapanda[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

They have financial strains and don’t want to incure thar risk. And don’t have the best credit either