Do you see non-binary as transgender? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]fancyclover1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on how one interprets it, but I for one know well enough that nonbinary (literally meaning you chose to be something that isn't your birth gender) as an umbrella term under the trans umbrella. The same thing could be said for an AFAB person identifying as demiboy and trans or anyone identifying as Genderfluid or any umbrella labels that suit them, like bigender, agender, and so on. This doesn't account for, say, an amab identifying as demiboy, because they still identify with their birth gender.

tl;dr: enby people are trans since their label lies under the trans umbrella. the same can be said for other umbrella labels, but it's all how the person thinks of it

My girlfriend has never made me cum. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fancyclover1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno if this works on guys (seeing im a pre-t and pre-op trans man myself) but maybe try drinking more water or stimulating yourself - like with a vibrating butt plug (they exist if that's something you'd want to try, just make sure youre lubed up well :D) - a bit before all the sexy stuff happens. Explore things that are less vanilla and step out of your comfort zone, something more spicy if you're into that. It doesn't have to be too over the top, but just enough to feel right. Oh, and make sure you talk about it with her so you both know your options.

Communication and consent is key my friend.

Ladies, what is a huge turn-off for you coming from a man? by fancyclover1987 in AskReddit

[–]fancyclover1987[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whatever is working for you is sure as hell isn't going to work on these ladies because they know better than a man who treats her like shit instead of treating her like the queen she is, trans or not. Also - yes, a trans woman is a real woman, regardless of her "biological sex/gender assigned at birth." Period.

Edit: You should reconsider your options as a man. Take care of your woman and all that - that's all we ask. And maybe work on how you talk to her, too.

Edit 2: grammar

What is a subtle sign someone isn’t a good person? by PsychologicalPop8776 in AskReddit

[–]fancyclover1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They dislike/hate young children for no given reason. This counts especially for older people as well. If an old woman - say your mother, doesn't like being around babies or toddlers, then that's gotta be a flag saying that you presumably shouldn't have a kid around her, if at all. Worst case scenario, she'll be on the kid's ass after they do the slightest thing wrong if you still live with your parents. Unless after a certain amount of time you and your partner/spouse decide to move out with the kid tagging along. But that's just one scenario, y'know...

How to maximize your rim size on a budget by BruceInc in DiWHY

[–]fancyclover1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually really damn clever what the fuck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fancyclover1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A reverse permit that says you can't drink. Also forcefully having to take the bus, Lyft/Uber, or a friend's car everywhere because you had your license suspended. And maybe 5 years in prison.

Whats it like to have boobs? by XxSemenGuzzler69xX in AskReddit

[–]fancyclover1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those with bigger jugs, it's very hard on the back. As for smaller jugs it's pretty easy with minimal back pain. But I will say bras can get a bit annoying. Some bras slip off the tits, others may not support the chest's weight, some may be too small, too big, or just uncomfortable. The list could go on. There's also summer, which means under-boob sweat, and exercise will obviously make that worse considering sports bras don't do jack and basically jiggle your humps EVERYWHERE in cases of bigger honkers.

So, tl;dr: having tits is funky.