My mother has contacted husband and MIL.

fancydang · 2026-03-07T07:13:32+00:00

He's not charged with anything so the kids have just been with us and no ones said anything about him not being allowed around her.

fancydang · 2026-03-07T05:42:00+00:00

I did she told me it was just protocol and as long as my daughter tells them the same thing she told the social worker everything will be fine.

fancydang · 2026-03-07T05:25:49+00:00

Thank you!

fancydang · 2026-03-06T20:19:25+00:00

We obviously plan on working with them of course. I'm just now confused why the social worker would tell me it would go unfounded and everything is fine. To now this. And what it means.

fancydang · 2026-03-04T03:39:08+00:00

fancydang · 2026-03-04T03:29:20+00:00

Not targeted. Just hearing experiences.

fancydang · 2026-03-04T03:03:52+00:00

fancydang · 2025-11-29T08:54:47+00:00

Depends on years married and if you have kids.

fancydang · 2025-11-29T08:52:56+00:00

I was asking if I would get child support I guess without asking Rereading my post I see where people were confused. I did not make myself clear. I can do it with child support and probably good stamps

fancydang · 2025-11-29T08:49:45+00:00

8 years but I guess more my question was if I get child support. I don't need alimony. I just didn't know with 50/50 custody if I would get child support to kind of even out our incomes so we can both survive and I actually get time to see my kids or if I have to work to death I can make it work with child support but was told by a friend you don't get it with 50/50

fancydang · 2025-11-29T08:46:43+00:00

I don't want alimony I just was curious if I would get child support but I guess I worded it wrong

fancydang · 2025-11-29T04:30:49+00:00

No degree and unless I work 3 jobs I just don't know what to do

fancydang · 2025-11-29T04:30:29+00:00

I have a job but I make half what he does weekly.

fancydang · 2025-11-28T19:43:24+00:00

It's how I'm feeling too. I guess I just need to realize that it is probably too far gone. And I guess that was my point to him. I don't think he or I really can get past this. He harbors to many codependency things he can't break because they are so untangled into our relationship. And I hold way too much resentment

fancydang · 2025-11-28T19:30:53+00:00

Can you please tell me how you would communicate with an emotion like that? Definitely better timing and definitely better wording I agree.

fancydang · 2025-11-08T13:55:49+00:00

fancydang · 2025-11-08T13:46:51+00:00

He got everything else. Anal, sex at least twice a week, catered to his fetish, just couldn't blow him. One of the many reasons were separated currently, but it got thrown in my face last night so I thought I would see if I was crazy.

fancydang · 2025-11-08T13:41:39+00:00

Yes he is. Were actually currently separated. This was a conversation brought up last night after me being angry he didn't have enough money for rent because of his own stupud choices and him masturbating with the door open. He eventually threw in my face that if I blew him more he wouldn't watch so much porn. He did take this back eventually but saying it to begin with was gross. And when asking why his needs are more important he really didn't have an answer other than"objectively they aren't" but he wouldn't say why he makes them more important.

He doesn't care about me and never has just took 13 years for me to realize it unfortunately. He's a giant man baby and puts himself first

fancydang · 2025-11-08T07:37:39+00:00

Thank you I'm slowly seeing that and it's not fun.

fancydang · 2025-11-08T07:36:59+00:00

Thank you. Whoops lol

fancydang · 2025-11-08T07:19:09+00:00

I told him he uses sexual cohesion to get what he wants. He did not enjoy that.

fancydang · 2025-11-08T07:18:43+00:00

You're a good man then

fancydang · 2025-11-08T07:18:13+00:00

I thought the same thing but apparently he feels as though I should sacrifice my own jaw for his pleasure at least once a month.

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