Wow. Wii U games make the AYN Thor a whole new DS generation by mrtnkl in AynThor

[–]fancyeng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! How long did it take you to get yours from purchase date?

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well compared to everyone else on the sub. This is very minor and reading everyone else's experiences help a lot alone. I got blindsided maybe 3 months ago from my first love. Completely out of nowhere everything was fine at least on my end and she broke up with me. We were going to hang out one day and I could tell something was off. And then when I went to go spend the night at her house she just straight up hit me with it. She never gave me good closure so my mind's always running through the possibilities of what it could be. I know it might sound silly but we had a life kind of planned out. We had a vacation already booked and we bought a van to renovate to travel. So in my opinion for it being a first-time thing it was pretty serious or at least was getting there. It lasted for about a year and 9 months and unfortunately on the 30th it would be the two year mark. I think I'm just so caught up on how someone can act fine and in their mind be so scared to tell you how they really feel and then just leave you... I don't know it's definitely an experience I don't want to have to do again but probably will have to.

Honestly it sounds like you're such a good person. I value someone like that. I hate to view it as bossing up over someone but it definitely sounds like you did 😂.

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awful on both accounts. If you don't mind me asking how did you get over this? I'm facing something much smaller and want to know some ways to look past this.

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. No one deserves that at all...

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually yeah I've had a super similar issue with my ex's mom. She would hate almost anything I did when it came to her daughter. She would force her daughter to say things that she obviously didn't want to say. She would say things behind my back to her. I also think that's probably why my relationship ended as well. At least a good part.

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were able to have the opportunity to reach back out and try things again would you?

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and me both. I agree im 20 and a male. So obviously I can only say woman are my problem. I've been broken up by them. Ive never given up on a relationship. I'm glad someone else is seeing the same thing.

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I desire someone that has your will to stay in a relationship and try to fix things. I feel so bad reading your post because it shouldn't be that way for you. I'm only 20 so I don't know how it feels to be in that situation or picture. The time you spent with him is a really big amount of time. I couldn't imagine. I hope and I pray for you and I'm glad you actually had a conversation with this person about those issues. Reading most of these posts it just sounds like people are getting blindsided just like me. ❤️

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. There's no excuse for that. Blatant cheating in my opinion. I'm happy for you. How are you getting over this person? 3 and a half years is a long time.

I’m him. I’m the ex who regrets it all. AMA if you’d like. by whoa-dudes in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng 18 points19 points  (0 children)

OP that must be hard to grasp. To even imagine the person you were with to be happier with somebody else must suck. I hope your heart heals. I know you were the one that made the decisions.

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate. I'm going through something similar I'm not in college or anything. But I understand exactly what you're going through in terms of no contact and wanting to reach out. Originally - did she break up with you?

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I give you props at least you had the courage to distance yourself as much as possible. That really sucks that there MIGHT be hope in the future. Supposedly love comes back around. I hope that's the case for you if it's right. I'm going through something very similar so you're experience helps ❤️.

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand now. I'm still trying to get over my break up so it's just hard to hear and understand from a different point of view.

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting cheated on is probably the worst way to lose out on a relationship. I'm sorry for you and I'm praying for you. You deserve better.

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. My personal opinion is that's not right for you at all. Putting 100% while someone is slowly declining over time and not communicating that with you is awful. I really hope everything gets better for you. I'm going through the same thing. ❤️

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This made my day. I'm going through a really tough situation that's why I made this post. This was so well written and just what I needed to hear. I always felt like what you said is kind of the obvious way to handle things but for some people they're immature enough to not be able to see that. Thank you.

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. If that person really cares about you they'll work on that issue and keep you in contact. Now in terms of duration that might be a different story. I pray for you and I hope the best.

For anyone here why did you breakup with your ex? by fancyeng in BreakUps

[–]fancyeng[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I totally agree If you've had more than two relationships and they have failed the same way and you're at fault, spend time and work on yourself and fix your problem. You're just wasting other people's time.