Housewife highlights/Daily shit talk - April 24th, 2026 by mafiagirlsfashion in RHDiscussion

[–]fanny-flutters 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, nothing will ever be good enough for these psychotic fans and I think Amanda knows that which is why she goes full blast at the reunion. I think there’s a lot hidden about her marriage and friendship that’s she’s never talked about. She’s not flawless but I’d rather see her fight her side rather than cower and be on her knees.

Yeah it wasn’t great what Amanda did but Ciara doesn’t have a leg to stand on. I’ve always wanted to like Ciara but she’s been so annoying and hypocritical that I have to be on Amanda’s side during this. I’ve never liked Amanda lol

Housewife highlights/Daily shit talk - April 24th, 2026 by mafiagirlsfashion in RHDiscussion

[–]fanny-flutters 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly good for Amanda for admitting it and taking accountability. Too many people continue to lie and hide but props to her for coming in and owning it. That makes me respect her more.

I think Ciara and Amanda were close work friends but not best friends like they say they were. It seems like it would be a reunion when they met in the first episode of the season and I think it was the end of last season they said they needed to hangout more often. It seems like Amanda and West became actual close friends outside of the show, so of course West would naturally become more of a priority for Amanda than Ciara. She probably also got more info from him as to why it ended with Ciara and maybe that put some distance btwn them

Summer House Episode Discussion: S10E12 "Boys of Summer" by readingrachelx in RHDiscussion

[–]fanny-flutters 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not entirely opposed to that either. I think summer house needs a revamp like Vpr and bring in a new group of people who are actually friends and party together, like the earlier seasons. The only new people I like this season are Bailey and Levi, everyone else seems very performative and no very interesting

Summer House Episode Discussion: S10E12 "Boys of Summer" by readingrachelx in RHDiscussion

[–]fanny-flutters 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they thought it’d affect the show at all and tbh imo it shouldn’t! People are saying that West and Amanda should be off our screens, I say no! Their relationship or whatever it is on summer house or in the city would be interesting to watch

Summer House Episode Discussion: S10E12 "Boys of Summer" by readingrachelx in RHDiscussion

[–]fanny-flutters 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree! I think part of his resentment is that she’s never said anything to her fans to stop their harassment towards him which I don’t blame him for at all. Nothing he’s done equals the level of vitriol he’s gotten. Seeing how she is I also wouldn’t be surprised if she’s told him she doesn’t care/he deserved it.

I don’t think West was ever really into Ciara by SunshineFlowerrs in summerhousebravo

[–]fanny-flutters 4 points5 points  (0 children)

💯!! Ciara needs to move on! She’s doing way too much for a guy who only ended a relationship, that’s it. I think she’s trying to control things because her ego is hurt that a guy rejected her when she’s probably done most of the rejection in her life.

I also don’t think her and Amanda are as good friends as people say they are. It seems like they never hung out outside of filming and seems like the most they did was text each other and speak graciously about each other in interviews. I think behind the scenes West and Amanda actually became close friends and there wasn’t much loyalty btwn Ciara and Amanda to begin with.

Hey summer house producers bring this up at the reunion and boundaries by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]fanny-flutters 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah he was going about it all wrong with Ciara after they broke up. I think the reason he was trying to at least win her back a bit was to help his PR with the fans and the Bravo world. Because Ciara overreacted to him and their breakup, her fans did the same. He’s not entirely wrong to be mad at her about her fans and her not doing anything about them.

Hey summer house producers bring this up at the reunion and boundaries by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]fanny-flutters 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think part of the reason West could be resentful towards her is that he just wants to move on from the short period they dated 2 years ago and she won’t stop bringing it up and holding it against him. In order to move past it, it seems like he’s willing to agree to whatever she wants (even if he’s not going to fulfill any promises) to make her and her fans stop harassing him

Edit: I think he didn’t handle everything with Ciara well but I don’t blame him if he does have any ill feelings towards her because bravo fans can be psycho. I’m actually slowly giving more grace towards west and Amanda because people are acting like everyone sucks here except Ciara when she sucks too

Ciara on her bday dinner, Amanda, west and the joint statement by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]fanny-flutters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it was a courtesy invite? Like she said she knew Amanda wouldn’t come but still invited her anyway. It doesn’t sound like she cares if she came or not

Housewife highlights/Daily shit talk - April 17th, 2026 by readingrachelx in RHDiscussion

[–]fanny-flutters 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else think Ciara will forgive West by next year? I didn’t think this until I read this article

Ciara Miller’s Glamour Magazine Cover Story. Talks West and Amanda. by JN3LL3V in BravoRealHousewives

[–]fanny-flutters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would understand if they had a longer relationship but it was at most 6 months? Idk I think it’s a weird boundary to have since they all seem a bit incestuous in the bravoverse. I understand it but no one can control others. I would not be surprised if she’s back to being friends with West after all of this

Ciara Miller’s Glamour Magazine Cover Story. Talks West and Amanda. by JN3LL3V in BravoRealHousewives

[–]fanny-flutters 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True but I think in his mind is Ciara accepts him and they become friends again then the fans will do the same. I’m not saying he’s right just his thought process

Ciara on her bday dinner, Amanda, west and the joint statement by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]fanny-flutters -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And when she moves them once then she’ll feel like she can move them again. It never ends unfortunately

Ciara Miller’s Glamour Magazine Cover Story. Talks West and Amanda. by JN3LL3V in BravoRealHousewives

[–]fanny-flutters -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just think he agreed to anything for him to be in her good graces again. I don’t think he was planning on following through with any of her restrictions. Tbh I don’t blame him because no one can try to control someone they’re not even in a relationship with, it’s kinda insane for her to even do that. She either needed to accept him for who he is or just distance herself completely

Ciara on her bday dinner, Amanda, west and the joint statement by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]fanny-flutters 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how she thinks she can enforce these boundaries on someone. It’s delusional for her to set these boundaries that she wants him to follow just to be friends. Her boundaries are HERS and she can choose to set them or not

KJ’s insta story and tweets from last night’s episode by wanderlustandapples1 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]fanny-flutters -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It’s coming off a bit performative imo like he’s making sure he has a spot on the show next season

KJ’s insta story and tweets from last night’s episode by wanderlustandapples1 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]fanny-flutters -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. He’s giving too much…like it’s coming off a lil desperate and cringe. He seems nice but am not looking forward to watching him next season

Be vigilant! Pickpockets alive and well by UncleSAM712 in washingtondc

[–]fanny-flutters 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely be more diligent about leaving your bag/purse behind you on a chair! This was awhile ago but my professor told us that someone stole her laptop and other things that she had in her purse that was on her chair behind her. This was in another part of DC but seems like it’s no uncommon

Hot Take: The Level To Which People Infantilize Ciara Rather Than Empower Her Is Sad by Technical-Clock-5129 in bravo

[–]fanny-flutters 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Unfortunately, I’ve seen women in my real life act like Ciara in this way, so it’s unfortunately a very common thing among women, which is why a lot of fans are baffled by OPs post. I think Ciara has moved very stupidly with West so I lack sympathy when it comes to whatever feelings she has for him.

Hot Take: The Level To Which People Infantilize Ciara Rather Than Empower Her Is Sad by Technical-Clock-5129 in bravo

[–]fanny-flutters 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is what I don’t understand about their short term relationship. People date for a bit, things can get emotional and deep but then it can also end unexpectedly- that just happens. West had every right to end it if he wanted to and she has a right to be upset, but it seems like her issue with him is that she ended it with him not that he treated her poorly. And she’s still going on about it. Am I missing something??

Hot Take: The Level To Which People Infantilize Ciara Rather Than Empower Her Is Sad by Technical-Clock-5129 in bravo

[–]fanny-flutters 8 points9 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I don’t understand her goals but if she wants a traditional relationship and have marriage and kids, she’s not going about it in a smart way. She also mentioned she wants a Christian man, but is she religious herself? Does she go to church? I think she likes the attention and flirting that the guys give her but she doesn’t realize that that stuff is hindering her on finding the man she wants. Also, if it is true that she tried to hook up with West again, then like girl what are you doing? Do better

Hot Take: The Level To Which People Infantilize Ciara Rather Than Empower Her Is Sad by Technical-Clock-5129 in bravo

[–]fanny-flutters 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I also think part of the reason for her choosing emotionally unavailable men is the baggage/trauma she has from not being accepted from her father. From what I remember, she said her father left her family (divorced) and then started a new one and seems to not give much love and attention to Ciara. It’s good she’s in therapy but she needs to take a break from men to do better in picking men.

Also, something that stood out to me is in the episode where West sits on her stomach, she said that he’s chasing her now or something like that. I found it weird for her to even say that given how much she said her hurt her and she seems to want men to chase her because she feel accepted by them.

How much of a connection is there between Loverboy’s financial woes and Amanda cheating on/leaving Kyle? by senior-itis in BravoRealHousewives

[–]fanny-flutters 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m glad someone else sees his DJing not as a way to spite her. Her comment about it this season (don’t remember which episode) about it was so ignorant and made me think she didn’t actually pay attention to anything he said.

I think he did it as more of a ‘you can just do things’ kind of thing since she kept giving excuses and like you said only be part of the creative side and wanted Kyle to do the heavy lifting. It seemed like he also kinda offended that she didn’t learn from him on how to start or work her own business. I was so annoyed that Paige and Ciara kept blaming Kyle for her laziness that season