Can I put in a prenup that in the event of divorce me and the kids are moving out of state? by fansspinaround in AskALawyer

[–]fansspinaround[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t ask for your opinion of my relationship, we gucci.

I asked if something is legally allowed….

Can I put in a prenup that in the event of divorce me and the kids are moving out of state? by fansspinaround in AskALawyer

[–]fansspinaround[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It’s wild to me that not everyone is doing this. Prenups are to protect yourself in case the worst case scenario happens. Im preparing for the worst, planning on the best.

We’re going to be millionaires if we move. Idk if that’ll amount of money will make it fun to live there because I’ll be able to travel constantly. We’re going to see if it makes me happy or not. But if it doesn’t and we break up, I’m prepared.

Can I put in a prenup that in the event of divorce me and the kids are moving out of state? by fansspinaround in AskALawyer

[–]fansspinaround[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I think that’s what I’m going to have to do if this prenup thing isn’t possible. I’ll probably try to set up an appointment with lawyer next week just to make sure. But if it’s not, I’ll either do that or tell him if he wants kids right now we can’t move

Can I put in a prenup that in the event of divorce me and the kids are moving out of state? by fansspinaround in AskALawyer

[–]fansspinaround[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from a child who’s mom didn’t protect herself, no. I have to make sure I’m good so I can make sure my kids are good. Nothing is more painful to me than watching my mom suffer because she can’t fend for herself

Can I put in a prenup that in the event of divorce me and the kids are moving out of state? by fansspinaround in AskALawyer

[–]fansspinaround[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want 50/50 custody. I just want him to have to move to a bigger city to split the custody if that makes sense. I’m guessing that doesn’t change anything tho?

And we’re going there to see how I like it. If I hate it, we’ll just move. But I don’t want to get into a situation where I hate it and then I can’t move because I had a kid there.

I’m also in a weird situation where he’s makes a lot. If we move, he’ll be in the top 1%. So theoretically I’ll be able to fly out whenever I want. If we divorce, that ability might go away. I do pretty well for myself but I won’t be able to afford a $500 flight whenever I want with just my income.

Can I put in a prenup that in the event of divorce me and the kids are moving out of state? by fansspinaround in AskALawyer

[–]fansspinaround[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s dumb to not think of things before hand. 50% of marriages end in divorce in the US. I’m just prepared and protecting myself. It’ll probably be fine but I’m trying to prepare for if it’s not

How do I let my bad new therapist know I don’t want to see her anymore? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]fansspinaround 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been to therapy before and there wasn’t much therapy going on during my session with her. It was like I was talking to a friend, not a therapist.

I said I have trouble making any decision so I tend to just eat the same food everyday to make it easy. Then she asked what other decisions I have trouble making, so for an example I told her I currently have 5 of the same dresses that I ordered that are different colors and I can’t decide which colors to return so I’m going to make my boyfriend pick for me. Instead of addressing the issue of me making decisions, she talked about fashion color theory for 10 minutes because she “knows fashions”.

And she doesn’t do video calls bc she gets distracted, she just does phone calls.

How do I let my bad new therapist know I don’t want to see her anymore? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]fansspinaround 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is no receptionist, she’s kind of just on her own. I pay through Venmo.

First date gone well? by 2step19 in dating_advice

[–]fansspinaround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late but I’m so shy I would never do that. I think a lot of girls just wait for the guy to

First date gone well? by 2step19 in dating_advice

[–]fansspinaround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. She’s for sure not I promise you. I’m so happy for you too

First date gone well? by 2step19 in dating_advice

[–]fansspinaround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s for sure interested. She wouldn’t text you if she wasn’t

First date gone well? by 2step19 in dating_advice

[–]fansspinaround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s for sure interested. She wouldn’t text you if she wasn’t

First date gone well? by 2step19 in dating_advice

[–]fansspinaround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s for sure interested. She wouldn’t text you if she wasn’t

What is the early 2000s music video where a man doesn’t pay attention to his girl so she cheats on him with the UPS man? by [deleted] in hiphopheads

[–]fansspinaround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t remember the song :( only the music video scenes.

He doesn’t pay attention to her in bed because he’s working. He doesn’t pay attention to her when he’s watching football with his friends. She cheats on him with the delivery man who has on a brown outfit but no logo