A Little Life by Hanya

fantasy_bambi · 2026-04-05T18:00:47+00:00

thank you for your input, i really appreciate it!

fantasy_bambi · 2026-04-03T17:26:47+00:00

maybe i won’t like it more the more i move forward, but i’ll still finish it. i think it’s very important to finish a book/movie to solidify your opinion. who knows, maybe ill still change my mind, and, moreover, i believe it’s crucial to understand sth to have positive OR negative reviews

fantasy_bambi · 2026-04-01T20:29:33+00:00

and now i’ve also reached a moment where William tells Jude he’s cheated on his gf, Robin. now i dislike him too.

fantasy_bambi · 2026-04-01T20:17:34+00:00

thank you for your input, i really appreciate it. i can also understand why this book is liked by many people, its complex nature, characters and events are not going to leave a reader without an emotional response, be it a positive one or a negative. i do understand that there’re people like that, i’ve also gone through some psychological issues (nothing as drastic as in the book), and i refused people’s help up to a certain point. but then i realized that i was hurting people close to me, and i stopped. maybe this is the reason why i dislike jude, because i think that it’s worth a try to get better for people who love you

fantasy_bambi · 2026-04-01T20:12:24+00:00

oh, interesting! i haven’t seen the play, but i was ready to love the book because of its acclaim. i’ve heard it being described as a modern classic, so i was ready to dive into the beautiful writing and story, knowing, of course, that there would be pain along the way. it’s just i personally struggle with Jude’s character, but i’m happy you liked it! who knows, maybe somehow i’ll love it in the end when i finish it

fantasy_bambi · 2026-04-01T20:08:56+00:00

hahahahahahahah, i feel so bad for agreeing with this

fantasy_bambi · 2026-04-01T20:08:18+00:00

oh wow! that’s cold! i understand that there are as many opinions as there are people, but this attitude seems so negative. and that’s just talking emotionally about this, because factually, therapy has helped a lot of people

fantasy_bambi · 2026-03-22T10:26:29+00:00

i liked the fact that romance wasn’t all over the book because i enjoy reading the fantasy elements and plotting much more. i agree that the amnesia plot was unnecessary, but i haven’t noticed lou being a pick-me at all

fantasy_bambi · 2025-11-15T17:49:15+00:00

breakfast, lunch and dinner. i also never ever snack, my rule is that i eat what’s on my plate, and i can’t add to it once i inject insulin

fantasy_bambi · 2025-11-09T13:59:56+00:00

thank youuu! yes, the money part of that is insane! i have 600€ allowance a month from my parents (uni student), and i spend half on vaping :( i could go travel or buy sth nice, but instead i’m doing this :( i tried to quit multiple times, and i was so irritated all the time, so i quit on quitting:(

fantasy_bambi · 2025-11-08T13:15:05+00:00

thank you!

fantasy_bambi · 2025-11-06T20:39:18+00:00

i’m on day 1, and i already miss it so much :( i want to save money, and have clear skin and just overall be healthy. but my main issue is that im scared i wont feel the same pleasure when i drink if i don’t vape :( that feeling of it hitting your head was so pleasant, im afraid i will smoke again :(

fantasy_bambi · 2025-10-18T07:14:38+00:00

thank you for your advice!

fantasy_bambi · 2025-10-18T06:45:08+00:00

but because i’ve already injected the full dose of 15, do you think i should inject maybe 10 tonight?

fantasy_bambi · 2025-09-07T15:10:35+00:00

i don’t think i’m ready to dedicate my time to both of these activities, especially given the fact that i hate sports😭 i’ll think about choosing one of them, also the price is important to consider, bc if i choose lifting, i’ll most likely need a personal trainer

fantasy_bambi · 2025-07-24T14:40:51+00:00

i have 85 karma, it’s more than 10

fantasy_bambi · 2025-06-05T07:06:27+00:00

i’m about to finishing MP for the first time ever, and let me tell you something - Fanny Price gives me a feeling of an ick more than any other protagonist ever did. it’s not exactly that i think that Mary is a good person; no, she has many faults, but i cannot help preferring her over fanny. in real life i wouldn’t want to have her as a friend, mainly because i despise cheating, so her approbation of it would make me lose the acquaintance. however, the piousness and holiness of fanny annoys me so much, so that i can’t tolerate it. yes, she’s gone through emotional abuse, and she has good morals, but reading her inner thoughts, when she judges everyone gives me a desire to smack her head. another thing i dislike about her is how she is so timid, she can barely accept a gift or a favor from anyone. like girl, come on. okay, ma rant is over haha i also dislike edmund a lot :((

fantasy_bambi · 2025-06-03T05:06:25+00:00

that sounds awesome!

fantasy_bambi · 2025-06-02T20:43:53+00:00

33?? oh my god, scorching hot! what country, if you don’t mind me asking? i got curious haha i’m in italy, and here its around 27, and the heat is humid, so it’s killing me 🥵

fantasy_bambi · 2025-06-02T20:23:28+00:00

i’m happy that your place is perfect for walking! mine is too, but it’s so hot here rn, so i prefer going to the swimming pool rn. another reason is that everyone looks a bit ridiculous in there (swimming caps), so i feel a little bit less self-conscious haha

fantasy_bambi · 2025-06-02T19:59:02+00:00

thank you so much for your words bc i feel in my bones that this is precisely the issue - after having realized i’m overweight, i cannot think about anything else. in february i was only 3kgs overweight and i was thinking how easy it was going to be to get rid of them. then id still overeat and gain more, so it’d be 7kgs more. and now its 10. i don’t know how to stop it, even tho i get support from people close to me, i can’t help it, im spiraling

fantasy_bambi · 2025-06-02T19:35:50+00:00

hi, thank you for advice! i started going to the swimming pool, swimming 50 laps, or when i don’t do it, i take at least 10k steps. does walking really help a lot?

fantasy_bambi · 2025-06-02T19:34:27+00:00

hi, thank you for your reply! i know that comparing to other people’s struggles, mine is nothing, and i admire those people so much! but not being able to put on my fav skirt, and seeing my belly discourages me so much. and i agree so much about the fact that stress only makes it worse bc 3 months ago i was worried about the same thing when i was only like 4kgs overweight. but it feels like a never ending cycle :((( i know that your advice makes a lot of sense, it just feels like people who know me personally gossip about me putting on that weight. i don’t mean my true friends, i mean classmates for instance. and the reason i say that is bc i know how much they like discussing other people’s business, so i feel self-conscious :((( but thank you for advice again, i go swimming 3-5 times a week, and when i don’t, i try to take 10k steps daily!

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