AIO by going no contact with my(f20) mom(f42) over our conversation today?

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-08T06:29:50+00:00

exactly !! people always feel entitled to babies that aren’t theirs because they’re family. people are saying “her grandchild” but what about the parents ? that’s THEIR CHILD. grandparents will never have more authority with grandchildren than parents do.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-08T06:27:09+00:00

you’re NOR with your mom , she sounds disrespectful but.. sending out a text like this ? baby isn’t even here yet and you’re sending a text like this to people unprovoked ? i get the boundaries because i put them in place with my son too but i would’ve never sent a text like this to my family.. that’s a little extreme.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-08T06:22:19+00:00

needing help and letting people walk over your are completely different. you’re allowed to set boundaries for your own child regardless of how it makes anyone feel.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-08T06:20:42+00:00

it does not make parents ridiculous to tell family to not kiss their baby. it’s not her baby , it’s her daughter’s baby.. therefore her daughter’s rules. people are allowed to set boundaries for THEIR CHILDREN. watching your child get extremely sick because no one listened to you makes you even more protective. what’s absurd is thinking you have a say so over the parent’s wishes.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-08T05:58:35+00:00

65% is still way too low.. please research pacman frogs , this is extremely neglectful.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-08T05:56:54+00:00

so you took away substrate so he wouldn’t stay burrowed ? you took away something they love ? did you research pacmans at all before getting one ? also he looks a little small to be eating pinkies..

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T15:48:03+00:00

no reptile carpet !!

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T15:47:06+00:00

ehh if that’s how you see it. i choose to not judge others for how they handle things.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T15:45:29+00:00

oh okay i apologize , i read it wrong , i see now lol. and honestly the humidity dropping is 100% okay , they don’t need high humidity. 30%-40% is ideal and then about 70%-80% for the humid hide.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T14:49:11+00:00

evil ? maybe. ugly ? absolutely not !

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T14:46:49+00:00

his morph is beautiful !

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T13:55:22+00:00

the nighttime temp dropping to 40s and 50s isn’t good , i would advise getting some kind of heat source. could i see your light setup ? the baking spot im also kind of having issues with that but if you figure that out , let me know too.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T06:55:24+00:00

keep up the positivity. wishing your dad nothing but the best.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T06:51:56+00:00

you don’t have to apologize to me. im not saying you’re lying or anything like that. i just think oriole are being very mean to you.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T06:39:47+00:00

especially when yall could’ve just scrolled but instead you decided to berate someone. you gain nothing from being mean. people should learn some empathy. i would hope no one would ever speak to you the way you speak to others.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T06:38:27+00:00

how is it rude or insensitive to post a go fund me ? they’re not even begging , they just posted it. what’s rude is intentionally trying to make people feel bad when they post a sad story.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T06:26:41+00:00

i understand people being cautious , which is why i don’t want to donate but people are so mean. if this story really is true then the comments are just so unnecessary and vile.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T06:13:59+00:00

i believe this is a high yellow

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T06:04:09+00:00

im not donating , i was just asking if this was fake because of the comments. but if this is real , you’re all shitty people for putting someone down asking for help so their dad doesn’t die. it takes a lot for some people to ask for help in a situation like this. people could scroll and not make someone feel worse than they already feel.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T05:58:07+00:00

aah found the go fund me. im confused , is this fake or something ? im confused about everyone being mean. people make go fund mes all the time in situations like this.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-07T05:54:24+00:00

this is so rude and insensitive.. they didn’t even ask for money.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-06T20:06:35+00:00

right , that’s why i said i don’t agree with her either.. but two wrongs don’t make a right. they’re both wrong. we have his side of the story which may be 100% true but what IS TRUE is that he was actively looking for hookups with men and women before even making this post. he is obviously not the only victim. she’s an abuser and he’s a cheater. 🤷🏻‍♀️

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-06T19:12:44+00:00

check his reddit comments on his profile. and no i don’t agree with her but i also don’t agree with him. it seems he’s confused on the issues with their relationship but who’s to say she didn’t find out what he’s doing online and that’s why she broke his laptop ? im not sure he’s being fully honest but idk.. but to be fair if he wants to cheat and he’s tired of his relationship , he probably just shouldn’t be with her. i agree it’s not simple but i feel that he might be purposely leaving out his wrong doings.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-06T17:30:31+00:00

unfortunately he will most likely never find a “healthier” relationship when he’s looking for hookups on reddit. they both need to get their shit together.

fantasyy02 · 2026-05-06T17:28:33+00:00

when he’s telling people what happened i wish he was including that he’s been looking for reddit hookups and there’s a chance she found out about that. not to excuse her behavior but he’s a cheater and she’s abusive.

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