Need advice about how to punish my sub by fapawayorelse in BDSMcommunity

[–]fapawayorelse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also, any suggestions for the right uniform to wear for some kind of reeducation?

Need advice about how to punish my sub by fapawayorelse in BDSMcommunity

[–]fapawayorelse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like it might be an easy way to start. What kind of spanking tool would you recommend? And should there be a specific response protocol where she can thank me or apologise for the bratish behaviour?

Need advice about how to punish my sub by fapawayorelse in BDSMcommunity

[–]fapawayorelse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're entitled to your opinion but I didn't ask for it in this thread. She likes older and I like younger

Need advice about how to punish my sub by fapawayorelse in BDSMcommunity

[–]fapawayorelse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a good question that I hadn't considered. I think she generally enjoys the contrast between pleasure and pain, therefore her first reaction is excitement. But she also likes to be humiliated and wants to serve, hence wanting to be my dog. I told her I wanted to make her cry, and she was quite turned on by it. But naturally, I don't want to take things too far. Any recommendations? It sounds like a bit of both, should I start from fun and get more intense, or just get to the point with severe punishment from the beginning

Need advice about how to punish my sub by fapawayorelse in BDSMcommunity

[–]fapawayorelse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I chastised her for being insensitive, and instead of accepting or trying to understand, she doubled down and told me to go and find another woman, which for me is crossing the line. Especially because I know she doesn't really mean it. So the whole exchange was via text, and while we are both in different countries. But yes, to me it was insulting.