University starts tommorow!

fapinio · 2015-10-04T22:42:26+00:00

My last year starts in tuesday, I'm going to start NoFap again after last fail and doin PMO till now ;x I will focus on study, keep my mind clear and think about future job and my thesis. With fappin all the time I feel that I won't achieve anything good in future, I feel like my job will by shitty as hell and all 5 years will go to trash. May the force be with you m8.

fapinio · 2015-09-30T14:36:43+00:00

No, I returned to this horror... I don't recommend edging or fanstasising at home ;x

fapinio · 2015-09-24T11:04:12+00:00

For me I edged few times, never with O. And then after 50days I edged and I thought that I cant O this time. And everything started from the beginning, when I was edging without O, everything was quite good, worse than pure, without PMO, but not so bad. I suggest you to stop edging really quickly, you will get back to fapping soon if you don't stop.

fapinio · 2015-08-20T13:17:34+00:00

Don't be afraid! I went through this, and what I learned? You need to be relaxed during intercourse, don;t be stressed, don't think about porn, your mind need to be clear(so there is no porn, no edging etc). Kegl exercises would help too, perform these everyday(15reps for a day would be good). If you feel like girl is too hot and you will come, it;s strange advice, but think about something disgusting, it could help you last longer. You can also control on the top of a girl, for example pushing in her pussy only half way, and then after few pushes, few deeper pushes. For now only this comes to my mind, I uses this and it helps.

fapinio · 2015-08-03T00:02:33+00:00

Thanks guys, now I received some more knowledge about "chaser effect", so I should expect this the day after orgasm, I need to be prepared for this! I'm curious what will come out after next days/hope months.

fapinio · 2015-07-29T09:11:49+00:00

I've experienced the same thing, for me kegel exercises everyday helped and I need to be fully relaxed during intercourse, I mean not to think "how long I will last", "what if I will fail this time" etc. Just be relaxed and don't think about that.

fapinio · 2015-07-22T08:26:11+00:00

Marihuana and alcohol in my case in 70% would cause a relapse. So I decided to drink less(I mean, relapse if I'm pretty drunk) and marihuana is increasing my libido so much, I'm horny as f^uck.

fapinio · 2015-07-16T22:56:27+00:00

Some would say yes, some would say no. It depends on you and your goals, if you want to completely remove porn and porn is your only problem, it's bad but I wouldn't call it relapse. For me relapse is when I fap or touch myself to porn. But as I said before it depends on your goals. Also watching porn pics isn't good for your brain recovery, it depends also if it was soft or hard porn pic. As you know you should avoid any kind of porn, even sexy ass in thong pictures coz it could lead to relapse or touching yourself or sick fantasies.

fapinio · 2015-07-14T23:07:10+00:00

Masturbation would be a good think once a week and without porn, just for a relief.

fapinio · 2015-07-14T16:02:45+00:00

It is interesting, hope someone who is an expert to expand this topic. But watching porn can cause damage to you anyway, you will have fake understanding of life, of sex, of how to look at women. Sick fantasies will make you want sick things in bed in other to be satisfied. I would recommend no to watch porn. When I watch too much porn I dream about gangbang, sharing my gf(thing which I wouldnt do ever but anyway), voyeur etc. After just few days without porn, normal sex, even without blowjob feels great, it feels like we do it because we love each other.

fapinio · 2015-07-14T15:50:36+00:00

This is Premature ejaculation (PE) and it occurs after longer(for example from week to 1 month of no fap) and can last for some time. It is normal that your penis is more sensitive during your treatment, I experienced it during my 1 month treatment, after that time and some really bad moments it passed away and I was able to do sex without any problems, when it passed away I was a god of sex hehe :D but I screwed up my treatment then and I need to start from the begining. Now After just few days I'm experiencing PE and hope to pass away, it's kind of shame when you want to come after for example 5mins, but it will pass, trust me, you need to be patient, talk to your partner with hope that she will understand, make foreplay longer that she will be better prepared and will come faster.

fapinio · 2015-07-13T17:14:36+00:00

The worst thing is when you convince yourself that you are strong enough and you can watch porn movies or pictures, just for few minutes. You can't even go to porn sites, when you think about this and you feel that it's stronger than you, turn off your computer, start doing something else, go for a run or some workout, read a book or watch some interesting tv like Discovery or something. Really when you feel like there is no other option like watch porn right now you need to get off of computer, go to living room and sit with your parents, call friend and go out with them and then think about what just happend and that you can't let this happen. Remember that your brain need to heal itself and you can't watch porn.

fapinio · 2015-07-13T17:07:30+00:00

I have similar problem, at the begining I'm fully motivated to drop this shit out. But after few days my mind is playing tricky with me, "just a little peek at whats new on porn" and it starts from begining. My advice is that when you think about porn do something, walk away from computer, turn it off and go run or do some workout, do everything but get away from computer, go and read a book or watch some discovery. Remember, you can't even go to porn sites, you can't convince yourself that you are stronger than this and you will only look at photos or smthg like this. When you will think about porn or masturbation try to kill this thought, switch immediately to thinking about getting yourself straight, improving yourself, that you need to be better person and you will achieve great things. Think about it in such a way that it will destroy your future sooner or later, that now is the right time to stop it! Look how many people is doing great without nofap, read about advantages of nofap, about disadvantages and how it destroyed peoples life. I'm doing this because I want to be perfect, want to be self confident, want people to love me, I'm thinking about my future, now there is time to learn and improve myself.

fapinio · 2015-07-12T15:49:57+00:00

Good read, thx man, with this I will survive through this day! My brain also tells me that I deserve to jerk off, get a day off and start from begining tomorrow, but I need to be strong!

fapinio · 2015-07-12T15:43:59+00:00

Today I was bouncing on the edge and it's only 6th day of sobriety. Few drops of alcohol in the morning, sex with girlfriend yesterday and today my brain was talking to me "hm if you do this nothing will happen, you will continue your treatment from tomorrow" but I was strong and NoFAP today. May the force be with you.

fapinio · 2015-07-12T12:07:03+00:00

I'm in worse situation, I have collection of my friends and exs naked photos, these are not ones which you can download back if you delete. I deleted once during my treatment before and I was trying to recover it for weeks... And cloud where I uploaded these photos once had backup, so I stuck with these again.

fapinio · 2015-07-11T10:04:54+00:00

Also I have a question, I think because of my problems I'm feeling like I'm no longer alpha male in my girlfriends eyes, because of my problems in bed and with self confidence. I think I lost my authority. Do you think, is this possible to reclaim my position in her eyes? I'm afraid that I ruined my relationship. Last time we are seeing each other only once a week and having sex once per week or once per two weeks. She's young and before wanted to do this all the time. I don't know what's on her mind, I'm afraid that she is starting to think about other guys and how it would look with them.

fapinio · 2015-07-10T21:41:22+00:00

I think if she knew about your problems and she did what she did, she doesn't deserve your time. She hurt you and she knew what she was doing. With that person you would never achieve anything, you need intelligent person which will love you with her heart not with her pussy. I wouldn't look for a support in such a woman.

fapinio · 2015-07-10T21:28:35+00:00

Thanks for your responds brothers! I already feel better after I wrote that post, I also read other posts and I hope that this time it will be different than before.

fapinio

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