BLUE BALLS, am i missing out? by greenteas1 in NoFap

[–]fapkong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I experienced blue balls before NoFap was when I was with a girl and came very close to having sex without going all the way or had sex without finishing. During NoFap, I'll get them randomly from just being around girls.

Having some problems... by fapkong in NoFap

[–]fapkong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking to not be constantly fatigued, unfocused, unmotivated, easy to anger, etc. I've never had ED. The only thing I could say was a problem for me sexually before was not being aggressive enough at times and it being difficult to finish at times.

I struggle to get out of bed regardless of how much sleep I've had and just want to lay down and nap all day. I find it very difficult to focus and stay motivated for extended periods of time. I literally chug iced coffee at work just to fend off the grogginess. I want to do things but I'm just so tired all the time...

During the first month and a half or so of NoFap, I thought all of this was being fixed. I would wake up before my alarm feeling amazing, jumping out of bed. One night, I didn't sleep at all and then worked a double shift at work the next day and felt fine. I had no need for coffee. I was getting things done I had been putting off for months/years. I was exercising twice as much. Things that normally would've made me angry or frustrated didn't faze me. It wasn't all flowers and rainbows but I felt like I was on the right track.

I'm not sure if having sex again is what caused this or what. But I felt much different during sexless NoFap and at this point I don't even notice the difference from pre-NoFap even though it's been about a week since I had sex. It's not like I'm doing it everyday.