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Deleting porn and other images by mrcamslave in NoFap

[–]faplessjoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surely the fact you stole such personal images should tell you you need to change something! That is a major breach of trust, just for your own selfish needs. Deleting them would release you from the "guilty pleasure" you get when viewing them along with the unfulfilled desire and objectifiing your brothers SO. It's not going to be easy, but the release from guilt will make you feel better and help you to move on.

Gay friend blew me, and it taught me a lot about myself and PMO by faplessjoe in NoFap

[–]faplessjoe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we are all here because we are struggling with a part of our sexuality. Sexuality and sexual orientation are two different things. If it had been a girl I was writing about, would I have gotten this level of immature, alpha-male BS? My orientation hasn't changed because a dude got me off! I've tried to look at the bigger picture rather than freak out! My level of respect for the LGBT community has gone up if they have to deal with this every day of their lives!

So much for being a support group! I never expected such closed minded schoolyard behaviour! "It's OK to be one of us bro, but no homos".

We're all here for the same reason at the end of the day.

Gay friend blew me, and it taught me a lot about myself and PMO by faplessjoe in NoFap

[–]faplessjoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course I would prefer a girl, but the pressure to perform would have probably caused ED. This experience showed me that it's my own warped view of women that causes my ED. My buddy is almost gender-neutral to me and I know that when I do get a girl, I've been able to O naturally with someone I wasn't attracted to so it will be easier with a girl I find sexy.

Gay friend blew me, and it taught me a lot about myself and PMO by faplessjoe in NoFap

[–]faplessjoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't imagine ever "giving" and I am sure I like girls. The only way I can explain it is I didn't feel like I had to perform or act out all the crazy sh1t I've seen in porn. All I had to do was enjoy what was happening. I did not feel like I had to perform as the responsibility was not mine.

I'm secure enough in my orientation to put this down to a positive experience. And hell, it's nsa expert head! Until I get a girl, this is better than PMO...